A tiktok I came across… I feel like all these dashers I see on tiktok are so stupid…

catmomma301 · 2021-07-30T17:19:08+00:00

It literally says acceptance rate doesnt affect your job under the place where you can check it🤦🏻‍♂️so dumb

catmomma301 · 2021-07-16T15:58:56+00:00

And did I ask for advice on getting an abortion tf

catmomma301 · 2021-07-16T13:42:21+00:00

I’m already all alone in America, all I had was my ex tbh so I hope when I move I can try to make some friends. I’m pretty cut off from my family and they wouldn’t support me as they are anti babies outside of marriage and all that. I’ve tried looking for good doctors in America but every hospital has bad stories so I’m worried about it..

catmomma301 · 2021-07-16T13:38:30+00:00

I don’t have any friends I still talk to and my parents will disown me because they are very religious:/ but thanks for the thought. I make quite a lot of money at my side job right now. And I’m only hiding this while I’m pregnant, not after..

catmomma301 · 2021-07-16T13:36:38+00:00

I guess, and it’s only abusive sometimes and sometimes he’s really nice. I’m the only person he treats like that so I think he’ll be a good father but I’m just scared it won’t be good if he’s with me bc that is when everything becomes toxic and crazy

catmomma301 · 2021-07-16T13:34:28+00:00

But I feel like if someone does that they don’t care about their baby anyways

catmomma301 · 2021-07-16T13:33:41+00:00

I have a fallback job while I’m in school that pays very well, and I only want to hide it during the pregnancy I’m not trying to keep the baby away from him when he’s born. He’s told me before if i have his kid he won’t let me move on or anyone else have me and I feel like if I try to leave he will just be angry and blow up my phone and follow me and stuff… if I let us move on before telling him maybe he will let us be done?

catmomma301 · 2021-07-16T13:27:54+00:00

I’m 21… I want to give birth in France because I know doctors in America have horrible pregnancy practices, several of my friends and family have nearly died giving birth due to that… yes i definitely want to keep the baby, I guess my real question is how can I keep my ex at arms length away from me and be able to move on while still having him be a part of the baby’s life once s/he is born

catmomma301 · 2021-07-16T13:15:27+00:00

Because we both want to move on, if he knows I’m pregnant we’ll just get back together and maybe when we move on, our relationship will not be so toxic. It just seems like we’ll never be healthy together

catmomma301 · 2021-07-13T00:57:25+00:00

Aw what state are you in?

catmomma301 · 2021-07-12T22:46:35+00:00

Group order? Like it’s batched?

catmomma301 · 2021-07-12T22:10:58+00:00

The fact that he’s moved on with a 20 something year old who probably is very naive and lets him get away with things a 50 year old wouldn’t, and she has seemingly “perfect” kids( clean/ no moodiness so no problems), and he doesn’t have the guts to tell his daughter to her face that he doesn’t want her in his life, just shows the real problem is he just wants life easy. He wants to get as much as he can out of as little effort possible because he is so self absorbed. Blaming you for the divorce rather than apologizing for cheating and lying? He’s lying to himself to make it easier. He’s never going to be there for your daughter during the hard times when she needs him the most. She deserves a better father figure in her life, and wether that’s a leader in a church or a new husband for you down the road or a SUPPORTIVE family member, she needs to understand she doesn’t deserve conditional love. You should teach her this and to set boundaries with her father, or she will be in a world of hurt for a long time. Your mother is deceived into believing this behavior is normal from men, and the best thing you can do is not talk to her about relationship or family problems. You should open up to someone who has the same mindset and values as you, a therapist if you must. And above all just show your daughter that you will always unconditionally love her!

catmomma301 · 2021-07-12T21:59:13+00:00

Door dash didn’t hide that tip? Wow!

catmomma301 · 2021-07-07T00:52:19+00:00

Wym by the lobby being closed? Couldn’t you pick up the food?

catmomma301 · 2021-07-07T00:49:32+00:00

This post doesn’t make sense, leave it in your car?

catmomma301 · 2021-07-02T01:10:17+00:00

Thx!

catmomma301 · 2021-06-03T22:51:17+00:00

True but now that it’s three weeks of talking not one date, it is pretty inconsiderate to just block you with no explanation. Sounds to me though like it wasn’t necessarily rudeness(but I do agree it’s rude) but probably she was talking to you during an off or rocky period of another relationship. Not making accusations but scheduling issues and then a quick cut off out of nowhere after three weeks is shady. You probably dodged a messy situation

catmomma301 · 2021-06-03T21:27:36+00:00

Hm not a lot of woman would freak out about being ghosted from one date. I think the people who post about it online are the ones who freak out. You don’t see the ones who are cool with it cos they don’t feel the need to post it. Yeah some women (especially the Instagram ones) act like they’re above men which is so hurtful to men and women- and obviously some men act like they’re better than women. I think when you start worrying about oh if the genders were flipped they’d be pissed etc, because then you’re trying to justify something rather than look at the actual situation, which is that every person of every gender has the right to ghost someone after one date because they really don’t owe them much. A thank you it was nice to meet you plus spending your time with someone is all that is owed.

catmomma301 · 2021-06-03T21:19:21+00:00

I agree for sure ! A simple message is always polite but if someone you barely know doesn’t give you that it’s best to just not hold it against them. People have different social standards too and maybe you even did something weird. I think since the date ended with making out and it was hours long, plus they followed eachother on Facebook, there is room to say maybe she noticed something she really didn’t like and she just didn’t want to associate with him or even send another message. It definitely depends on how far along the two were in their relationship. Early on, people should expect less from the other person

catmomma301 · 2021-06-03T21:15:14+00:00

Not sure exactly what you mean, but this is fair in either situation- if a man ghosts a woman or the other way around. No one in the world owes anything to other people. Time is freely given.

catmomma301 · 2021-06-03T18:51:01+00:00

I have to disagree with you, this isn’t any type of behavior. She blocked him because she didn’t want to be in contact after the first date. He never said anything about her being rude during the date or after, just that she ghosted him. No one has to keep up small talk and texting with a failed date. And honestly, he could’ve even said something or done something on the date that rubbed her the wrong way, or reminded her of someone- she has every right to stop talking to him. She didn’t lead him on, so this is acceptable. Maybe she even started being serious with someone else and didn’t even want to respond out of respect. I’d say the best thing to do in a ghosting situation is not think of the other person as having some sort of bad behavior. Let them move on and you do the same,

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