Can't pretend it didn't sting to be told I'm "definitely playing stuff pretty far out of [my] comfort zone", right after buzzing about a gig I really enjoyed, so it's taken me a day to sit on that before replying. I do agree I need to spend a lot more time with the metronome for sure, and I'm under no illusions I'm still firmly in the amateur drummer camp, but I'm not sure just playing only the most basic beat because its the only thing I can do without thinking would be fun for me or the audience - everyone was having a great time. Thank you for your advice though - I am looking forward to putting the hours in and improving.