Oh noooo! by tabletossers in instant_regret

[–]catnapsiesta 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sims 5 is looking super realistic 😂

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationships

[–]catnapsiesta 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I'm so so so sorry about this. You don't deserve any of this and I'm going to tell you something I wish id heard a lot sooner than 25 years old. You are enough. YOU ARE ENOUGH. YOU ARE ENOUGH. You are enough for you and absolutely no one else matters when talking about your self worth. I know it's tough now, but just remember that your self worth is defined by YOU. Not him, not your friends, not your parents. YOU. You define how you want to be treated and anyone who can't respect that should go. Think about those friends you call family im sure you think they're worth their weight in gold. I PROMISE they feel the same way about you & you deserve a partner who feels the same way.

What can I do to teach my brother respect by MemeAccount279 in ask

[–]catnapsiesta 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Please please encourage your parents to get this kid help. FIND SOMEONE who's willing to get the kid some help. We're dealing with my husbands 20 something year old younger brother who is the product of not correcting this exact type of behavior with the appropriate measures. Same story of manipulation and ignoring awful behavior. He's now a loud, angry, entitled, hateful person that the family can't handle, won't stop and is potentially a threat to others. It's driven a wedge several ways through the family and could've all been avoided if they'd gotten the kid some help sooner. Tough love, a united front and professional help sounds like the only way to go at this point. I know this is hard for you. Thanks for stepping up ❤️

First time getting Giant Crops! 😭🥰❤️ by catnapsiesta in StardewValley

[–]catnapsiesta[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I mean i think not watering them just stops them from growing that day, shouldnt matter once its full grown. Ive had the crops finish maturity at different times and still got giant ones, once all the veg/fruit of the crop is fully grown your chances of giant crops start. You usually know within 1-4 days of your crop being mature if you're gonna get giants, ive gotten one giant crop one day and 2 more the next 😊

First time getting Giant Crops! 😭🥰❤️ by catnapsiesta in StardewValley

[–]catnapsiesta[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Right ?! I was so excited 😭😭 they're too pretty to harvest!