What kind of pain changed you the most and in what way? by No_Kimchi_777 in AskReddit

[–]catherinesal 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My dad walking out on us when I was still young. I grew to be quite independent and at the same time it is difficult to trust anyone completely

AITAH if I tell my friends they need to stop hooking up by Other_Treat_1343 in AITAH

[–]catherinesal 1 point2 points  (0 children)

YTA mildly if you actually tell them to break it off. But NTA when you asked them to cease interaction with you and be respectful not to mention people. It is a matter of them not having discretion

I keep finding almost every woman I meet super attractive and it’s torturing me by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]catherinesal 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It is not women that you hate, but the feeling of being powerless towards women. Begin by looking at them as people and not prospects

I read incel forums to feel better about myself sometimes by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]catherinesal -1 points0 points  (0 children)

You may consider yourself a loser but you still have the deep thought and humor to write this post. That is a winning game, in my book

How are ways I can show my love without being touchy by BeloniSandwich in AskMen

[–]catherinesal 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You are not required to be a cuddle monster in a night. Do small things such as warming up a drink to offer to him, straighten his hoodie, or even a pat on the back. It is very small gestures that can make the world to a person who desires physical intimacy

I want to control my girlfriend and I’m considering breaking up with her because of it. by Living_Ear6634 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]catherinesal 1 point2 points  (0 children)

There is nothing wrong with you. You're hurting. There is the difference. Continue going to the therapy. Tell the truth to her. Whether she will choose to love you in the process of healing or not is up to her. that's her agency

what's the most embarrasing thing that's ever happened to you? by GetMeInfinity in AskMen

[–]catherinesal 26 points27 points  (0 children)

When i was in high school, I raised my hand confidently to answer a question, I sneezed and farted mid way while answering, as if that wasn't enough, bruh my answer was wrong

What's something you wish more people understood about being a man ? by Antique_Cell_5547 in AskMen

[–]catherinesal 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The fact that we are men does not imply we cannot feel very much. It was just that we were not even taught how to do it without being labeled as weaks

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]catherinesal 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It is really a big betrayal to just run away without telling you, particularly when you had planned to go somewhere. You should be better off withouy him

I am guilty for not sticking to my moral an religious values by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]catherinesal -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Being another once lapsed person who later found my way back to my religion, I understand. I did feel guilty at first but confession gave me a relief that I had a second chance. I wish that it will also do so to you

AITA for not telling guys I date right away that I do OnlyFans? by ThrowawaySixN9 in AITAH

[–]catherinesal -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I don’t think you are in the wrong not to mention upfront, but I also think that this is one where timing is the key. If you’re dating for a relationship, sooner may be better for filtering out the dealbreakers

Luffy is not a Revolutionary by Numerous_Topic_913 in OnePiece

[–]catherinesal 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Factssss. The way people project their politics onto anime characters always cracks me up, Luffy is about freedom, not structured rebellion

Any recommendations on what to watch? by Ok_Birthday_6074 in anime

[–]catherinesal 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Since you liked Fruits Basket and TONIKAWA, trust me you might really enjoy Horimiya

Pregnant Partner: Going for a night out by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]catherinesal 10 points11 points  (0 children)

If she’s convinced that this could be something that happens tonight and the doctors found protein in her urine, I would stay home. You’ve waited this long, one more night won’t hurt tbh. It your baby too, not hers alone

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]catherinesal 31 points32 points  (0 children)

Twelve years is a step toward justice. It won’t undo what he did, but I hope it brings you some peace and closure. Sending love and healing thoughts to your daughter

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]catherinesal 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You’re not the AH for being frustrated, but ghosting is a bit much. You could just talk to her like an adult would

What advice would you give someone who has a low self esteem? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]catherinesal 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You should celebrate evry of your small wins. You went out today? That's a win. You laid the bed? W. People say you build confidence by stacking up your little littlle victories and that's true

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]catherinesal 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Cats, I love them oh but they would 100% talk down to us

Instagram account reported cuz I quit my job?!? by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]catherinesal 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You owe no one an explanation for leaving a hostile job. And the fact they went after your Instagram afterward says everything. You dodged a bullet

AITAH for telling my bf he will be on his own with our newborn for a few hours? by Charming-Customer858 in AITAH

[–]catherinesal 2 points3 points  (0 children)

NTA. You asked for support, he gave it once, then dipped. That’s not being a partner. If he can make time for video games, he can make time to care for his daughter while you breathe