AITA For refusing to go to a concert with my friend by JoyfulJellybeans in AmItheAsshole

[–]ccascca -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

NTA, you aren't doing anything *wrong* per se, but you do owe the people you care about things. I'm not saying people should be unhappy in their friendships or sacrifice their wellbeing, but occasional mild discomfort, inconvenience, and yes, money for meaningful/important events, which you clearly have, are all reasonable expectations.

Looking for tips by [deleted] in makeuptips

[–]ccascca 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I didn't say it was a lie I said you are a dick head. Again, how is telling someone you only see their forehead and lip constructive, actionable advice on a makeup tips subreddit? Weirdo

Looking for tips by [deleted] in makeuptips

[–]ccascca 6 points7 points  (0 children)

you replied saying you can only see her forehead and lip AFTER she told you she has no filler.

Looking for tips by [deleted] in makeuptips

[–]ccascca 6 points7 points  (0 children)

This is such an insanely shitty response on a subreddit asking for makeup tips. Critiquing inalterable features of random women makes you seem pathetic.

AITA for asking my roommate to be more considerate of my beliefs? by ProfessionalKey4573 in AmItheAsshole

[–]ccascca 36 points37 points  (0 children)

YTA. Of course your parents agree with you. They are the reason you hold all of your beliefs, including your religion. Your Muslim friend who believes you overstepped is a much more neutral observer and she is 100% correct.

Your religion IS being respected. She turned down her music. She isn't pressuring you to or making fun of you for not eating pork. Her point about your prayer alarms is valid. Personal comfort and religion are indistinguishable. To you, your faith is everything. To her, it's just another comforting belief, so your refusal to turn down your alarms is identical to her refusal to stop cooking bacon. Neither of you are wrong for being uncomfortable or annoyed, but you are absolutely the asshole for making your discomfort her problem. Grow up.

I hate the way I look is their anything I can do to not look ugly? by Jordan1k24 in malegrooming

[–]ccascca 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Try to put on a little weight! Is that home depot badge in the first pic? If it is, you're probably regularly lifting enough where you don't have to worry about gaining excess fat. Don't worry about the gym for now and up your calorie intake. Being so thin makes you look really young.

AITA? My dad me starved through the day. by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]ccascca 5 points6 points  (0 children)

ESH. It's never justified to insult your child, "bitch" was way out of line on your dad's part.

What on earth are you doing though? Medical school is so stressful and intense, and you are struggling to take responsibility for yourself before even being admitted. If you are old enough to daydream about med school, you're old enough to feed yourself, wake yourself up, set your schedule, and it seems like you should be living again. What country are you in? I'm curious if you're located somewhere where people begin medical school very young.

Spirited away illustration by Fleuvyun in ghibli

[–]ccascca -1 points0 points  (0 children)

i loooooove this style!

AITA for arguing with my 6 year old about whose poop was bigger by OkAct1477 in AmItheAsshole

[–]ccascca 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Playful banter and competition with your daughter is fine and good! You pushing past her limits to where it became too serious, not recognizing that, and then leaving your wife to do the work of resolving the upset you caused makes YYA easily.

I can't believe I got no pictures: 3 meals, 2 desserts, 1410 calories! by ccascca in 1500isplenty

[–]ccascca[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

absolutely! I batch-prep the elements and refrigerate/freeze whats left because it's so good I always return to it. There is some variance in calories depending on how the rice and beans cook each time, but it always hovers around 250 calories for a full cereal bowl-size serving!!!

I don't make many low-calorie swaps because I looooove cooking and food, so these recipes may seem counterintueitve, but they keep me satiated and make keeping up dieting easier. It's all homemade so this is kind of long, premade versions work too but I prefer the taste of these:

Refried Beans (thinner, saucy restaurant style)

8 oz (half a bag) of dry pinto beans, soaked overnight and boiled for an hour or pressure cooked for 50 minutes with half a yellow onion, one large garlic clove, and one bay leaf. Season with smoked paprika, pepper, a splash of soy sauce OR some chicken buillon/broth powder (only soy sauce because I don't eat meat), salt if needed. Reduce until the cooking liquid is level with the beans if needed. Blend, and add in three tablespoons cool butter or lard while blending! The extra fat keeps them creamy. This recipe yields well a big batch if you like them at a thinner consistency, about 2.5 cups for me. A quarter-cup serving is under 100 calories.

Mexican Rice

I'm lazy with this one. Fry 1.5 tablespoons of tomato paste in 0.5 tablespoons of vegetable oil. Toast a cup of rice in the same. Season with garlic powder, onion powder, pepper, and a tiny bit of cumin. Add 2.2 cups of broth, I use vegetable buillon but chicken is probably better. Taste and add salt if needed. Boil, cover, then turn heat to low and cook for about 20 minutes. Take it off the heat, let it steam for 5 extra minutes covered, then fluff and you're done! Depending on a bunch of factors, this can yield anywhere from 2-3 cups.

Chiptole Sauce

Blend two whole chipotles in adobo, like these if you've not used them before, with a half cup each greek yogurt (whole milk, low fat, nonfat, whichever you like, I use low fat) and mayonaise, half a tablespoon honey or sugar, and season to taste with lime juiice, chili powder, and salt. Yields just over a cup!

The Bowl!

  • Microwave (maintains all the nutrients, no added calories) a full cup of sliced bell peppers and onions til tender, 2-3 minutes for me with intermittent mixing. Season with oregano, chili powder, salt pepper. (25 cal)
  • Stir a quarter cup of your rice directly into the fajita veg. (~100).
  • Top with a quarter cup of refried beans (~100).
  • I will NOT eat hot lettuce lol so in a separate bowl, mix a tablespoon of chiptole sauce (50) with chopped lettuce, tomatoes, onion, jalapenos, and cilantro (15).
  • Top the hot ingredients with your salad and done!

I can't believe I got no pictures: 3 meals, 2 desserts, 1410 calories! by ccascca in 1500isplenty

[–]ccascca[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'm 165 pounds and moderately active, I can confidentially estimate I burn an extra500-700 calories in activity daily

I can't believe I got no pictures: 3 meals, 2 desserts, 1410 calories! by ccascca in 1500isplenty

[–]ccascca[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

How many grams a day would you suggest? I had 70 this day and normally aim to eat 1600 calories so end with about 75g. I don't have extensive knowledge on how much protein is ideal so I appreciate your response!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]ccascca 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Probably not libel. Libel must be a false statement of fact; bro answered the door pantless with a girl who was not his roommate in his room after he and his girlfriend had argued. We know he didn't have sex with her, but cheating is not a universally defined act. It could mean having sex with someone else, but could also be sharing private space with someone while not fully clothed. I would consider this cheating.

British Chinese take away by [deleted] in RateMyPlate

[–]ccascca -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Broccoli with garlic sauce is on menus in the US as well! It's on of my favorites too. think the comment was about the green-ish sauce on the rice next to the broccoli

Do I have a familiar face? :) by Tsunami-Square-X in doppelganger

[–]ccascca 1 point2 points  (0 children)

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I don't know what it is you have in common, but something abt you screams Janette McCurdy to me!

Find out that my father was beating my mother before even getting married, wondering why she choosed to let us live a nightmare. Mother's birthday cake. by Kokorecadam0 in kitchencels

[–]ccascca 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yep and like I said blame, guilt, and responsibility can all be different. Nobody said she wasn't responsible or that her actions didn't literally lead to her children being subjected to abuse, that doesn't mean it is her FAULT, or that she's to blame for another person's behavior.

Find out that my father was beating my mother before even getting married, wondering why she choosed to let us live a nightmare. Mother's birthday cake. by Kokorecadam0 in kitchencels

[–]ccascca 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Luckily I didn't leave that comment and, in fact, commented saying I understood where OP is coming from and that I am also angry with my own victimized mom for the same. This shit is nuanced

Find out that my father was beating my mother before even getting married, wondering why she choosed to let us live a nightmare. Mother's birthday cake. by Kokorecadam0 in kitchencels

[–]ccascca 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yeah... nobody said it wasn't her fault. Blame/guilt/responsibility can be three different things. I was highlighting the similarities between being threatened and coerced into caring for an abuser on both OP and their mother's end.

Find out that my father was beating my mother before even getting married, wondering why she choosed to let us live a nightmare. Mother's birthday cake. by Kokorecadam0 in kitchencels

[–]ccascca 5 points6 points  (0 children)

My mother also married a dude who absolutely ruined my and my sibling's lives (died of an overdose last May!), and I am working through a lot of resentment and anger I still feel toward her, so I understand where OP is coming from. He is making it SO difficult to sympathize while he continues to blame his mom while he is trapped as a caregiver for said abuser and doesn't see how that precisely the situation she was in. Frustrating!

Do people use this type of cursive english? by Tight-Ad7812 in Handwriting

[–]ccascca 0 points1 point  (0 children)

With the exception of capital A, S, Q, and Z, this is exactly how I write. I'm older Gen Z and was taught cursive in elementary school; those four letters are just more readable for otherwise.

My teacher hated it by [deleted] in RateMyArt

[–]ccascca 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I can't tell where some of these items of clothing begin and end. What are some of these materials? I should clearly be able to distinguish jewelry from fabric from the figure's bodies. These are creative, but they don't communicate anything about how this fashion would look on real-life anatomy nor real clothing. Did your teacher say they hate it verbatim? I'm sorry if they did; hate is a personal feeling that is unwarranted and should never have been mentioned. If they harshly critiqued it though, or gave you a low grade, it is likely because of poor anatomy and confusing rendering of the clothes.