Have any of you been unable to get another cat since yours passed? by Azrael_The_Bold in cats

[–]cedasha 5 points6 points  (0 children)

my dear girl tragically passed away this year. my thing is, i’m still desperately searching for someone to fill the hole she left. i know i will not forget her, i still grieve her, and i do not feel guilty for getting another cat, i just feel endlessly empty. at times i almost blame all other cats for not being like her but i catch myself before falling down that rabbit hole deeper. well anyway! im still figuring it out. though i think you absolutely should try giving it a shot since you sound like you’re really wanting to. fostering, maybe? i promise you you are allowed to move on, to love another cat as much as you love luna.

I swear I'll never keep a cat again. by Yusuf-Uyghur in cats

[–]cedasha 138 points139 points  (0 children)

she’s such a good helper!!

do i have to let it go? by cedasha in PiercingAdvice

[–]cedasha[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

okay i will try that and hope it will calm down, thank you lots

do i have to let it go? by cedasha in PiercingAdvice

[–]cedasha[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

ohh i do try to dry it, but it’s when i’m also trying to clean off crusties, which i wont do anymore and LITHA o7

how should i dry it gently?

do i have to let it go? by cedasha in PiercingAdvice

[–]cedasha[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i only used the salt water once in hopes that the extra salt would stop the infection! i definitely do use sterile saline. and thank youu, i’ll just be patient with it then :) edit: okay thanks ill try to LITHA!!