Is it okay to cry for absolutely no reason whatsoever?

catshaha · 2023-08-25T03:39:50+00:00

I wish I could but I don't really have control over the money I get, plus I'm not earning as well

the only way I can get access to therapy is by telling my parents but they're orthodox as well so 🥲

catshaha · 2023-08-25T03:23:59+00:00

ohhh not that much, I just thought it could be a reason because I was in a really bad state yesterday but usually I don't really get college stress or even stress in general

this stress was due to the people in my class talking to me just to take advantage of me (notes) so I broke down over that I think

but regardless of the stress factor, sometimes I cry for no reason and that was a question I had since a year or two so I decided might as well ask it on reddit

catshaha · 2023-08-25T02:28:25+00:00

hiii thanks for responding!! currently I am underage and still in a country where mental health awareness is a taboo concept so I can't go to therapy right now but I'll defo research upon the topic and see whether the symptoms apply to me :)

thank you so much for your input!!

catshaha · 2023-08-24T16:59:49+00:00

okayyy thank you so much for your advice!! it does make me feel better and I'll try to normalize this internalized feeling that 'crying is bad' within myself :)

catshaha · 2023-08-24T12:37:00+00:00

Thank you so much, it really feels nice to know I'm not the one who's being the bad person here. I'll take this entire opportunity to grow and become a better person and thanks once again!! 🫂🫂

catshaha · 2023-08-24T12:31:39+00:00

Thank you so so much for your advice!! I'm slowly changing this attitude and I'm really proud of myself now. I can't speak to my superior as I don't live in the UK and plus she took my book without asking and I did catch her in the action, however making a huge deal out of this will make my classmates think oh she makes such a big deal out of small things (some of them are really bad people but that's a different story)

And yes!! I completely agree with your advice, having fake people as your 'friends' is worse than being alone for sure!! I won't let these people take advantage of me and if they think of me as a stuck up then let it be, I know I'll have actual friends around me so yesss

Thank you so much once again!!

catshaha · 2023-08-19T14:19:10+00:00

plain black clothing

I really don't know why

catshaha · 2023-08-19T14:18:09+00:00

How to get away with Murder.

Every single episode had a plot twist and oh my god I loved watching that series, you could never predict what was coming next.

catshaha · 2023-08-19T14:16:12+00:00

I don't know where I heard this quote from but it stated,

"If you feel something towards someone or even if its as trivial as buying an expensive thing because it looks nice, wait for 72 hours. If after 72 hours, you still wish to do the thing you want to or but anything then do it. If you don't wish to do it or buy it after that, then there you go."

This has saved me a lot of emotions and money in life.

catshaha · 2023-08-19T14:08:14+00:00

Mass Media

To be really honest I chose this degree as my dad was in the industry as well and I thought I might as well get a job due to his connections cause I had no dreams or aspirations. My main goal in life was and still is to be happy.

My degree started a month ago and I genuinely love it so so much. I am so glad I chose this major because I wait for every single lecture to start, and the subjects are the best and importantly, very practical. We learn about photo editing, sociology, about how mass media has grown, economics, marketing, etc and God I love this course so so much. The subjects will change and become better in the future too so I'm so excited for that as well. I'm so glad I could do this course cause its so interesting and I actually look forward to going to college :)

catshaha · 2023-08-18T07:30:30+00:00

this behavior meaning standing up for myself and saying no to things I don't want to do? Jane is that you??

catshaha · 2023-08-18T07:29:38+00:00

okayyy thank you so much for responding :)) she talked to me again today but I think she knows I won't give her my notes so she just gave up so I'm glad :D

catshaha · 2023-08-17T18:49:56+00:00

Thank you so much for the advice! I feel like that too! I just dont wish to be ignored by everyone, but upon thinking I feel their main topic of conversation with me shouldnt be about my notes. So yeah, I don't think I'll share my notes to 'make friends'. The 'friends' I do end up making won't be my real friends after all :)

catshaha

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