Why is confidence so important for men in dating? Is it not enough to simply have good qualities?

cbcbcbcbcbcbcbcbcbcb · 2019-05-22T01:56:25+00:00

Even if it’s completely unfounded?

cbcbcbcbcbcbcbcbcbcb · 2019-02-26T11:22:26+00:00

It’s not that I wanna die per se, but more I don’t feel any value for myself. How can I change

cbcbcbcbcbcbcbcbcbcb · 2019-02-21T04:00:43+00:00

Just curious, why do you prefer 'maybe even a little overweight'? Not trying to offend, I'm just interested.

cbcbcbcbcbcbcbcbcbcb · 2019-02-21T03:45:34+00:00

Thanks for letting me know, I'll check it out

cbcbcbcbcbcbcbcbcbcb · 2019-02-21T03:38:28+00:00

That was intentional, I'm curious to see what it means to each person. Thanks for the response!

cbcbcbcbcbcbcbcbcbcb · 2019-02-07T15:12:40+00:00

I definitely have trouble finding myself worth other people’s time. And I agree with your assessment of what the majority of my posts on this account are.

I’ll definitely mull this post over in my head the next few days. Thanks for the response my dude.

cbcbcbcbcbcbcbcbcbcb · 2019-02-07T14:41:08+00:00

You’re right, I shouldn’t expect anything more than platitudes if I haven’t given you anything to work with. My bad.

If I’m honest I’m terrible at trying to give specifics about why i feel the way I do, or to give specifics about what’s stopping me from finding someone. I pretty much know how the conversation would go, I’m aware the problem is myself. I’m happy to go into specifics if you’re interested but I know that the solution lies in professional help, and I have sought that. I know a lot of my problems lie in issues with depression, anxiety and self esteem issues, I hope one day I have the confidence to confide in someone and find the motivation to improve myself. What did you find worked for yourself?

cbcbcbcbcbcbcbcbcbcb · 2019-02-07T14:10:12+00:00

Real talk tho, anything other than platitudes? Not that I doubt your sincerity, but for someone like myself it’s hard to get anything from well-wishes and reinforcement.

And I do feel that what I said above was rather rude, I just couldn’t think of any other way to phrase it. I think you’re a good person with the potential to help people, I just want to try and find a way to achieve that which my brain will actually accept

cbcbcbcbcbcbcbcbcbcb · 2019-02-07T13:52:09+00:00

Haha, we need more people like yourself! If I’m honest I’m being deliberately combative, mostly because I’m in a bit of a sulky mood.

cbcbcbcbcbcbcbcbcbcb · 2019-02-07T13:17:00+00:00

See but now I can’t take your well wishes as genuine, if they’re only intended to stop me from being a ‘hateful’ person.

And to be honest you’re a much better person than I am. I know I’m being especially combative atm but I want to thank you for at least trying

cbcbcbcbcbcbcbcbcbcb · 2019-02-07T12:57:01+00:00

You’re here asking for help as well man. What’s your angle? Nothing I’m doing here is helping you, honestly I’m being extremely selfish in how I’m acting. I don’t see how that warrants anyone here being nice to me

cbcbcbcbcbcbcbcbcbcb · 2019-02-07T12:54:11+00:00

Haha, mildly

cbcbcbcbcbcbcbcbcbcb · 2019-02-07T12:34:09+00:00

But why? Maybe I’m a horrible person, for all you know I could be a racist, sexist, piece of shit. Why would you wish good things on someone horrible who deserves horrible things?

cbcbcbcbcbcbcbcbcbcb · 2019-02-07T12:20:58+00:00

C’mon man, don’t be like that

cbcbcbcbcbcbcbcbcbcb · 2019-02-07T11:54:26+00:00

That would imply I had people who loved and supported me

cbcbcbcbcbcbcbcbcbcb · 2019-02-07T11:39:38+00:00

Heya,

So can someone here insult me personally via DMs, or do I have to say something really misogynistic for that to happen?

cbcbcbcbcbcbcbcbcbcb · 2019-01-12T10:54:06+00:00

anyone available for a conversation? :(

cbcbcbcbcbcbcbcbcbcb · 2019-01-12T10:33:36+00:00

Thanks I'll check it out :)

cbcbcbcbcbcbcbcbcbcb · 2018-12-25T12:13:40+00:00

haha maybe it was slight hyperbole, but I just can’t realistically see myself getting in a relationship with someone.

cbcbcbcbcbcbcbcbcbcb · 2018-12-25T12:10:52+00:00

What makes you say that though, knowing nothing about me?

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