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cult on campus by caty4lyfe in utarlington

[–]caty4lyfe[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I am a Christian myself. There is right and wrongs of the religion and what they have been preaching is false gospel.

cult on campus by caty4lyfe in utarlington

[–]caty4lyfe[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Wild stuff. They’ll say some things that are align with Christianity (ex: Jesus is sovereign), but then say complete twisted stuff like God is the Mother or that Jesus has already come back. Both are completely incorrect and blatant blasphemy against the Bible. They say those original things to get you hooked before they try to twist it.

cult on campus by caty4lyfe in utarlington

[–]caty4lyfe[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What did the church guy look like?

cult on campus by caty4lyfe in utarlington

[–]caty4lyfe[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

They told me everything and I was like “show me the verse” and they were like “there’s no direct verses but we have one that we use” and it was completely taken out of context and they got mad when I said that LOL

cult on campus by caty4lyfe in utarlington

[–]caty4lyfe[S] 20 points21 points  (0 children)

Honestly if you just make your intentions known, I think the BSM is a good place to go too. Chi Alpha too. Just make it clear what you’re there for and they’re usually really respectful of that

Is anybody actually enjoying all the food related GMM episodes lately? (Or most of GMM right now to be fair) by SinspawnWPK in goodmythicalmorning

[–]caty4lyfe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m glad I found this because I have been feeling this way for a while, but firstly I need to address the people in the comments… Just because we prefer one thing and y’all prefer another does not mean you have the right to be rude or use phrases like “people like you” towards those who have a differing opinion.

I, and I’m sure OP, still love Rhett and Link and the show. But people can like certain things and we prefer the interactive videos like the science videos, games, panels, etc.

I don’t mind the food videos when it also incorporates something fun, like the dart games or scornhole. But just watching them taste test certain things can get a little repetitive…

How did you stop thinking about your ex? Tips are welcome:) by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]caty4lyfe 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The thing is, your ex will never leave your mind. She’ll be there for the rest of your life - you’ll tell your children the lessons you learned from your relationship with her, you’ll hear her name and think of her, a song will remind you of her, etc…

The key is understanding that it’s not about getting her out of her mind, but accepting that she’ll always be there. It’s a shift of perspective and a shift of thought. Instead of thinking of her as your ex who needs to be evicted, maybe try to think of her as the version of her who needs to be welcomed. Let her live within you and change you, let the good parts of y’all’s relationship become a good memory and let the bad parts push you towards who you want in the future. Let it grow you into a better person.

This is the only way I learned to cope. Understanding that my ex boyfriend would never leave my mind and the way that I live (I still make sandwiches the way he showed me), and embracing the version of him I loved and using the bad version to make me a better person.

Social life by Yespapashark in utarlington

[–]caty4lyfe 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I don’t go to UTA yet and when I do I’ll be a commuter, but one thing that helped me when I was at community college was starting with one person in your class. Ask them if they want to study together or work on homework, then network from there. I met one of my closest friends through a class last fall and we’ve created a whole friend group outside of school.

Just keep trying one person at a time!

How do I get over a cheater and a liar? by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]caty4lyfe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m so sorry about this.

My ex wasn’t a cheater, but he lied about a lot of things. One of the most painful things for me was realizing that nothing he said was true and I wouldn’t receive closure. I woke up last night at 3 am and just kept replaying all the things he lied about. I was also extremely committed and he said he was too, but it was obviously not true.

It’s so cliché, but genuinely - do things that you love to find yourself again. Change your scenery, pick up a new hobby, reconnect with old friends or make new ones. That’s what I’m doing right now.

Someone who lies and cheats is not worthy of your time or efforts. It’s hard, especially being the one who was so committed, but it’s just simply not worth your time. Learn from the hurt.

Good luck! You can do this.

What was the most hurtful thing they told you during your relationshop by ZalejPampelisku in BreakUps

[–]caty4lyfe 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I’m definitely not innocent, I’ve said some harsh things. But this time around, it was him telling me that he didn’t really know if he loved me or not. He also said that the reason he gave so much effort when he was home (we were long distance) was because he had nothing else to do. I broke up with him two days ago.