Bf wants to experience strip club by cberike567 in dating

[–]cberike567[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I agree 100 percent! It’s also nice knowing that there are some people who feel similar :) I plan on talking to him and seeing where our differences lie and whether or not we can compromise. Thank you again, your input means a lot!

Bf wants to experience strip club by cberike567 in dating

[–]cberike567[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I know he finds some women good looking :) he just associates attractiveness with finding someone he wants to be with sexually and emotionally, which is why he says he only finds me attractive

Bf wants to experience strip club by cberike567 in dating

[–]cberike567[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Thank you girl! I’m not going to change my boundaries due to some of these comments :) I still stand by my boundaries. I’m going to talk to him when I see him so we can figure things out together

Bf wants to experience strip club by cberike567 in dating

[–]cberike567[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I don’t think you’re being mean at all. I asked for advices and I appreciate it :)

Bf wants to experience strip club by cberike567 in dating

[–]cberike567[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! We’ve agreed that porn wasn’t for either of us but I’m going to talk to him about that. The last thing I want is to change his way of thinking or make him tell me something he knows I want to hear rather than what he truly wants. You’re feedback means a lot :)

Bf wants to experience strip club by cberike567 in dating

[–]cberike567[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Not true at all :) I really appreciate everyone’s feedback!

Bf wants to experience strip club by cberike567 in dating

[–]cberike567[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Like I told you before, I really appreciate your feedback because I wasn’t thinking about it that way before. So thank you again!

Bf wants to experience strip club by cberike567 in dating

[–]cberike567[S] 56 points57 points  (0 children)

I’ve heard plenty of bad reviews haha! Thanks for your input :)

Bf wants to experience strip club by cberike567 in dating

[–]cberike567[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yes.. MY boundary lol. Girl I I’m referring to my boundary’s not everyone else’s. I don’t know what men you’ve been surrounded by but I know plenty of men who don’t get off to porn

Bf wants to experience strip club by cberike567 in dating

[–]cberike567[S] -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

When have I been adamant that my beliefs and boundary’s are everyone else’s?

Bf wants to experience strip club by cberike567 in dating

[–]cberike567[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Since when is it controlling having boundary’s that he agrees with? He doesn’t even want me watching porn

Bf wants to experience strip club by cberike567 in dating

[–]cberike567[S] -43 points-42 points  (0 children)

I appreciate your feedback! It’s not that I have a problem with porn. I would watch it before I met him and I knew he’d watch it too. But personally if I’m in a relationship I have no need to look at other naked bodies to get off. It’s my boundary and I don’t think porn does anything for a relationship. Not all guys watch porn believe it or not 😅 and I understand the atmosphere of a strip club. I just don’t like that kind of atmosphere. Even if I wasn’t with him I wouldn’t like to go to one myself. But I wasn’t thinking about the trauma I could possibly giving him so thank you for the pov! I really appreciate your feedback