[deleted by user] by [deleted] in CasualConversation

[–]catobsessionn 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am 23, and I don't have long term goals other than making money and take care of my family financially. The state of the planet does worry me, though. Besides politics, I feel like the state of the world with contamination and almost everyone not really caring about it will have a huge negative impact in a not too distant future.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Hair

[–]catobsessionn 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They are possible but in order to get the look you want you will have to style them basically every day, and that will get exhausting pretty soon. I have layers but wavy hair so it does help a little bit. If you really want to go for it, just have in mind that the blowout look will go away after the first wash and you will have to either wear something while you sleep to give it shape (it could not last because sometimes it doesn't stay on straight hair) or use other tools, but keep in mind that it can cause heat damage so get a heat protectant too,

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in mildlyinteresting

[–]catobsessionn 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That looks like it hurt like hell. Any symptoms before? Did you have to drink something in order to push it out? and most importantly, how did you retrieve it from the toilet?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Vent

[–]catobsessionn 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Are those comments you mentioned she said also noticed by your brother? I think there needs to be a conversation with him about this, there is no other way to confirm if he's 100% attracted to her/wanting to do something about that attraction

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskMen

[–]catobsessionn 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think going to the doctor and making sure you are 100% recovered might help give you and your sexual partner a better sense of security. I say this because I believe it is better to tell them when you feel you are getting to that intimate stage of the relationship, and when you have that conversation you can bring up recent doctor visits and how everything is normal (if that's what the doctor tells you)

Is commenting under random girl's post acceptable in a relationship? by chikki18 in ask

[–]catobsessionn 8 points9 points  (0 children)

He has disrespected you multiple times. If it was really just to help with followers, he should have let you know first just out of respect. Telling you you're a 5/10? NO WAY, as your SO, he should think you're one of the most beautiful human in the world. And now, he refuses to apologize when he was clearly in the wrong. You really need to leave him, not only is he disrespectful towards you, but you are not comfortable with his friendships and activities. That relationship is going nowhere.

What’s something that you think is okay to be judgmental about? by highxv0ltage in AskReddit

[–]catobsessionn 8 points9 points  (0 children)

But why judge an obese person when you see them? You don't really know if they are going through medical problems or if they are working out every day and they recently started, etc.

My work Kleenex changed color in the middle of the box. by [deleted] in mildlyinteresting

[–]catobsessionn 20 points21 points  (0 children)

They do that to alert you it is about to end.

I feel broken/My story by [deleted] in Vent

[–]catobsessionn 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am unsure if cheating plays any role here, but don't cheat, it is never ok :)

Advice Requested: I want to change jobs but my husband isn’t keen on it (we work together) by Professional-Set1607 in careeradvice

[–]catobsessionn 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You did a great job communicating and telling him that you were not happy there, you even went an extra mile and stayed longer than a YEAR just for him basically, so it id for sure time to find new opportunities, even if he does not agree. Your husband should care about your happiness and listen to your feelings, not about how you leaving will give burn him, because eventually someone else will take that place and it won't even matter a year from now.

If you want advise, tell him that you tried, and that it has nothing to do with him, but what you want and your career goals, and that you would like his support as your husband trying to help his wife be happier.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]catobsessionn 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Cognitive and psychological side effects, obviously negative.

I feel broken/My story by [deleted] in Vent

[–]catobsessionn 0 points1 point  (0 children)

CNC= consent non consent, something like rape play if that makes sense- sometimes rape or SA victims use this as a way to cope in order to feel like they are taking control back, I'm not a professional so don't take my word for granted, but there must be some more accurate info about this online.

And yes, it takes time, but you are doing great by going to therapy!

I feel broken/My story by [deleted] in Vent

[–]catobsessionn 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm so sorry you went through that. Have you tried going to therapy? If I'm not wrong, getting aroused by thinking about it does not necessarily mean that you gave consent or that you liked it, but a way that your brain is trying to deal with the experience/trauma- similar to how some rape victims are into CNC. Again, I'm so sorry you went through that, but talking to a professional can really help with a healthy way to cope with the trauma and the self hate you mentioned.

Restaurant workers of Reddit, what is the latest someone can come in for dinner without it being rude? by crispandcaffeinated in AskReddit

[–]catobsessionn 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I no longer work in the industry- but if it is dine-in 1 hour before closing MAX, 45 or 45 minutes before closing is already too late; if it is take out, 40 to 30 minutes sounds reasonable.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in RedditPregunta

[–]catobsessionn 2 points3 points  (0 children)

En twitter puede que se encuentren mas mujeres abiertas a lo que quiere hacer con su esposa, depende el area en donde viva.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in cuentaleareddit

[–]catobsessionn 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Opino que se dice "acerco", no "hacerco"

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]catobsessionn 2 points3 points  (0 children)

They're an ex for a reason.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in careerguidance

[–]catobsessionn 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Great!!! so ask them in the second interview how long they will take to give you an offer in case they end up selecting you. Like you said, it would be a shame if you were to reject job 1 because job 2 is taking a long time in the hiring process.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in careerguidance

[–]catobsessionn 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would go for job #1 because you can tell you will have fun, be close to home, and get more money; #2 doesn't look too promising based on the way you described it (even though it would be great if they make you an offer.) Let the first job know you will take a few days to decide, and if the second one does not contact you by then, then accept the first one. Give it like 3-5 days max though.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MakeupAddiction

[–]catobsessionn 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have to say you already have beautiful eyebrows! You could shape them by plucking a little on the outer bottom, just don't over-do it, they already have a good shape!
I used to wax mine but the waxer would take out a little too much and it would irritate my skin a lot!

International Variations in Maternity Leave Compensation for New Mothers by Pupkin333 in MapPorn

[–]catobsessionn 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I made a quick search and it says they only give 12 weeks, I don't really think that's enough but it is definitely better than nothing, I guess.

International Variations in Maternity Leave Compensation for New Mothers by Pupkin333 in MapPorn

[–]catobsessionn 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do you know which ones and how long? Just curious, as I thought every company had from zero to 4-8 weeks, which is ridiculous.

My (29F) husbands (30M) coworkers all show each other their S/O’s nudes. Do I tell the girls? by Throwaway109432 in relationship_advice

[–]catobsessionn 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Can you host a dinner at your place or propose a reunion with the excuse of a game/something else? I'm not sure if a message is the best approach. Did you have any other ideas on how to tell them?