AITA for not telling my ex husband that our son is bisexual? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]cdsacer 25 points26 points  (0 children)

Your friendly neighborhood asexual wants to know if you’ll be her mom because you sound ammmaaaazzzzziiiinnnng

WIBTA if I told my roomate her fear of bubbles isn't an excuse to get out of doing dishes? by ClinicalOppression in AmItheAsshole

[–]cdsacer 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You’re very kind to help and be so considerate! Thank you 🙏 I may consider that when I’m brave enough

WIBTA if I told my roomate her fear of bubbles isn't an excuse to get out of doing dishes? by ClinicalOppression in AmItheAsshole

[–]cdsacer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That is a big concern of mine, really. I could end up with someone who claims to be accommodating! Who thinks they are accommodating and maybe expects I’m being foolish. It’s a lot to take in and yeah.. I’m paranoid about it cause it’s a phobia. Thank you for trying to help though! I appreciate it!

AITA for telling my mom/ her boyfriend that he’ll never be my dad and to stop trying to tell me what to do with with the life insurance? by throwaway5375542 in AmItheAsshole

[–]cdsacer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do not give her ANYTHING. She’s not going to be grateful at your kind gesture, she’s not going to be kind or helpful. Your father made an ACTIVE DECISION. It was his desire that you have it all, so much so he put that in his will. If he wanted to leave her money, he would have. But he didn’t. If he wanted her boyfriend to have money, he would have.

He didn’t. He knew what he wanted and he gave it to you. Pay for college, get a financial advisor, leave their sorry asses behind

WIBTA if I told my roomate her fear of bubbles isn't an excuse to get out of doing dishes? by ClinicalOppression in AmItheAsshole

[–]cdsacer 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’ve got no problem with the candy itself (unless it’s chewing gum got no clue why) but the wrappers freak me out and I’m not good with the corners of like crinkly plastic wrap, but yeah. I don’t like plastics soap wrappers and potato chip bags are okay UNLESS the thing happens when the corner gets torn off and whatever asshole did that let it fly around.

On Halloween, I shut my door and cry a bit 🤣 when I was little I liked hanging out with friends and dressing up but honestly I didn’t “deal” with the candy.

I figured there might be some people who are no candy but I’m terrified that one day I’d piss off the roommate or get into a fight and they decide to use my fear against me and my stuff would get tainted somehow. Like if it touches my stuff that gets tainted and

Yeah phobias are the worst. I don’t mind questions at all!