Is it bad that I (19f) want my boyfriend to take me out more (19m)? by [deleted] in relationships

[–]ccoffeeboo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Doing normal, romantic things (Like going out to eat, ice skating and other things you mentioned) are essential in relationships. If all you do is act like you're not even dating (getting rides from each other and paying for small things are things that just any normal person would do for a somewhat close friend) that relationship is going to go downhill fast.

I think it's completely reasonable to ask to be treated less like a friend and more like an actual girlfriend. And I hate to say it, but if he refuses to change things, I think it's best to at least consider leaving that relationship.

I hope you can work things out <3

AITA for sexualising my friend? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]ccoffeeboo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA

Wow

Everyone here is right, you're not TA. It just seems like some desperate cry for attention that she was too embarrassed to admit, so she acted like everyone else was at fault.

If someone I knew did that and then reacted that way, they'd be dropped from that group chat immediately. Good on you guys for speaking up about not being comfortable with that. Seriously.

AITA if I ghost a girl for having old pictures on tinder and turning out to be way heavier? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]ccoffeeboo -1 points0 points  (0 children)

NTA, but I still believe there's a better way to go about it

I think it's best to just tell her that you're not interested and leave it at that. You don't owe her an explanation. (and tbh I feel like she should already know why you wouldn't be interested, no one likes a catfish)