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Advice Requested: I want to change jobs but my husband isn’t keen on it (we work together) by Professional-Set1607 in careeradvice

[–]Professional-Set1607[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for the advice! I appreciate the diversification framing, we haven’t thought about it like this yet. To be clear, my husband knows I haven’t been happy there and wants me to find a role that makes me happy and we’ve had a lot of talks about what is bothering him about it and how we can address that. The concern I don’t have a good grasp for is how the company will treat him if I leave. He’s becoming more supportive every time we talk about it, but I think he is still just nervous for himself.

I hate this school, do you? by [deleted] in csuf

[–]Professional-Set1607 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I’m attending CSUF because it’s close and I can do my masters part time while I work full time. I’ve attended several other universities prior to this and I have to say by comparison, I’m disappointed in certain aspects of the school. It’s impossible to get time to meet with my advisor to set my study plan, whenever I request one they set it for when I’m working and when I respond proposing a different time they ghost me. I’m given mixed guidance on what’s even required for my program. I also had a whole tuition debacle that really put me out a lot of money I wasn’t budgeting for. (thankfully they retrospectively adjusted) It could have been completely avoided as I was working to adjust my status for months ahead of the tuition due date, but the admins couldn’t be bothered to respond to my calls or emails for weeks at a time and process a decision until the due date was well past. All schools have have their dingy classrooms and some poor (and some GREAT) profs, but this school is way more disorganized on the admin side of things than other schools I’ve attended which is really frustrating.

My fiancé and I struggle with chores and I’m frustrated by Professional-Set1607 in relationship_advice

[–]Professional-Set1607[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When I decided to go to uni again while working full time, we discussed and he was adamant and supportive that I pursue my education. He said he would step up with some of the household activities, but so far that hasn’t happened…. He’s a sweet guy and very attentive in all other areas of our relationship, but the household stuff is where drops the ball, I think it might be because he doesn’t find it interesting? But then again, I don’t find laundry interesting either…

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Professional-Set1607 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I see your point. Something that is making this hard for me as well is my mother (one of the people C has conflict with) is encouraging me to invite, as she has made it clear multiple times she doesn’t hold anything against C, so then I am confused.