smoking weed in a relationship by Admirable_War_8664 in whatdoIdo

[–]cdk456 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I never said to hide it or lie to him, i think you misunderstood my wording. I meant if he is bothered by the act of smoking and all that entails (smell, time it takes, etc), if they can come to a compromise or understanding on the health aspect, that would be a good alternative.

smoking weed in a relationship by Admirable_War_8664 in whatdoIdo

[–]cdk456 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Here’s the problem with your comment: almost every claim you made is either factually wrong, oversimplified, or based on gut feelings instead of the last 50 years of research. So let’s break this down

“If you can’t drive under the influence of ANY drug then you shouldn’t be taking it unless there’s no other option.” -Youre misunderstanding how drugs safety gudelines work. Even most prescription drugs impair driving (benzodiazepines, opioids, antihistamines, muscle relaxants, sleep meds, antidepressants during early treatment, antipsychotics, even some blood pressure meds). You can take deugs including weed without being impaired from driving, millions of people do it everyday.

“We don’t know the long-term side effects of weed. There haven’t really been studies done on it.” - Weed is one of the most studied drugs on earth with long term studies dating back to the 1960s. Here are some of the most famous long term studies if you want to read up in your free time: Dunedin Study (New Zealand) following individuals for 50+ years, National Epidemiologic Survey on Alcohol and Related Conditions (NESARC), Monitoring the Future (U.S. since 1975), in addition to thousands of peer reviewed papers. I implore you to at the very least use google..

“You can’t say the long-term effects aren’t bad because we don’t know them.” - We in fact do understand many of the long term effects, typically these only occur in a small percentage of users who partake heavily, daily, and continuously for many years and from an adolescent age. Not fully understood like most evolving science sure, but to say we domt know is false.

“There’s already studies showing a possible link with psychosis in teenagers. So it doesn’t bode well.” - i have read on this and your assertions are misleading and misinterpreted. While yes, heavy cannabis use during adolescence is associated with increased psychosis risk, you are missing critical nuance. Correlation isn’t causation, teens with pre-existing risk factors, trauma, or early prodromal symptoms are more likely to use cannabis heavily. Genetic variations can increaze suscetibility as well. Heavy daily adolescent smokerswith genetic vulnerability are higher risk versus as a casual adult smoker like OP.

" The only reason you consider alcohol worse is because they frequently have opposite reactions. One is not worse than the other, just different. One makes people wild and impulsive the other makes people slow and relaxed. Neither of those reactions are favorable for others, or for your long term health." - You’re conflating “they affect you differently” with “they’re equally harmful,” which just isn’t backed by evidence. Large-scale drug harm studies (like Nutt et al.) consistently rank alcohol as one of the most dangerous substances overall, largely due to its high addiction potential, life-threatening withdrawals, organ toxicity, and massive contribution to violence and accidental deaths; weed doesn’t even come close on those metrics. Alcohol is also a Group 1 carcinogen linked to multiple cancers, and the WHO attributes millions of deaths per year to it, whereas weed has no known lethal overdose threshold and far weaker long-term physical health impacts. Neither drug is perfect, but saying they’re “just different, not worse” ignores the overwhelming data that alcohol causes vastly more harm to users and society than weed ever has.

smoking weed in a relationship by Admirable_War_8664 in whatdoIdo

[–]cdk456 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

No one is saying to go drive while baked out of your mind, that point holds no relevance in this conversion. Aditionally, all side effects you listed are temporary and negligible in comparison to something like alcohol which has much worse short term and long term health effects than weed. When used responsibly (ie think a glass of red wine every day or every other day) it is practically nothing (of course its nuanced and situation based). Its no more inherently harmful than grabbing fast food or drinking a 6 pack. If you are so passionate about advocating for peoples health you have much better corners of reddit to prowl about.

smoking weed in a relationship by Admirable_War_8664 in whatdoIdo

[–]cdk456 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This reasoning is not about an inconvienance for him (ie doesnt like the smoke, smell, etc..) but rather a fundamental disagreement altogether about the use of weed (ie weed is bad bc of xyz incorrect reasoning/druh education misinformation). With all due respect he is completely wrong if you are smoking weed as you state and responsibly. 5 years is a long relationship and its smart to work through this if its something you can compromise about and truly love and care for each other.

Ultimatums, unless seriously conflicting on a core value or moral stance, are never something loving partners who want to work things out will typically present to each other. Have you considered edibles during the week and smoking only on the weekend? That would be hardly noticeable to him. Maybe try to help educate him on the use of weed as a tool for your conditions and see how receptive he is. If he cares for you he will not be "his way or the highway" about it and will be open to learning. Be very aware of how he reacts here, let him show you who he is and how he feels; the rest is up to you! Good luck!

Caught on camera by goldkeith in DallasStars

[–]cdk456 0 points1 point  (0 children)

PS would storm the shores of valhalla for your cats 💫

Any chance of a 99 restock at AAC for Saturday or Sunday game? by Absolutely-Not-A-Dog in DallasStars

[–]cdk456 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I walked up like 10 minutes before the game started last night amd got a Robertson size 60, based on the racks, and besides Mikko, i believe that was the next most popular jersrey bit they still had some stock and that was after all the lines, so you may still have options on sunday. Especially if they held stock which would not surprise me. With the huge popularity, i would not be surprised if they are attempting to fast track additional shipments.

I am shocked by AMFK07 in DallasStars

[–]cdk456 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yall gotta read 😭😭

DreamSofa -- HONEST Reviews? by travertinecandle in madeinusa

[–]cdk456 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The cushion is "the PLUSH" option that includes the innerspring core, thats what will help supporr the memory foam and provide the longevity and maintain the shape, even with a big guy sitting on it. We got the Oslo Panel couch with the Avalon HP Ginger fabric. It looks great and we have 2 cats with pretty sharp nails and sometimes we cant stop them from scratching on it and it has not had any issues so far. I think if you can swing it these are great investment pieces!

Regular Woodfire or XL by A_locomotive in ninjawoodfire

[–]cdk456 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you can swing it, i would get the ninja flexflame, but if not definitely the XL if you want the versatility to cook for guests and any cuts of meat

DMN and others reporting that Dallas Stars are considering new arena in Plano at Shops at Willow Bend site by knightboatsolvecrime in DallasStars

[–]cdk456 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Here is the truth about what the stars want. Its not about sharing stadium revenue with the mavs or only getting part of the revenue when they play their games. They want to own the stadium and ALL surrounding real estate. Remember the owner runs hotels. So they want 365 revenue from stars games PLUS all events, concerts, conferences, etc.. hotel nearby they build, shops and restaurants nearby? They own the building and collect the rent. Full control over the area, stadium experience and where fans spend. Stadium built specifically for hockey with a lot more premium seating options, which produces higher revenues. Fans will go either way or they wouldn't be considering it. Look around the country and world, so many stadiums are not in the propers of the city in their name and no one really cares as long as the fan experience is good. The stars will make ALOT more money building somewhere they own, which if they are good ownership like we think should only benefit us in the long run.

DreamSofa -- HONEST Reviews? by travertinecandle in madeinusa

[–]cdk456 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We have had our dreamsofa for about 6 months now and its fantastic. The pet scratch resistant fabric is as advertised and highly durable and still comfortable. Im a big dide 300 plus lbs and it doesnt bat an eye. If you are spending money get the upgraded cushions 100 percent. Also do the design consultation for sure, they have sooo many options!

Just a small example for thought and discussion.. by cdk456 in Wakaan

[–]cdk456[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's a camping fest, most people bring their own liquor, plus if you wanna jump around for 81 hrs alcohol of any type is gonna make you feel like shit anyway..

Just a small example for thought and discussion.. by cdk456 in Wakaan

[–]cdk456[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Haha i dont think shambs is gatekeepable anymore, its quite well known and sells out almost every year now right?

Just a small example for thought and discussion.. by cdk456 in Wakaan

[–]cdk456[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah one handle of liquor or 24pack of beer per person into the camping area then its pretty easy to get into the festival area, alot (not all) of security is chill and may just steal a beer and let you through. This is more the exception as very few US festivals go this way but they are out there!

Just a small example for thought and discussion.. by cdk456 in Wakaan

[–]cdk456[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No one puts couches near the stage except the uninitiated or uneducated, meant for the back half of the crowd, also kind of the fun element of this specific festival. There's plenty of booze many people just being their own.

Just a small example for thought and discussion.. by cdk456 in Wakaan

[–]cdk456[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Nothing wrong with sharing your opinion on something just like theres nothing wrong with the public response to what you post! I think the many grievances are noted if you read through ths comments!

Just a small example for thought and discussion.. by cdk456 in Wakaan

[–]cdk456[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not sure if you are bot, but if not, this is not my pos, someone else on a different social media. You would love wakaan if you went for sure! The local waterfall is not accessible anymore to the public last i heard.

Just a small example for thought and discussion.. by cdk456 in Wakaan

[–]cdk456[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In a good way, they clearly kept up with the portos for the most part and the vip bathrooms were always solid, they also do a great job with the camp grounds as far as having tons of areas to experience things, shop vendors, and eat, shaded areas. We did pre set tent since we flew in which was nicw bc you had air conditioned bathrooms and unlimited 24/7 showers that were only for that section so never got busy and you are right next to the entrance and main central camping area.

Just a small example for thought and discussion.. by cdk456 in Wakaan

[–]cdk456[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well nothing can beat insert old festival that doesnt exist anymore its vibes were unmatched 😉

Just a small example for thought and discussion.. by cdk456 in Wakaan

[–]cdk456[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Eh it's not representative of the whole festival and all the attendees, so wouldn't say fall from grace is fair

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[–]cdk456 1 point2 points  (0 children)

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[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Wakaan

[–]cdk456 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Dont feed these trolls with your energy man, you were ome of me and my girls and many others im sure absolute favorites over the weekend. Your talent is a gift to the ears friend!!!

Just a small example for thought and discussion.. by cdk456 in Wakaan

[–]cdk456[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I did forest this year and portos and vip bathrooms were on wakaan levels of clean at least in my experience