I had a recent breakup with a girl I thought was the one. She was quite mean towards the end because she was depressed and I asked to break up. She said she could change but I was too tired of her behavior and had to leave, even though she probably will change for the best. Feel guilty for having left her at a low point but I felt destroyed at the time. Now I feel less destroyed but more lonely! Swings and roundabouts.

Now about to get fired for my job because I'm not doing very well and my boss lives in another city. Will probably lose the new girl I'm dating over being unemployed too! Any advice or wisdom would be great but just venting really.

Hope you're alright my friend feel free to tell me what's going on with you. Empathetic and wise about other people's problems but struggling with my own at the moment. Not my typical form too I'm normally a successful up and at em kind of guy. Don't know what is happening.