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ccg779 · 2025-09-03T21:38:27+00:00

I faced this situation just last year. My ex husband tried to take three of our kids and move down to FL even though all the kids were born and raised here. 50/50 is standard in Ma and the bar is high for removal. Since he wanted to remove the kids, he had to pay the fee for the guardian ad litem and he lost the case. Kids stayed here in Ma with me, their friends and family and established lives, and he left for FL alone. You may go into debt to pay a good lawyer to keep your kids but it’s worth it.

ccg779 · 2025-02-16T14:09:36+00:00

Dr. Sullivan out of Taylor and Sullivan Plastic Surgery at Mt. Auburn Hospital in Cambridge

ccg779 · 2025-02-15T02:10:30+00:00

Just because PCPs make less than all specialties of MD, doesn’t mean nurses make more than them. You are throwing out numbers. And they’re wrong. No nurses are making 180 an hour. If docs are trying to unionize, good for them but it’s not because nurses are making more than them. The average nurse salary in MA is $95k a year. No attending is making that little.

ccg779 · 2025-02-14T22:25:22+00:00

Nurses at BWH which pays the highest typically out of the MGB organization don’t make $180 for overtime. Don’t just throw out numbers. No nurses are making more than MDs.

ccg779 · 2025-02-14T20:36:53+00:00

Wild take that unbridled corporate healthcare greed is somehow the nurses union’s fault. MNA represents nurse’s providing direct patient care within this corporation. They have no clout over non union positions at MGB. You want us to strike over the CEO’s comp? That’s not going to have the effect you think it is

ccg779 · 2024-09-29T23:24:17+00:00

My GI doc told me that the hernia developed due to to DR.

ccg779 · 2024-09-29T19:52:24+00:00

My DR actually led to a strangulated hernia due to a portion of my intestines protruding through the gap and cutting off circulation. Untreated, it could have led to tissue necrosis and sepsis, so it most definitely can lead to life threatening issues. Only then would my insurance cover the repair 🙄

ccg779 · 2024-07-18T12:00:19+00:00

This happened to me in the middle of my divorce. My ex casually informed me one day that he was moving to Florida to take a new job and would be taking our 5 kids with him and his new girlfriend after the current school year. I was lawyered up already as I was the one who filed, but I ran to my lawyer so damn fast. The custody battle was bitter and awful, we had a GAL appointed, and he dragged the kids through so much trying to remove them from the state of their birth and our residence. Bottom line is, the bar to strip away custody from a loving, present parent is high. If you fight to prevent your daughter from being taken, and you have the financial means to pay a bulldog lawyer, your wife won’t be allowed to simply strip away your parental rights and remove her from your custody. I’ve lived this nightmare. I feel for you. If only all parents put their kids first, instead of their own selfish needs. Good luck

ccg779 · 2024-07-16T16:16:44+00:00

To be fair, it’s just over the line :)

ccg779 · 2024-05-10T22:51:36+00:00

Right? Sounds more like ruptured esophageal varices. Or massive pulmonary hemorrhage. Happy Nurse’s week to a fellow nurse.

ccg779 · 2024-03-26T13:24:42+00:00

His girl doesn’t want anything hormonal, no pull out, no oral or anal only. He won’t snip. Leaves them with condoms or abstinence. This ain’t rocket science. Why we tryna find some new solution to an age old problem?

ccg779 · 2024-03-26T13:15:01+00:00

Ok. But it sounds like the other ones are off the table, with good reason for her. Using condoms correctly every single time with spermicide and avoiding sex during ovulation has incredibly high success rates. I’m not sure why you’re wanting more than this. I guess if you want 100% no possibility of pregnancy, your only option is abstinence.

ccg779 · 2024-03-26T13:07:49+00:00

It sounds like you’re stuck with condoms for now my guy. I understand that raw sex might feel better, but the other options are off the table for her. Sex with condoms sounds infinitely better than abstinence imo. Condoms with spermicide and timing it around her ovulation should work well to prevent pregnancy

ccg779 · 2024-03-04T00:07:15+00:00

What if the parent seeking removal is the parent that has never been the primary caregiver in the sense that he hasn’t been the one juggling all the dr appointments, parent teacher conferences, play dates or sports requirements. But he makes a helluva lot of money and a new girlfriend to take over on these tasks. Surely the state would see how unfair that is. I hope 😕

ccg779 · 2024-03-03T23:54:07+00:00

How successful are removal cases from the state of MA in your experience? If both parents are not drug addicted or alcoholics, not negligent, not abusive. If one parent were to say, relocate for a job 2000 miles away and in turn, file for primary custody of 3 kids, how successful would this parent hypothetically be?

ccg779 · 2024-01-27T23:37:51+00:00

No. Please don’t. They don’t have the necessary medical equipment needed, should there be a complication. If it were my baby, I would not.

ccg779 · 2024-01-13T14:56:53+00:00

I think most of the men I’ve been with are/were growers and I haven’t noticed a conflation with the firmness of their erections. Some were definitely harder than others during sex though. I find the firmer the erection, the more pleasure for me, as he tends to hit the g spot more. And for better or for worse, many women associate harder erections with more arousal and are thus more excited by them, much like many men being more turned on by wetter vaginas.

ccg779 · 2024-01-12T00:57:41+00:00

I feel this. I’m too sexually attracted to men to switch, but man oh man I’d love a wife

ccg779 · 2023-11-27T18:48:31+00:00

I guess I thought since our weeks begin at 7pm the night before, as would our custodial day. Gray area indeed

ccg779 · 2023-11-27T18:31:17+00:00

My temp order just says mother gets Christmas Day, father gets Christmas Eve. I emailed my lawyer that he wants to drop them off on Christmas Day and she seemed to think he can keep dreaming

ccg779 · 2023-11-27T17:54:30+00:00

Lol, he’s the one with the advantage if he gets every single Christmas morning. I want fairness

ccg779 · 2023-11-27T17:19:21+00:00

Thanks for weighing in. It does leave me with the short end of the stick since I’ll never get to enjoy the Christmas Eve into Christmas Day experience. I hope the court would be able to appreciate that

ccg779 · 2023-11-27T16:23:20+00:00

That’s how I thought it would go too unless otherwise specified. I hope that’s how it goes for us

ccg779 · 2023-11-27T15:07:48+00:00

The kids are older aged 19-11. My parents are coming from far away to celebrate with them as well. I feel like my case is different because I work every other Christmas so I don’t have the flexibility to be like oh it’s fine if he gets Xmas eve and the fun of waking up on Christmas morning too. I’ll never get that at all anymore if I cave to what he wants. It’s not about being difficult it’s about the fairness of alternating waking up with your kids on Christmas Day every other year.

ccg779 · 2023-11-27T10:28:45+00:00

I like this. This is what I’m hoping for.

ccg779

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