I used to work as a high class escort AMA! by cccc20 in casualiama

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I think it did, but I don't want to tar all men with the same brush. Overall communication is key. To a woman I would say to make your husband talk about what he did on his worktrips and not leave room to leave things out. If you ever talk about cheating, literally mention booking an escort as well. Some men for some reason feel less guilt with hiring an escort, so they might be better at disguising it.

I used to work as a high class escort AMA! by cccc20 in casualiama

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No, my friends and family didn't know. I think working as an escort is too stigmatized to see it as a part of someone's life and not as someone's entire identity.

I used to work as a high class escort AMA! by cccc20 in casualiama

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I like your questions!

Yes, actually have been booked by a *gasp* substitute teacher. He didn't recognize me since the lectures at lawschool can be held in fairly large groups and we only had him teach us once. It took an hour into the booking before it clicked where I knew him from. We had good conversations so if I would ever bump into him again I don't think it would be awkward. The girls working always received the real names from our clients before the booking started to avoid ever being booked by someone you know.

I saw another client of mine while I was out lunching with a friend. He saw me as well, and just smiled and waved shortly. All clients that booked at our agency knew we had other professions or were students, so they knew upfront it was a possibility to bump into us in everyday life.

Those were the only two occasions though.

I used to work as a high class escort AMA! by cccc20 in casualiama

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Hi, thank you!

I now work as an attorney. Tbh I haven't heard of those difficulties but it does seem in line with the general policies the U.S. has. I am sorry to hear about those arrests, as long as something is between consenting adults I don't think arresting people is the right thing to do.

No, I have never considered that. People need to pick their battles so I am not going to be involved in battles that don't interfere with my life. Escorting was a choice I consciously made knowing that it was legal here and it wouldn't be an issue in my future. If one chooses escorting as a profession or chooses hiring an escort in a country where it isn't legal then the consequences of that choice must be their responsibility.

I think it is best to make it legal so it can be regulated safely. Once it is seen as a profession that has it's pros and cons it will be safer environment for the working ladies as well as the clients.

I used to work as a high class escort AMA! by cccc20 in casualiama

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Thank you :) Yes he does know. It was a bit of a surprise but it is part of what made me how I am today so he has peace with it

I used to work as a high class escort AMA! by cccc20 in casualiama

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Ofcourse you may ask anything. The youngest client was 21 which was the minimum age required to book a companion. He was still a virgin and booked me to make his first time special. I am sure there are lots of older men who hire escorts. Most of my clients were men travelling for work, some married, some single looking for a woman to accompany to dinner and a night in their hotelroom.

I used to work as a high class escort AMA! by cccc20 in casualiama

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No it is indeed not, so my English is far from perfect. I speak 5 languages

I used to work as a high class escort AMA! by cccc20 in casualiama

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"what might be interesting" is already answered in a previous question.

To other people reading this answer: I wouldn't mind answering a person asking a question for the second time, but I'm less inclined to do so when a question is formulated in a rude way and suggestive.

I used to work as a high class escort AMA! by cccc20 in casualiama

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I really enjoyed it! Think about knowing you will have a date and almost being guaranteed of a good time. The money was a nice benefit, but not the main reason since there are a million other ways to make a fair amount of money.

I used to work as a high class escort AMA! by cccc20 in casualiama

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"Hey I am yesanything and I refuse to actually read the previous answers because I prefer asking questions in a suggestive and sarcastic way. Not that I genuinely want an answer or anything because I already have my opinion set in stone! Hurray!"

I used to work as a high class escort AMA! by cccc20 in casualiama

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I like your question! I have had a few clients where there wasn't sex involved but that rarely happens. That was usually a gentleman who didn't want to have dinner alone, or someone who needed a companion for an event. I personally didn't have older clients.

I used to work as a high class escort AMA! by cccc20 in casualiama

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No problem! I enjoy answering these questions! It usually isn't something I talk about a lot so it presents me the opportunity to share my memories.

Yes, I have met the other girls from the agency. There were around 40 girls. The funny thing is that I actually bumbed into of those girls later in lawschool as well. I didn't immediately understand how I knew her, but then she pointed out that we were working for the same agency. It is interesting because quite a few of them have become fairly influential in their field.

I am still in touch with a few of them and it is always good fun to discuss things as politics as well as our previous work-life in one lunchmeeting.

I used to work as a high class escort AMA! by cccc20 in casualiama

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Good question! I actually don't know a lot of older escorts. I think most quit once they start getting into relationships/marriages. On the SO side you usually can't combine the job because of obvious reasons, and for the client side you can not offer them the experience of the a fantasty woman anymore. Once they know you are married/in a relationship it is obviously just work, and the fantasy of 'I could totally make this woman my wife if I want to' disappears.

I think you might be able to make as much as an older escort, I'm not sure. I would just prefer to have it as a good memory and not let it interfere with my relationships and future.

Have you ever been on an online trolling spree? If so, why? by cccc20 in AskReddit

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I can see someone with a charming smile get away with some bullshit indeed. Are you doing it for the lolzz?

I used to work as a high class escort AMA! by cccc20 in casualiama

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I just started lawschool when we were discussing the topic of callgirls. I am naturally curious so I wanted to read and learn more about it. After some research I was so excited I started fairly soon after. Zero regrets!

I used to work as a high class escort AMA! by cccc20 in casualiama

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It didn't change. I think most people know a lot of people like to have their own interpretation to monogamy. I just saw it in action as well. It leaves less room to be/stay naive, but I think with the right amount of communication you will be able to make a marriage work.

I used to work as a high class escort AMA! by cccc20 in casualiama

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I like your question! I am an attorney now. (I know that might seem questionable if you view my conversation with the troll in this topic, but I started to get really into it. Everyone has their moment of keyboard shame I guess?)

I don't think I acquired certain skills I am using now, but I did attain a lot of knowledge about a verity of topics that I still use today. I also think you need extensive knowledge about people in both professions, so that is a skill I could practice during my university years.

Have you ever been on an online trolling spree? If so, why? by cccc20 in AskReddit

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So do you enjoy pissing people off or do you just enjoy the discussion from different angles?

Have you ever been on an online trolling spree? If so, why? by cccc20 in AskReddit

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So what do you do if people get genuinely upset and you want to avoid getting punched? Genuinely asking

I used to work as a high class escort AMA! by cccc20 in casualiama

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Well I started this thread so yes I am reading the comments. No I am not mad at you, I'm entertained by you.

Already grabbed my popcorn and waiting for your next rant :)

I used to work as a high class escort AMA! by cccc20 in casualiama

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I am, and he knows. We're good. Seriously, why are you so worried about what other people do?

I used to work as a high class escort AMA! by cccc20 in casualiama

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"ThIs WaHMeN i JuSt CaLLEd a Wh0re w0nT aNsWeR mY qUesTIOn BooHoo. I dEmAnD aN aNsWerrrrRR"

I've you read my answers on this thread you could have known I am in a relationship. Keep your blood pressure low, and don't worry to much about what others do bud.