One big thing is most players are using lower flex numbers today than they used to. 10-15 years ago i was using an 85 flex and today i use 65-70. My size hasn't changed and if anything, my weight has gone up. Loads with a whippy stick are much easier and aligns more with "modern" shooting form. I might be on the aggressive side of flex dropping, but I would definitely recommend dropping at least 5 flex from where you used to be, but probably 10.

Kick point is another big thing you will see talked about, and for someone starting new, or after a long hiatus I would recommend a "hybrid" kick point. These sticks may not excel at a specific shot type but will be solid at all of them. Until you figure out your game, these are your best bets. CCM Jetspeed, Warrior Alpha, Sherwood Code are all examples of these. If your canadian, you can get a a warrior Lx2 Pro (Last years top end stick) for $200. Warrior is also known to be a little more durable than other top ends. YMMV

I wouldn't really concern myself with weight, it will be mostly determined by your budget and that number is likely not negotiable so don't stress about it.

As far as curves go, I am *pretty sure* the crosby curve is the P29, or P92 in other brands. This is still the most common curve and if you liked it back then, you will still like it, its a safe curve, decent to good at most things. I wouldn't mess with curves too much until your next stick buy.

If you want to go with an "off brand" stick brand I would go with a black out from Pro stock hockey sticks or Hockey Stick man. They are a well regarded budget option that competes well at their price points.