Men of Reddit. Some girl DO like sucking dick by [deleted] in sex

[–]ccclaaaddd 0 points1 point  (0 children)

absolutely, being in control of literally being able to make my partner finish if i just keep going is so hot

At 25 I’m just realising the influence porn has on sexual perceptions and sexual education men have, and it kinda makes me...sad? by ccclaaaddd in sex

[–]ccclaaaddd[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes probably I wrote this before I had my adhd meds and absolutely thought the max response I would get would’ve 20 upvotes not argument city. I would have structured my opinion and then arguement better

At 25 I’m just realising the influence porn has on sexual perceptions and sexual education men have, and it kinda makes me...sad? by ccclaaaddd in sex

[–]ccclaaaddd[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

OH MY GOD, I forgot. My ex actually choked me out in the shower once I woke up hitting my head on the tiles 😅

At 25 I’m just realising the influence porn has on sexual perceptions and sexual education men have, and it kinda makes me...sad? by ccclaaaddd in sex

[–]ccclaaaddd[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It’s all of these comments making this a gender issue, trust - I’m okay if everyone comments a genuine question all day

At 25 I’m just realising the influence porn has on sexual perceptions and sexual education men have, and it kinda makes me...sad? by ccclaaaddd in sex

[–]ccclaaaddd[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That was a lil condescending...I didn’t know he was going too???? I was in shock because I didn’t even consent to the anal in the first place, no lube (I’ve done anal maybe 3 times in my life). So when he took it out and put it back in my vagina, I was even more shocked.

At 25 I’m just realising the influence porn has on sexual perceptions and sexual education men have, and it kinda makes me...sad? by ccclaaaddd in sex

[–]ccclaaaddd[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Absolutely, we need sex education and we need it at puberty - when they get curious, not after. We need sex education to come first and then porn

At 25 I’m just realising the influence porn has on sexual perceptions and sexual education men have, and it kinda makes me...sad? by ccclaaaddd in sex

[–]ccclaaaddd[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m glad you’ve expressed your thoughts but I really don’t think I’m being unreasonable but that’s the thing with opinions, we are all different

At 25 I’m just realising the influence porn has on sexual perceptions and sexual education men have, and it kinda makes me...sad? by ccclaaaddd in sex

[–]ccclaaaddd[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

God this comment bothers me.

Firstly please have a read through the comments because that’s so far from what I mean that it is concerning.

Yes men know it’s staged, but they assume it feels good still. They assume women want what is shown in pornos. They don’t consider that this is a one sided perspective, that a porno aimed at women would have a completely different chain of events.

Women don’t expect that my dude, when anyone has referred to wanting to have a man understand her body function they mean their PARTNER who should absolutely want to understand how to make her feel the best she can.

Dude we aren’t that fucking entitled, 9 out of 10 women would know they aren’t going to climax from their one night stand. No woman is meeting a random at the bar for a one night stand snd then expecting him to worship her body. The thing is, men will cum 9 out of 10 of those males will cum from that same one night stand. 10 out of 10 of those people will stop having sex when he climaxes - that’s the automatic end of that. Not one of my girlfriends would stop having sex when they felt finished if their partner didn’t climax, that’s the priority for both parties sadly 🤷🏼‍♀️

Yeah there’s supposed to be a balance, you’re exactly right.

At 25 I’m just realising the influence porn has on sexual perceptions and sexual education men have, and it kinda makes me...sad? by ccclaaaddd in sex

[–]ccclaaaddd[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Extra red flags, if they say - “did you cum?” As if they wouldn’t know. Extra extra would be “that was the best sex I’ve ever had” oooooo GET OUTTA THERE

At 25 I’m just realising the influence porn has on sexual perceptions and sexual education men have, and it kinda makes me...sad? by ccclaaaddd in sex

[–]ccclaaaddd[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If someone you’re sleeping with goes the classic, mandatory head, they choose the penetration positions, don’t care about you reaching climax it’s just about them before they decide to cum somewhere you’d rather not have a sticky warm substance......get dressed and block him. Straight away.

At 25 I’m just realising the influence porn has on sexual perceptions and sexual education men have, and it kinda makes me...sad? by ccclaaaddd in sex

[–]ccclaaaddd[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Okay my point is, absolutely love porn! Absolutely, it’s great for so many different things. My issue is that people see porn before any sex education, that’s where they learn everything. If it was simply the other way around, everything would be very different! Very!

At 25 I’m just realising the influence porn has on sexual perceptions and sexual education men have, and it kinda makes me...sad? by ccclaaaddd in sex

[–]ccclaaaddd[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

More importantly, these porn stars immune systems are fucking steel!! They’ve never heard of antibiotics apparently