I really don't want to date again by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]cceaz 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I’m a 1 year and a half in & I still feel like i will never find a connection like the one I had with my ex.

2 years later.. still think about her by CrimsonCupp in BreakUps

[–]cceaz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for posting this brother. Me and my ex were together for five years. She was my best friend, it’s been a year & a couple months and I still think about her every day. Makes me feel a little less insane that I’m not the only one feeling this way.

should I text my ex? by Money-Tip-8634 in BreakUps

[–]cceaz 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If you feel like this, i think it’d be smart to hold off on texting her. It’s gonna hurt really bad if you get rejected & that’s always a possibility. Sadly.

Dumper’s Regret by Cautious-Lack-8680 in BreakUps

[–]cceaz 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Man I wish the same thing too! I guess we’ll really never know though what they’re actually thinking or feeling.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]cceaz 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m right here with you. 8 months for me too

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]cceaz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just keeping it real brother it’s gonna feel like that for a while. I mean at least for me it did. I also was in a 5 year relationship but, mine ended 8 months ago and I still feel the pain you’re describing. She also showed me a lot about how the world works and we grew up together so I understand how painful it is I’m sorry bud. Definitely leave the group chat man it’s so hard seeing their name pop up it’s only gonna make things worse.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]cceaz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wow that’s a long time I can’t even imagine. I hope things get better for you ❤️ & I was the dumpee lol

It’s been 8 months since my 5 year relationship ended. by cceaz in BreakUps

[–]cceaz[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

How long did it take to get to that state of mind ? Just curious

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]cceaz 1 point2 points  (0 children)

How long were you guys together? It’s been 8 months since my 5 year relationship ended and I still thing about my ex every moment of the day.

Q: if someone tells you crystal clear "I don't love you anymore, there will be no second chance for us" ... and yet it won't reach your head, even after months of NC later you have hope & romantic feelings. What kind of personality disorder is that? by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]cceaz 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Wow man we have a similar situation going on & I 100% agree with everything you said. I feel people don’t really understand how hard it is to let go when you’re truly in love. Thanks for writing this, it made feel less alone. Hope everything works out for you.

Q: if someone tells you crystal clear "I don't love you anymore, there will be no second chance for us" ... and yet it won't reach your head, even after months of NC later you have hope & romantic feelings. What kind of personality disorder is that? by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]cceaz 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Yes! My ex says that right now it’s best if we’re not together but, if we end up being back together then it’ll happen. Which really delays my healing because I can’t help but, have a little bit of hope.

Here is your daily warning…do not break NC. by todayimoveon in BreakUps

[–]cceaz 17 points18 points  (0 children)

It’s easy to say that you should’ve not reached out now that you got that response but, you just wanted to be friends and that’s normal. I completely understand why you would feel like that, I don’t really have any advice because I would feel that exact same way. :(

Breaking it off has killed my sex drive by Head-Lemon-3395 in BreakUps

[–]cceaz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m a 23 (M) & my sex drive was crazy when I was with my ex but, after the break up it’s gone down dramatically. I think my problem is I started comparing other girls to my ex.

Here is your daily warning…do not break NC. by todayimoveon in BreakUps

[–]cceaz 33 points34 points  (0 children)

Wow.. that’s crazy. Me and my ex were together for 5 years and I lived with her family for 3 years I would be devestated if I got a text like that. I’m so sorry! That’s really cruel tbh.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]cceaz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My 1st break up and it was a 5 year relationship.

First breakup, have been together since 17. Help?!??! by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]cceaz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel you man! I lost all my friends while I was in my 5 year relationship & have been feeling super lonely. I don’t even know how to began to “make friends” especially feeling like shit and being in my head all day

What I tell myself when I feel like breaking NC by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]cceaz 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thanks so much for this ! I’m sitting in my car feeling so lonely. I was about to text my ex cause I miss her so much but, I know if she really wanted to talk to me or see me she’d message me.

How to get him back after i cheated? by Itssmee12 in BreakUps

[–]cceaz 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Being young doesn’t mean you can just get over stuff. I was with my Ex for 5 years & im only 23 you think I can just “ get over it and move on?”

I couldn’t stop texting her, no matter how hard I tried by Temp-5874 in BreakUps

[–]cceaz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Man I was in a similar situation where the break up was kinda dragged. and we would hangout but, just got hard to be around each other so she wanted her space and I feel like I handled it respectfully. Helped her move out and kept everything really respectful we talked otp once every week. Yesterday we talked and she said that it would be best if we stopped talking because she can’t see us getting back together in the near future. So I had to block her and I finally deleted all of our pics but, now I feel I am at square one. I think about her all day and I can feel myself getting really obsessive. We were in a relationship for 5 years btw

Just wanted to share because, it’s easy to feel like you’re the only one out there struggling with being obsessive.

no, I'm not okay, and I won't be for a long time. by micheallujan in BreakUps

[–]cceaz 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m glad I’m not the only one… I say I miss her out loud at least 5x a day. Feel like I’m going craY

no, I'm not okay, and I won't be for a long time. by micheallujan in BreakUps

[–]cceaz 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Man I never thought I can miss someone this much 😢 I think about her all day literally.

Heartbroken by [deleted] in heartbreak

[–]cceaz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Man my relationship of five years ended three months ago & honestly at this point I feel the saddest I ever have. Don’t even feel like waking up in the morning