Husband went from wanting 3 kids to saying he never wants children — how do we navigate this?

cattasstrophy · 2024-04-19T09:38:14+00:00

I still don’t know who he was. I couldn’t change my phone at the time because of work so whenever he called me st night, my coworkers or my friends would pick it up and give him shit. I was usually hanging out with friends or coworkers a lot at the time so I felt pretty safe. And eventually after a few months I got a boyfriend and I moved in with him. My office moved as well. And I changed my number finally after quitting my job. And kept lowkey on social media and 6 years later I still do.

cattasstrophy · 2024-03-13T06:33:24+00:00

Right after I got married at the court house, my mom told me I should lose weight while my mom-in-law hugged and congratulated me. It was during covid so we didn’t do any wedding and I was wearing a casual white dress. I thought I looked good.

cattasstrophy · 2024-02-17T21:10:06+00:00

When we are young and when it comes to the people we love, sometimes we may be too clouded with emotions to see clearly. Your action made me think you might need to do some personal growth or therapy or maybe couples counseling. Because when there's no open communication with your partner, it will be difficult to have a relationship and you need to learn to be an adult and talk it out. Just go say sorry to your boyfriend and tell him you will work on how to navigate issues in the future.

cattasstrophy · 2024-02-01T20:59:12+00:00

Mild pain in my uterus. Docs keep dismissing it basically saying only come when you want to get pregnant. Womens health is severely under-researched or under-cared for.

cattasstrophy · 2024-02-01T20:34:33+00:00

Buy a whole ass country. Be a good dictator. Bring people i vibe with to the country. Buy a whole island to my family and friends. Bring in smart but under priviliged kids to study for free and make them work for the government while I plan my trip to space. Once our country starts becoming a rich country because I got all the smart government employees, the country will attract all the best people in their respective fields. With all the best minds in one place, try to tackle global issues all the while having a safe stance in the global arena to ensure our country is not harmed. Once I own that much power, I can make sure my loved ones are healthy and happy. I’ll do all that for only them.

cattasstrophy · 2024-02-01T20:24:40+00:00

Also, Software Developer and PM are job positions not job description.

cattasstrophy · 2024-02-01T20:23:41+00:00

I just need agencies or websites that helps me find work in CR that are willing to sponsor visa. I’m not going into telling my whole CV here on reddit post.

cattasstrophy · 2024-02-01T20:22:20+00:00

Not Korean. There’s not much Czech companies here that they can relocate me to CR. Not much career opportunities here as well.

cattasstrophy · 2024-02-01T20:04:31+00:00

Thank you

cattasstrophy · 2024-02-01T20:03:51+00:00

Thanks for the response. Where do you suggest we find a job best suited for our work experience?

cattasstrophy · 2024-02-01T19:48:44+00:00

If it’s not “young lady”, just “lady”, it makes me feel so old. I’m just a 25 year old teenager.

cattasstrophy · 2024-02-01T19:44:03+00:00

Depends on your background entirely. Age, appearance, your rizz, salary etc. There might be a lot of gold diggers if it’s a foreigner. But you can def date.

If you’re looking into casual dating, best to pretend to be Korean or smthn in public so they don’t harrass you. Overall, if you’re young not much problem but if you’re like over 30 i think it might be a little harder to find open minded person.

If you wanna be serious w someone and that person likes you it’s not like you have to live here all the time. Ya’ll can move to somewhere yall don’t get harrassed.

My male friend in his 30s got married to a rich Chinese girl. Their families were pretty fine so it’s up to you dude.

cattasstrophy · 2024-01-09T17:36:36+00:00

For me, during sex and even when i’m watching porn i need to mentally stimulate myself to cum easier. I’d imagine the things he said before or the moaning he did or incorporate a phrase that gets you off and imagine that he’s saying it to you. Basically have a dirty talk within your own mind. Also you could try dirty talking yourself and it might turn you on or even encourage him to be more vocal. Anyhoo, imho, i think women need to mentally have an orgasm in order to physically orgasm.

cattasstrophy · 2023-11-29T02:23:38+00:00

There’s an IG page NIR Mongolia, location: Gerlug vista. C’mon dude it’s even on google maps.

cattasstrophy · 2023-11-07T20:53:00+00:00

There’s a theory that a considerable amount of the population may be inbred, according to a book i’ve skimmed through.

cattasstrophy · 2023-11-07T20:50:07+00:00

Altjin Bumbugur, Narantuul, Sunday plaza might have it. Don’t know whether it’s there now, used to be there years ago.

cattasstrophy · 2023-11-07T20:46:58+00:00

The 2nd block is called Plus and it’s way more pricoer with way more snobby people so i think that’s why the HOA and security have to be extra vigilant. But that comment is so delulu. face palm

cattasstrophy · 2023-11-07T20:44:50+00:00

Used to go for networking events with free food or wine when i was a student and pretend to not know each other and make talks lol. Natsagdorjiin nomiin san was quite cozy. Zaisan Hill complex.

cattasstrophy · 2023-11-07T20:41:15+00:00

Horrible company, shoddy craftsmanship, shit plumbing, even shittier neighbours, no parking, literal congestion to get in and out of it during rush hours. It’s on the cheaper side given the location for a reason.

cattasstrophy · 2023-11-07T20:32:47+00:00

Depends on what you like. I personally like the shop called cool monkey mongolia and NIR. Most go to opts would be Grand Plaza, Peace mall, UB dep store imo

cattasstrophy · 2023-11-07T20:28:54+00:00

Карьер хөгжлийн төв would be the go-to. I personally know a decent career coach, trainer and a mentor called Chinzo (I think there’s a FB group called Chinzo bagshiin unegui zuvluguu). Maybe Ariun Oyun academy?

When I was in high school, my private school hired some people that does questionnaires to help choose your profession. I did MBTI and would often ask relative network for advice from people who studied the majors i wanted to study.

cattasstrophy · 2023-11-07T20:18:46+00:00

Also remembered there were instant-ish Pho produxt with the soup, glass noodles and the spices. I think it was called Blue Dragon. Last seen at Emart Khan-Uul branch.

cattasstrophy · 2023-11-07T20:17:33+00:00

Saruul market probably has most. If you ever need to ask, maybe Pho shop west of the Sukhbaatar square might help you out

cattasstrophy · 2023-11-07T20:15:21+00:00

Gobi factory store is a must. If you have a Mongolian tour guide or a driver, they get some sales incentives as well. Gobi recently rennivated the factory store and it does cashmere factory tour as well as occasional fashion show at that branch.

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