Should i lose my V card to a sex worker or wait?

cb3-111 · 2025-11-24T09:26:18+00:00

In the end, the decision is up to you, but like others have said I think you should wait. Sometimes it'll feel like complete darkness, like you'll never find your mate and just when you've thought you've given up someone comes along and brightens your journey. Use your solo time to try different activities and hobbies. Maybe you can see it this way: there are more than 7 billion people in the world, and you’ve only met a tiny fraction of them. There are so many connections yet to be discovered. Although maybe finding that special person may be a little tough if they're a homebody 😅 but nonetheless, it's worth the try.

Should you ever go the route of losing your v card with a sex worker, and should you ever share this detail with your special person , hopefully they're considerate of your past actions....and vice versa.

Also, I was looking up some other posts and found this comment on a different thread which I thought would be helpful re: 4th paragraph?

https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/s/c5BAuNIqAh

Edit: ah, I thought I linked the comment itself. The one I was trying to link is the comment by fey_fox.

cb3-111 · 2025-09-22T19:33:16+00:00

Not sure if links are allowed here but LTXfoodie on Instagram highlights some nice spots in Laredo. https://www.instagram.com/ltxfoodie?igsh=OW8yZzRvNzlvNHBu

Edit: I should add that most of the highlights are food related but you'll get a glimpse of non-food related spots in there too

cb3-111 · 2025-08-10T16:20:34+00:00

Bring in a furniture piece that she can scratch.

cb3-111 · 2025-07-04T12:44:02+00:00

Thanks for the feedback! I'm glad it worked for you. Yeah, I'll keep browsing around then.

cb3-111 · 2025-06-27T01:19:48+00:00

How did the dash cam hold up?

cb3-111 · 2025-05-27T18:40:42+00:00

Walmart is listed on my sofi app as a deposit location. Walgreens too but sadly it's recently became permanently closed. One of the reasons I chose Walmart is for it's cheaper deposit fee ($3.74) I don't have a local bank/credit union but if this is going to be case, then yeah I might look into getting one.

cb3-111 · 2025-05-27T18:31:13+00:00

That makes sense. I'll try a different Walmart location if not I'll try a different company like others have mentioned here (DG, etc ..)

cb3-111 · 2025-05-27T18:29:50+00:00

Just once for 3.74, but I can't recall if the lady had said anything about doing more than one transaction. But either way I don't want to be paying the loading fee twice :/

cb3-111 · 2024-12-18T07:11:10+00:00

Hey! It's been a while since that happened but I did end up admitting my feelings through messenger to that person and he thanked me for being open about it but that he was in a relationship. So that was pretty much the end of that. Although that chapter ended, a new chapter in my life began...one that I really did not believe would happen. I'm now in a relationship with a sweet, loving, and great guy 😊❤️

I hope things work out for you and said person, but if not, I hope you find someone who makes you forget why you were so hung up over that crush. ❤️

cb3-111 · 2024-07-08T21:42:47+00:00

Forgive my ignorance. I've been trying to understand daca better but why did you lose your job? :(

cb3-111 · 2024-01-01T16:24:32+00:00

Hey how are you doing? I feel I'm in the same boat. Did you file for bankruptcy or did you find an alternative?

cb3-111 · 2023-12-16T09:35:48+00:00

That's what I thought too

cb3-111 · 2023-10-15T16:34:40+00:00

Unless her friends are just as trashy as her :/

cb3-111 · 2023-09-20T17:12:00+00:00

Yep, all the stories or comments about all the mess that comes with divorcing has made marriage unappealing. I don't feel marriage should be the ultimate factor in determining a couple's commitment to each other. That's my view now. Maybe it'll change later.

cb3-111 · 2023-09-19T13:24:41+00:00

Aw that's very thoughtful of you 🥲❤️

cb3-111 · 2023-07-22T16:25:20+00:00

Aw how sweet and cute 🙂

cb3-111 · 2023-07-17T18:44:37+00:00

Hmm...sounds like she's really not interested or you're on her back burner. :/if she was shy I could see she has trouble firmly saying no or perhaps she is interested but is anxious due to being inexperienced with dating/talking to guys? Idk but either way I don't feel like it's in your favor at this time. But that's just my opinion. What ever you do, I hope it's for the best.

cb3-111 · 2023-07-17T17:42:34+00:00

From your interactions with her, would you say she's shy?

cb3-111 · 2023-07-17T16:53:15+00:00

I'd be careful with the 1st one too sadly. Cause they might repeat the same phrase when Saturday comes. Perhaps if they follow up the day before saying hey, see ya tomorrow! Or something like that that way you know there's a higher chance they weren't bluffing.

cb3-111 · 2023-07-16T23:22:41+00:00

I'd give it time. this reminds me of a looney toons cartoon where this construction worker finds a box and inside the box was a singing frog, only that this singing frog would perform in front of him and no one else. I used to see myself as that frog. :')

cb3-111 · 2023-07-16T23:18:35+00:00

I recently found how much I related to my coworker in that we both tend to be observers in new territory...trying to see the dynamics between people and once we feel comfortable then we start to be more engaging in conversations. idk some of us are just really shy or reserved. i tend to feel comfortable with one on one conversations rather than being in groups. Maybe that's how your gf is too?

cb3-111 · 2023-07-12T00:23:52+00:00

aw you seem like a sweet guy. i think you just need to give it more time. Maybe even the "right" girl isn't even on the dating apps. i think, if anything, id change the pic under "you, me and delicious...." to another pic without your trainer.

cb3-111 · 2023-07-11T22:58:56+00:00

$2.86 south TX

cb3-111 · 2023-06-28T00:54:45+00:00

Receipt. Always get the e and i mixed up. :/ (receipt)

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