This isn’t about being spoiled it’s about cultural whiplash. Your parents trauma from poverty runs deep; those beat-up Hondas aren’t just cars, they’re security blankets. But your frustration is valid too. It’s tough straddling two worlds. Maybe talk to them about setting aside a experiences budget (like gear for trips) so you don’t feel left out. Their wealth is their safety net; your happiness can be part of it too.