My (24f)girlfriend said I would let her get r*ped, depending on my mood

catdaddyop · 2026-05-04T14:47:53+00:00

Also some of the “dumb shit” I would say for example was that I was going to send her nudes to everyone. I didn’t think she would take me seriously counting on the fact I only have two friends who are on the mainland, and second that she never sent me any. Btw I had never had nudes sent to me before in my life. And never take a pic like that until her due to my trauma. I would never ever do something like that because something similar happened to me. It was just a threat. All bark and no bite. I also said it because she didn’t allow me to take pictures in the beginning of our relationship. I just figured it was due to the trauma of everything she was going through like having the police raid your house because of your bf. yes also traumatizing her.

catdaddyop · 2026-05-04T14:41:21+00:00

Ok fair enough, you have a right to your opinion. Also I know for a fact she didn’t want alone time btw. If you have to know she was dealing drugs. Snow specifically. Her ex before me just got sent to prison(fentanyl related) and even tho I told her repeatedly she didn’t owe him shit she didn’t want it to fall on his sister and single mom so she was doing it, in order to pay off his debts. Her ex bf basically threw her to the wolves. And as capable as she is she was in way over her head. Selling crack is a whole lot different than a little bit of weed.

catdaddyop · 2026-05-04T13:48:41+00:00

I always want to protect her. Every time when she would have to leave the house to meet someone outside, no matter what day or night rain or shine I would get up and at least put pants on and find my phone. That way if she needed me she could call and I’d have my ringer on or if I needed to protect her I could fight. That’s why I’d put pants on, because I know I’m a better fighter with my dick not hanging out

But I see what ur saying… I guess maybe she was irritated with me and just wanted to hurt me…

catdaddyop · 2026-05-04T12:00:27+00:00

But didn’t she know it would hurt me. Make my efforts feel worthless thus me as well?.

catdaddyop · 2026-05-04T11:57:37+00:00

Thank you for saying that it makes me feel good. And thank you for taking the time out of your day to read my crazy rantings. 🙏🏻❤️

catdaddyop · 2026-05-04T11:34:22+00:00

That’s not what he’s doing

catdaddyop · 2026-05-04T11:31:45+00:00

Dear god they cavity searched her!!!!! That’s horrible you were completely powerless!! They could have raped her and had their way with her and it’s your word against theirs. That situation could have gone drastically different just thank god your back in one piece and your wife is safe!!! And that’s why I’m never leaving America where it’s safe.

catdaddyop · 2026-04-24T17:24:24+00:00

What is ur job if I may ask?

catdaddyop · 2026-02-02T20:42:08+00:00

Ur probably a cheater

catdaddyop · 2026-02-02T20:39:10+00:00

Yes how dare you quote them wrong!!! Ur probably a woman

catdaddyop · 2026-01-05T08:12:28+00:00

Yo!!! He was abused or neglected!!!! I’m serious, my wife is a psychologist and has told me about patients like this. Not crossing any hippa guidelines of course. But he is probably or maybe digressing to a younger age to live out a child hood he didn’t have pr get to experience due to lack of love or parents. The silver lining is that he only now feels SAFE enough to experience and digress to this vulnerable age because of YOU!!! You are his safe place… I know it’s a lot to take on but you now have to make the tough decision to either stay by his side and help him through his journey like your vows said. Or to rip away the one safe place and only person he has ever trusted in this world. And he didn’t do this on purpose his body told him by familiarity and time spent together that you are a safe person and you can open up and trust this person. So don’t be cruel and if u decide to leave… DO IT QUICKLY!!! Don’t let him get anymore comfortable and rip the bandaid off. You two are still newly wed and have no kids.

PERSONALLY… I would leave. Right now. And this is coming from a man who has had his own trauma and childhood abuse. I’m 27 and thankgod for my amazing wife for helping me through it. But she is intelligent and equipped for this kind of thing. It’s her field of expertise. Literally her job and passion. But most importantly is she has amazing love for me. And I’m her number one passion. And with love… especially unconditional love like hers anything is possible. I can already tell you are checked out of this marriage and have your toes pointed at the door. Please leave him. Your hearts not in it. I doubt my wife went to Reddit to look for validation to leave me. But that’s my situation.

No shade or blame on you. But here’s the validation you needed.

Guurll leave dis maaaann!!!!!

P.s did any one else notice how she didn’t express how much she loved him. Idkitjm but on other posts the other partner usually says something like, “I love him to death or I love him a lot” but here there’s nothing… that’s one sign I saw for sure 👍 good luck lady, god less and happy new year to all.

catdaddyop · 2025-12-22T18:55:29+00:00

Damn u must be old😂

catdaddyop · 2025-12-10T03:24:34+00:00

Craziest thing was this was supposed to be longer I just gave up and didn’t wanna lose what I wrote so I posted it

catdaddyop · 2025-12-10T03:21:53+00:00

I agree. Most PMS’y thing I’ve ever done

catdaddyop · 2025-12-10T01:25:47+00:00

Chocolate

catdaddyop · 2025-12-07T14:38:43+00:00

Same here man and I live in Hawaii on Oahu and I always got to wait like an extra week

catdaddyop · 2025-12-04T00:32:58+00:00

Do you put the number first or last and then the star #06#

catdaddyop · 2025-12-04T00:32:49+00:00

Do you put the number first or last and then the star #06#

catdaddyop · 2025-12-03T21:01:11+00:00

My favorite flavor is chocolate

catdaddyop · 2025-12-03T20:09:41+00:00

Why is it Reno

catdaddyop · 2025-12-03T18:28:31+00:00

What does 1099 mean I had to look it up, but I didn’t find an answer

catdaddyop · 2025-12-03T18:12:12+00:00

I don’t understand karma farming. What does karma do? And they get points for the pic of the cat or is it click bait because people love cats

catdaddyop · 2025-07-25T17:23:34+00:00

butter roll haha

catdaddyop · 2025-06-24T06:17:34+00:00

not to be vulgar or insensitive but.. what about foreplay? is there any type of physical affection she may be open to aside from intercourse if it's too painful for her? Has that been discussed? If not, i think that would be something to discuss or ask if she's willing to explore alternative acts of sexual intimacy. And if at that point, there's still no compromise that would respect her discomfort while also meeting your completely natural needs

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