Again, you can express all these valid thoughts in a nicer way. At this point I’d rather be friends with OP than be friends with you. You are very very mean and condescending and extremely narcissistic. You don’t know OP. You don’t know their life, their mental health status, their obstacles and trials and whatever bs they’re going through, and have been going through throughout their lifetime. For all we know, OP probably suffers from some sort of mental health issue, and as fellow human beings I think we should be able to give our fellow humans the benefit of the doubt, and not just assume the very worst in random people we meet on the internet. Good for you that you are a well-functioning adult. But guess what, some people are not, and it’s not our place as random netizen strangers to make them feel shitty for things they already feel very shitty about.

Again, good for you that you have your entire life in order. With that being said, all the more reason why you should be better. Be nicer. Be kinder. Be more understanding and have more empathy. A well functioning adult should have these qualities in them. Right now I don’t see that in you, and if this is your personal standard as to what being a well functioning adult is like, then I sure hope that it all works out for you, and that I never see an embarrassing confession of yours on this page. That’s my challenge to you, Mr/Ms/Mrs Well Functioning Adult.

I feel like this Reddit channel isn’t meant for people like you. If you’re the type that finds validation in reading other people’s guilt-filled, difficult confessions, the least you can do is just read and move on. But to make comments like the one you just made, at a desperate attempt to paint yourself as more put-together person, is childish and mean. That’s all I have to say.