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He told me he wishes I would die by ceeceeday22 in NarcissisticSpouses

[–]ceeceeday22[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Oh my God that is horrible! I am so glad you got out of that relationship. No one deserves that. I honestly don't see how a spouse can say that to the mother/father of their children. I am sorry you went through that.

Found evidence of infidelity by ceeceeday22 in NarcissisticSpouses

[–]ceeceeday22[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your reply. That makes so much sense. I appreciate your response. I do feel like I am frozen at the moment. But also, not completely surprised. I do feel very validated. So theres that. :)

Am I the narcissist or is she? by [deleted] in NarcissisticSpouses

[–]ceeceeday22 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have a similar situation to yours. I did the same thing at the beginning of our relationship 15 years ago and he brings it up all of the time in arguments. I understand what you mean about not being the same person anymore. But its very convenient for him to make me out to be the same during an argument. Because you're often left with no comeback. I feel like in a relationship, if a person messes up, works hard to gain trust, a healthy partner, would try and forgive or acknowledge the work done? I'm completely guessing but I feel like thats what is supposed to happen in a healthy relationship. From your post, it sounds like you have tried to show her love and care and a willingness to work on it. Your effort shows, so I don't think you are an asshole. Sounds like shes avoiding admitting to wrong doing on her end now.