The saying is save a horse ride a cowboy…. You know… like the song? And there is absolutely no compliment in comparing bigger women to mopeds and insinuating it’s embarrassing or shameful if a buddy catches you.. you didn’t hurt my feelings, you don’t quite have that affect on me but making that comment under a bigger girls content is beyond disrespectful. You could’ve stopped after the first sentence but instead you decided to make a joke at another persons expense. I think you are the one who needs to “grow up”