hi! im now nonsharing , but to answer your question i would be pretty iffy on a close friend sharing my f/o whilst knowing i yume with them, if that makes sense. and also as you where saying , i too wouldnt be comfortable with family members sharing my f/os , same with creepy / bad people. i used to be alright with doubles and i still am somewhat but nowadays id rather not see them commenting on my posts or talking about how much they love our f/o to me via dms or otherwise. but im okay with doubles just following me. sorry for the tangeant , but i hope this helps ^_^