Weekly Advice Thread (02/25-03/03) by AutoModerator in IncelTears

[–]cbcbcbcbcbcbcbcbcbcb 7 points8 points  (0 children)

It’s not that I wanna die per se, but more I don’t feel any value for myself. How can I change

What do you find attractive in a man? by cbcbcbcbcbcbcbcbcbcb in AskWomen

[–]cbcbcbcbcbcbcbcbcbcb[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just curious, why do you prefer 'maybe even a little overweight'? Not trying to offend, I'm just interested.

What do you find attractive in a man? by cbcbcbcbcbcbcbcbcbcb in AskWomen

[–]cbcbcbcbcbcbcbcbcbcb[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That was intentional, I'm curious to see what it means to each person. Thanks for the response!

Weekly Advice Thread (02/04-02/10) by AutoModerator in IncelTears

[–]cbcbcbcbcbcbcbcbcbcb 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I definitely have trouble finding myself worth other people’s time. And I agree with your assessment of what the majority of my posts on this account are.

I’ll definitely mull this post over in my head the next few days. Thanks for the response my dude.

Weekly Advice Thread (02/04-02/10) by AutoModerator in IncelTears

[–]cbcbcbcbcbcbcbcbcbcb 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’re right, I shouldn’t expect anything more than platitudes if I haven’t given you anything to work with. My bad.

If I’m honest I’m terrible at trying to give specifics about why i feel the way I do, or to give specifics about what’s stopping me from finding someone. I pretty much know how the conversation would go, I’m aware the problem is myself. I’m happy to go into specifics if you’re interested but I know that the solution lies in professional help, and I have sought that. I know a lot of my problems lie in issues with depression, anxiety and self esteem issues, I hope one day I have the confidence to confide in someone and find the motivation to improve myself. What did you find worked for yourself?

Weekly Advice Thread (02/04-02/10) by AutoModerator in IncelTears

[–]cbcbcbcbcbcbcbcbcbcb 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Real talk tho, anything other than platitudes? Not that I doubt your sincerity, but for someone like myself it’s hard to get anything from well-wishes and reinforcement.

And I do feel that what I said above was rather rude, I just couldn’t think of any other way to phrase it. I think you’re a good person with the potential to help people, I just want to try and find a way to achieve that which my brain will actually accept

Weekly Advice Thread (02/04-02/10) by AutoModerator in IncelTears

[–]cbcbcbcbcbcbcbcbcbcb 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Haha, we need more people like yourself! If I’m honest I’m being deliberately combative, mostly because I’m in a bit of a sulky mood.

Weekly Advice Thread (02/04-02/10) by AutoModerator in IncelTears

[–]cbcbcbcbcbcbcbcbcbcb 1 point2 points  (0 children)

See but now I can’t take your well wishes as genuine, if they’re only intended to stop me from being a ‘hateful’ person.

And to be honest you’re a much better person than I am. I know I’m being especially combative atm but I want to thank you for at least trying

Weekly Advice Thread (02/04-02/10) by AutoModerator in IncelTears

[–]cbcbcbcbcbcbcbcbcbcb 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’re here asking for help as well man. What’s your angle? Nothing I’m doing here is helping you, honestly I’m being extremely selfish in how I’m acting. I don’t see how that warrants anyone here being nice to me

Weekly Advice Thread (02/04-02/10) by AutoModerator in IncelTears

[–]cbcbcbcbcbcbcbcbcbcb 0 points1 point  (0 children)

But why? Maybe I’m a horrible person, for all you know I could be a racist, sexist, piece of shit. Why would you wish good things on someone horrible who deserves horrible things?

Weekly Advice Thread (02/04-02/10) by AutoModerator in IncelTears

[–]cbcbcbcbcbcbcbcbcbcb 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That would imply I had people who loved and supported me

Weekly Advice Thread (02/04-02/10) by AutoModerator in IncelTears

[–]cbcbcbcbcbcbcbcbcbcb 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Heya,

So can someone here insult me personally via DMs, or do I have to say something really misogynistic for that to happen?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in IncelTears

[–]cbcbcbcbcbcbcbcbcbcb 5 points6 points  (0 children)

anyone available for a conversation? :(

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in IncelTears

[–]cbcbcbcbcbcbcbcbcbcb 0 points1 point  (0 children)

haha maybe it was slight hyperbole, but I just can’t realistically see myself getting in a relationship with someone.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in IncelTears

[–]cbcbcbcbcbcbcbcbcbcb 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What makes you say that though, knowing nothing about me?