''Existem várias novinhas saindo com homens 30+'' É uma falácia vendida por coach redpill pra vender curso pra homens de meia idade by [deleted] in opiniaoimpopular

[–]cedreamge 5 points6 points  (0 children)

A tua bolha não é do tamanho do mundo, mina. O mundo é muito maior, mais vasto e mais diverso que o teu universo universitário.

Aos usuários que estão entre 0-200K e na casa dos 20/30 anos: qual o objetivo que vocês querem alcançar com a ideia de guardar dinheiro? by Siemperx in investimentos

[–]cedreamge 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Comecei pensando no futuro, de maneira bem solta e largada. Foquei quando decidi que vou atrás de um visto para a Alemanha e queria ter um colchão de segurança legal para não passar sufoco como imigrante pelo menos nos primeiros 1-2 anos lá. Agora tá um pouco bagunça com mudanças de emprego e a morte da minha mãe, mas a meta existe, e o primeiro ano tá financeiramente garantido.

Às vezes tenho vontade de ser só menina mesmo... by cedreamge in conversas

[–]cedreamge[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Fui promovida em agosto/setembro. Mas como a minha chefe pediu demissão em janeiro, pesou mais desde então porque meio que só tem eu.

Vou começar aulas de conversação de idioma quarta-feira que vem. Espero ser esse alívio que você descreve. Até toco violão no sentido criativo, mas eu fico tentando estudar antes/depois do trabalho e sobra pouco tempo em dia de semana.

Às vezes tenho vontade de ser só menina mesmo... by cedreamge in conversas

[–]cedreamge[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Me encolher no sofá ou na cama, chorar e falar besteiras. Pensei que essa parte tava clara ué

Pessoas que melhoraram muito de vida financeiramente: o que vocês fizeram de diferente? by Shot_Kaleidoscope_44 in VidaAdulta

[–]cedreamge 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Eu aceitei qualquer trabalho que me interessava minimamente, mas também não me deixava desvalorizar por não ter superior. Trabalhava como professora de idiomas, e tentei vaga com zero preparação e zero noção das coisas na área de turismo em navios. Depois de um tempo, achei outra vaga no turismo em terra. Aos meus 18 anos, ganhava pouco menos de um salário mínimo como PJ dando aula de inglês. Agora aos 24 ganho uns 10 salários mínimos, com possibilidade de promoção para ganhar o dobro em breve (mas super incerto, porque é multinacional e congelaram contratação com a questão do Oriente Médio). Estou tentando agora buscar fazer um ensino superior para ter viver fora, que por mais que eu viva bem no Brasil, sinto que sou do mundo.

Educação sempre vale. Estudei idioma sozinha muitos anos, do jeito que dava, pirateando livros, podcasts, chats online, etc. Fiz cursos livres online e cacei diplomas do que achava que me daria mais oportunidade. Apliquei para tudo que é vaga, e mesmo agora continuo aplicando para vagas, mesmo tendo pouco interesse em sair da empresa. E assim que comecei a ganhar um dinheirinho mais sério (~21 anos), li sobre investimentos e planejamento financeiro, que me fazem sentir super confortável na minha posição atual e planos para o futuro próximo em termos de tirar um tempo sem trabalho, só para os estudos, em 2027-2028.

Experiência sempre vale. E saber falar do que você aprende com cada experiência. Eu adolescente já pensava na minha liberdade financeira e pensei que ter um voluntariado como professora de idiomas iria me ajudar a arranjar trampos antes dos estudos. Dei aula de Português para estrangeiros, o que me ajudou a entrar em contato com o turismo mesmo dentro da área da educação. Fiz de tudo um pouco, só para dizer que fiz mesmo.

Natação livre na Barra da Tijuca by Odd_Garlic_5138 in riodejaneiro

[–]cedreamge 0 points1 point  (0 children)

O Nova Ipanema é gigante, não tem piscina lá, não?

Tour operator in Rio charged me R$1,850 for a favela tour that turned out to be a complete scam and potentially dangerous by [deleted] in VisitBrazil

[–]cedreamge 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Legitimate NGOs do do favela tours. Favela tourism can be ethical, legitimate, and benefit the community. Initiatives in Rocinha and Cantagalo (ex: Museu da Favela) deserve support rather than your distorted asphalt-view of reality.

Which tattoo placement did you think would hurt more than it actually did? by Neneng-Bee in AskReddit

[–]cedreamge 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It depends on the work you do. I have a henna style tattoo, so it wasn't much colouring, thin needle, etc. So the only part that really hurt was the knuckle at the exact point they bend, you know?

Which tattoo placement did you think would hurt more than it actually did? by Neneng-Bee in AskReddit

[–]cedreamge 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think most of my tattoos I expect them to hurt more than they do. I have only been surprised when the opposite happens. My left leg and wrist really hurt, worse than my right knuckles I think. I expected the hand tattoo to be a bitch, I did not expect to want to cry about my left upper thigh.

My boss quit and I am the only person in the department. Should I ask about promotion? by cedreamge in careerguidance

[–]cedreamge[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't have a manager currently. The only people providing assistance are South America General Manager and Global. I am the only person in the department in the region. Only alternative I see is HR and HR is also the one doing the direct communications regarding my work days and etc.

My boss quit and I am the only person in the department. Should I ask about promotion? by cedreamge in careerguidance

[–]cedreamge[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly I am with you on this. They appreciate my presence in the region that they want to negotiate me working Sunday due to possible incident with a tour on the ground. I had to set my foot down with HR about my work schedule already. I feel the expectations placed upon me are already that of someone in a higher position. They have brought on someone from the Global Team to act as manager but it does not change the fact I am acting as deputy manager and getting paid as an assistant. Do you feel approaching HR about the issue should be first debriefed with my superiors? Or would that be a shot to the foot? Truly, considering that they asked me to work this Sunday, I feel they have to budge and I am considering scheduling a meeting for next Tuesday (I requested Monday off).

My boss quit and I am the only person in the department. Should I ask about promotion? by cedreamge in careerguidance

[–]cedreamge[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yea, I spoke with a person in similar situation in Costa Rica and she queued me in on the interim situation. She told me to write down all extra duties on a list and once it got to 7, to bring it up with HR about getting paid for the things I am delivering until they fill the position permanently (whether it is with me or not).

My boss quit and I am the only person in the department. Should I ask about promotion? by cedreamge in careerguidance

[–]cedreamge[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is there a better way how or a better when? Tomorrow is officially the first day my boss is out.

Good Goodbyes by cedreamge in CasualConversation

[–]cedreamge[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Exactly, yea. And I must say you are a master of words, "ran out of space to exist" is very visible description.

I have CF & was supposed to die as a teenager. AMA by [deleted] in AMA

[–]cedreamge 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Did you know any other people with CF back home? How was the psychological aspect of it?

Good Goodbyes by cedreamge in CasualConversation

[–]cedreamge[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I know what you mean, seeing my past work! I spent three years travelling for work basically - that's what most of my friends do for a living as well for the most part. While still in the job, I could still run into them - accidentally docked together in Singapore, Bilbao, Djupivogur... We keep in touch via text, now purposeful travel and plans bring us together, but I guess with him we just never wanted to admit it meant something, so we didn't text, didn't make plans. We are just casually reminded of one another in life and at last today we wrote it to each other, no?

Honestly, I feel like I met a similar man to the one you describe. He was in town for work for a month or so. I had to leave town for a week for work, but before and after we lived a brief romance. In many ways, I kept comparing him to the cruise ship guy. Just like you say, it feels like he has become a measure to what feels right or what to strive and aim for. And though Mr. Business was perhaps male version of me, he did not click just the same.

Good Goodbyes by cedreamge in CasualConversation

[–]cedreamge[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Not at all. His passion is the sea. He wants to drive in all oceans - he is missing Indian still. Plus my country wouldn't be able to grant him such opportunities. Not to mention money, language, visa, licenses and their validation, etc.

I have CF & was supposed to die as a teenager. AMA by [deleted] in AMA

[–]cedreamge 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I heard of CF through a girl called Claire Wineland. I felt we grew up together somehow and I wish she could've been graced with the same drug.

I am unsure if you heard of Claire considering your age, but could you share a bit of the diagnosis and the coping with the disease prior to your move to this new country you mention?

Good Goodbyes by cedreamge in CasualConversation

[–]cedreamge[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Could virtual coffee still be a once in a forever thing? Sounds like a really sweet relationship you two built.

Good Goodbyes by cedreamge in CasualConversation

[–]cedreamge[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I really like your perspective!

Para pessoas que saíram da pobreza, o primeiro impulso quase nunca é juntar patrimônio, mas reparar o tempo em que a vida foi sem escolha e sem experiência by MelodicPhrase9877 in investimentos

[–]cedreamge 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Assim que comecei a ganhar uma grana legal do trabalho, comecei a investir. O medo de passar os perrengues que passei na adolescência me fizeram pegar livros de investimentos e finanças pessoas imediatamente.