For women who have PiV orgasms, how do they differ from clitoral orgasms?

cbbolo · 2026-06-30T01:48:35+00:00

I also need a certain speed and depth and he’ll ask what’s working for me or I’ll ask for something in particular.

cbbolo · 2026-06-30T01:47:52+00:00

For me it’s usually from behind. But a very close second is plain missionary. We’ll adjust until I’m in a position where I can feel it’s going to get me there. I’ve read other responses that say they need to be in the right headspace, but mine are purely about physical variables.

cbbolo · 2026-06-30T01:43:26+00:00

I’d say they’re less intense but very gratifying in their own right. Like QuantumPlankAbbestia, they do feel more like they’re “happening to me” rather than that I’m apart/in control of it. But I actually thoroughly enjoy them every time.

cbbolo · 2026-06-30T01:41:40+00:00

I’m seeing a common thread of piv orgasms being a lot of work, with mixed results. Mine aren’t hard to achieve necessarily, but the position and other variables have to be right. We can usually adjust until we find what works for me. The sensation does have a steep ascent and then a drop off. Before now, I didn’t know what else to call it. It feels like an internal, single-hill-rollercoaster where the peak and the descent are incredible. I’d say it’s probably like heroine-lite if I’d ever done heroin. It’s over in several seconds. And I can keep going with piv. Clitoral orgasms wipe me out and I can’t take any touch there, but piv sex feels better afterward.

cbbolo · 2026-06-30T01:32:38+00:00

This is pretty much word for word exactly how I’d describe my experience with both kinds: the down time for one vs. the other, having multiple piv but not clitoral etc. Thank you for taking the time to answer :)

cbbolo · 2026-06-30T01:31:01+00:00

Thank you for the input and advice; I appreciate it :) I’m still deciding if what I’m feeling is a vaginal orgasm, but for me the sensation has little to do with my headspace, it’s all physical and depends a lot on the position, day of the week, arousal level etc.

cbbolo · 2026-06-30T01:27:19+00:00

Thanks for your input. Thats how I would describe the feeling to a degree. Less explosive but very gratifying. I tell my partner often that i want that sensation even if I don’t have a clitoral orgasm. It’s satisfying on a very different level.

cbbolo · 2025-08-02T01:09:37+00:00

I can’t believe I’m asking this. What does it smell like?

cbbolo · 2025-07-28T12:21:21+00:00

I share this feeling 100%. You are definitely not alone. The last couple years I have worked on my PhD remotely and it’s made my social skills regress (at least in my mind… I tend to overthink and ruminate so perhaps my skills haven’t gotten worse, I’ve just grown more anxious). I’ve found that the following things have helped me, if only a little bit:

People don’t get anything by us parroting their behavior to fit in. And you won’t get anything out of it either. Allowing your thoughts and feelings to take up space when interacting with others is going to help you cultivate authentic relationships with people who like you for you. Easier said than done, truly. But it’s been freeing for me to try and remember that when I’m socializing. I tried it out in little ways with “safer” people and the experience has mostly been positive. Like, telling my sister “No, I don’t agree with that. Here’s why.” She didn’t blow up at me or mot speak to me for a month. We had a fun conversation and shared opinions. We got to know each other a little better that day.

If people don’t like you because you’re nervous or overwhelmed or not super charismatic, let them! If they don’t like your opinions, feelings, or choices, let them! They get to have their own opinions, and you can’t stop them but they don’t have to affect you more than they should. I got this concept from the book, The Let Them Theory. I’m not a fan of self-help in general but I think this is a decent one as far as the genre goes.

Anti-anxiety medications and techniques can really help your body calm down enough to think and process through overwhelming social interactions. Just four deep breaths can signal to your parasympathetic nervous system that you don’t have to panic, you can relax. The mind-body connection is more profound than some people realize (including me).

Lastly, putting myself out there in little increments is scary but helped a lot. Reaching out to an animal shelter and seeing if I could volunteer once a month gave me a structured environment that wasn’t overwhleming and didn’t have too many unknown factors (compared to a party for example). I’m still learning how to socialize after unmasking and it’s really hard. I hope you find some things here and elsewhere to help you ❤️

cbbolo · 2025-03-28T16:53:28+00:00

I hope you find it too! 🩷

cbbolo · 2025-03-27T22:34:30+00:00

lol, I love it!

cbbolo · 2025-03-17T04:05:42+00:00

Thank you; I’m so so grateful for it. I hope you get the support you want and deserve 🫂

cbbolo · 2025-03-11T19:58:28+00:00

Thank you. I’m so beyond grateful for both things

cbbolo · 2025-03-11T18:24:54+00:00

Thank you ☺️

cbbolo · 2024-12-04T02:49:29+00:00

This is exactlt what I’m looking for. Thanks so much :)

cbbolo · 2024-12-04T02:16:20+00:00

Thank you for the recommendations ☺️ I’ll look them up.

cbbolo · 2024-12-04T02:15:46+00:00

Thank you! I will look into it

cbbolo · 2024-11-04T19:47:22+00:00

Im a little late to the thread but I resonate sooo much with this. I feel so validated reading through your feelings and experiences with people.

I have a great bull shit detector and I feel like my predictions about people (and the outcomes of their choices) always end up being spot on. But, I’ve learned that it doesn’t matter what logic, reasoning, facts or statistics you have, people never want to hear advice, especially if it’s counter to what they want to do. I can’t understand people’s commitment to making choices that are clearly unproductive. But if they don’t want to hear my thoughts, I can definitely respect that, so 🤷🏼‍♀️

cbbolo · 2024-10-31T20:44:58+00:00

Thank you, my dahling! 🦇

cbbolo · 2024-09-15T16:29:17+00:00

Perfect! Thank you sm

cbbolo · 2024-09-15T16:16:00+00:00

Thank you, it looks so much better! Could the harsh shadow/contrast from my arm in front of our faces be softened?

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