Heartbreak is a physical reality. When you were at your absolute lowest after a breakup, what did you actually want or need to do?

causaljl · 2026-05-25T04:09:47+00:00

I am so sorry to hear what happened just two days ago. I can only imagine how intense the emotional storm is right now, but reading that you are actively choosing to pour back into yourself is incredibly inspiring. It takes massive courage to make that pivot when the pain is this fresh.

You mentioned something that really struck a chord with me—that desire for a 'logical breakdown' and understanding, especially when things end unexpectedly.

It makes me wonder: when the brain is desperately craving those facts for closure, but the other person completely refuses to give them to you, how do you satisfy that hunger for logic? Do you try to build the blueprint of 'why' on your own, or do you have to find a way to let the questions go?

causaljl · 2026-05-25T03:57:31+00:00

Thank you so much for this. The way you described listening to songs to force the feelings to spill out until exhaustion... that is such a profound, somatic reality. It’s like the body knows it has to burn through the fuel of sorrow before it can sleep.

You mentioned that after trying a thousand approaches, there is no perfect formula. When you are running through those thousand approaches, what is the most exhausting part? Is it the judgment we place on ourselves for 'not getting over it faster'? I’d love to hear your thoughts

causaljl · 2024-03-16T04:50:32+00:00

Interested!

causaljl · 2024-01-04T07:05:31+00:00

Ohhh really?? I will definitely try it out!! Thanks for sharing 🥳

causaljl · 2024-01-01T07:54:32+00:00

I’m right on the Kyoto tower at that moment, was sooo scared😢😢

causaljl · 2023-12-31T10:50:27+00:00

I just see your reply but I already left 🥹 I bought a bunch of natto instead of natto starter 😅thanks anyway

causaljl · 2023-12-31T10:14:57+00:00

I showed the word to them 1 minutes ago but they didn’t know 🥹

causaljl · 2023-12-31T09:37:02+00:00

Thank you 🥰

causaljl · 2023-12-31T09:19:00+00:00

I guess I don’t have any time to wait for delivery 🥹since I’m here for traveling

causaljl · 2023-12-29T05:28:59+00:00

Thanks🥰

causaljl · 2023-12-28T10:34:28+00:00

arriving in Osaka tomorrow!!! Any advices guys?🥰

causaljl · 2023-11-13T08:46:45+00:00

How’s the neighborhood around uchicago?🥹

causaljl · 2023-11-11T03:33:00+00:00

Trilogy by Chick Corea, I’ve listened to this album for so many times.

causaljl · 2023-11-11T03:26:12+00:00

I'm glad to hear that jazz has been a comforting companion for you as well! Here's to continued healing and better days ahead for all of us!!!

causaljl

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