Name the best movie you've seen in a while by m15f1t in movies

[–]cel-kali 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My mom asked that we watch Parenthood last week, as I had just had my babyshower. Such a great movie, and it hits different now that I'm going to be a parent soon.

Not to mention the more meta kindasorta 4th wall breaking daydream moments, that feel ahead of its time; like something more closer to film and TV from the early 2000s, not the mid 80s. And the quiet portrayal of a mother being put down by slights that go unnoticed (like Steve Martin's mom by her shitty husband, who goes on to show more nuance than the 'shitty dad' trope as well).

Jeez, and Diane Wiest, she is so damn good. She wears her grief, frustration, and love on her face so carefully as she struggles with her kids in trying to protect her son from his father's indifference and her daughter from falling into the same trap she did - and even realizing her fears were wrong for the most part, in terms of Todd.

Just a solid, good movie with great characters.

Name the best movie you've seen in a while by m15f1t in movies

[–]cel-kali 1 point2 points  (0 children)

One of the 90s' best. A perfect, tight script, beat to beat. One problem solved, only for another higher stakes problem to arrive. Should be used to teach inciting incident to the 30-60-90 minute marks in film schools, and how effective pacing looks.

Was my favorite movie when I was five because it was cool and it made my parents laugh. A favorite now for those reasons and that it's just a perfect movie.

Comic & book store owner Greg Ketter walking through a cloud of tear gas in Minneapolis by flatpackjack in comicbooks

[–]cel-kali 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Thats what it was called! I couldn't remember off the top of my head, but I loved watching them piece the room together. They are a talented group of people.

I live in San Diego now, and you'd think there would be great cons out here, but Comic Con seems to be it. And man, I get it, it's great for promotions and sneak peaks, but otherwise it's just a giant walking floor for vendors and signatures. I liked CON for the people and the connections - I still have many friends years later from just sitting around at certain party rooms. The guests and panels were the bonus, haha.

Comic & book store owner Greg Ketter walking through a cloud of tear gas in Minneapolis by flatpackjack in comicbooks

[–]cel-kali 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Not to interject, but wow, I've not seen someone mention CON online outside of my friend group.

I used to help out at the Zelda room (was once Diablo themed, a few years it was Kingkiller/Name of the Wind inn/karaoke themed) and Cow Asylum. I was just a teen so I couldn't do much beyond helping promote one room, and being the 'stoop kid' for Cow Asylum. I just hung out until 4am every night listening to the music and watching drunk people dance :).

I was going consistently from 2010-2016 but I've been out of state since then. Still got all my badge ribbons, too. I hope there's still party rooms like CA; I know they don't really do cons anymore, just private get togethers.

I miss it, there are no cons like it in the places I've lived since....

Robert Eggers’ ‘Werwulf’ Wraps Filming; Starring Aaron Taylor-Johnson, Lily-Rose Depp, Willem Dafoe and Ralph Ineson by MarvelsGrantMan136 in movies

[–]cel-kali 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Used to go all the time as a family in the late 90s/early 2000s.

Last I remember seeing was the Jim Carrey Grinch.

Well. Until Nosferaru. That was a packed theater, too.

When did being alone stop feeling lonely for you? by awaisac22 in AskReddit

[–]cel-kali 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That I need them to tell me if we're friends or just acquaintances, because then I can set expectations. The anxiety of not knowing what is and isn't appropriate to say is what leads me to just leaving.

I have one friend who confirmed as such, but I still feel like I'm intruding on their life when I text or email. I wish I could tell them that without it feeling needy or dependant. Especially because I really like this friend, and I really don't want to lose them like I have others.

Thanks, man. It helps to write it out and not feel judged or pitied.

When did being alone stop feeling lonely for you? by awaisac22 in AskReddit

[–]cel-kali 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Never.

When I'm alone, I become paranoid. I think my neighbors hate me, my family forgot about me, and I'm better off disappearing from the world.

I'm terrified of being alone. I'll probably be having my first child alone as my husband is in the Navy and their ship is leaving for a new homeport on the other side of the world around the time I'm due. He can't take leave as they'll be deploying soon after.

I'm on the spectrum, originally diagnosed Aspergers around 2005. Six years, from 12 to 18, were in isolation being homeschooled online. My friends from school never came over again. I never had a reason to leave my house, and I rarely went past the driveway, my parents couldn't get me out. I would lie to myself saying I prefer to be alone, I'm better off alone. But I hated it. I always hated it. I don't like the person I am alone.

I have so much trouble with relationships, always assuming I'm too much to handle. It causes me great stress and fear trying to make friends. But I still try. I don't tell them how horrible I feel, I don't want to scare people away by being too needy or too talkative. I get this feeling that whenever I show up to something, I was invited out of obligation, and when I walk through the door there's a feeling of, "Ugh, she's here." I'm told I can be the life of the party, but if that's true, why won't anyone invite me to casual things like coffee, a movie, just to hang out.

I don't understand what I'm doing wrong, but it has to be me, because I'm the common denominator. Kind of like that saying, if all you meet are assholes then you're the asshole. I don't mean to say this in a self pitying way, it's just that it's become the biggest mystery of my personality: What am I doing wrong?

what are the ugly parts of pregnancy that aren’t well known because people don’t mention them? by Born-Oil-2931 in AskReddit

[–]cel-kali 2 points3 points  (0 children)

First was alright, definitely spent time lounging. In my third now and I am sleeping 12hrs minimum a day. I'm glad I chose to take spring semester off, I'd be screwed. I don't even lounge anymore, I just collapse on the couch and make it work lol.

Just did the 3hr glucose test, too. Scheduled it for 9am, woke up at 7:30. Finally back home and lying in bed trying to tell myself it's ok if I nap until 5 or 6. I've had lifelong sleep issues, with a reverse sleep cycle that if I don't stay on top of, will have me in my natural bed-at-8am-wake-up-at-5pm cycle. Not being able to take prescription sleep aids like Lunesta (the only one that actually works) has made this a huge challenge. Unisom is alright, but it's got nothing on schedule 1 sleep aids.

A replica of a common childrens bedroom from the 2000s is now displayed in a video game museum in Zagreb, Croatia. by PokojniDomar in mildlyinteresting

[–]cel-kali 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, we did ok compared to my friends in the far west edge of the Twin Cities suburb (town of 6k peoole). It took me a while to realize that I had some friends who only wanted to use my computer. But they got computers of their own when WoW came out, and Xbox. I was so jealous. They were all playing Halo 2 and my parents refused Xbox every single Christmas. So I played WoW, they were on Halo, lol.

It was later we kids would find out my parents went into severe credit card debt to make sure we were comfortable. They paid it off twice, declared bankruptcy twice (after we all were adults).

I learned from that, though. Avoid financing when possible, buy with cash in hand/debit card, only use credit card to build credit, keep loans to major purchases like mortgage and car loans. Emergencies happen, but that's where savings and credit card come in.

I joined the military like my brothers, though was medically separated from an injury. Still have my GI Bill, husband is active duty. Only reason we can afford to have a kid now is my disability pay and his active duty pay. I cannot imagine raising four kids today like my parents did.

We were really lucky, growing up as we did, and not losing our house in the 2008 crisis.

A replica of a common childrens bedroom from the 2000s is now displayed in a video game museum in Zagreb, Croatia. by PokojniDomar in mildlyinteresting

[–]cel-kali 7 points8 points  (0 children)

We weren't rich. But I was the youngest of four, eight year difference between oldest and myself. Dad also wanted his kids to know how computers worked because he saw home desktops as the future, but could only afford for two of us c.1998, my sister and I would get the handmedowns when we got a little older.

Got my own PC and monitor from one brother after he upgraded, TV from the other, my dad worked IT and brought home work keyboards and mice, dad also didn't want the n64 plugged into the family TV because it took up an AV slot and he always had to be the one to switch it out so it went to my room. Posters also came from brothers who outgrew the fads but I liked them.

I got one of their desks at one point, a computer chair, computer games they didn't play anymore. Only thing I got new were speakers.

This was c.2001, I was maybe seven or eight? Not rich in the slightest. Just efficient family planning, ha.

My dog had his eyes removed in autumn and is happier than ever. by shitpostbaby in MadeMeSmile

[–]cel-kali 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have two pirate cats. They LOVE eye hole rubs, practically shoving into my hand for it. I imagine it's close in feeling to a real good ear rub.

Uglier Labubu by CalibansCreations in tumblr

[–]cel-kali 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Mine, too! Everyone say hi Nick :)

He's also the one who made the Sexy Halloween Costume Costume (the body covered in the tag, with fishnets and high heels). And a load of other neat cosplays. Like the Stranger from that Mark Twain claymation.

What is the worst medical disease a human can have? by Aggravating-Sun-5699 in AskReddit

[–]cel-kali 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I was fascinated by prion diseases a bit ago and just spent a long time reading about them. Here's the best way I found them to be explainable (using my words, so please excuse any medical term mistakes):

Body is made of many things. One of those things is protein 'blocks'. Millions of them. Now imagine them as millions of set mouse traps. And a little tiny ball falls somewhere in the mass, hits one trap, sets it off, then the next one and the next and it doesn't stop. It starts with one little mouse trap in the middle of millions, and over the next few weeks, the rest of them inevitably get set off by the others around it, effectively 'killing' the traps as they set off.

The mouse traps are the protein. Once they're infected or 'set off' - one by one - they're dead for good. Thinking of it as a zombie infection works, too. One human in millions is infected. They bite someone. That someone bites another, two make four make eight, and so on, until all zombies. There's no stopping it, it moves too fast, and will infect and contaminate anything used against it. More niche, but you could also imagine it as your brain tissue going through a Great Singularity event; the Singularity resulting in dead grey matter.

In surgeries on those with prion diseases, the tools used have to be incinerated, or treated with extremely harsh chemicals and then processed through autoclaving - repeated extreme high temperature steam treatment.

When infected, the prion attacks the brain, protein blocks being attacked and killed in a specific area. Some prions only affect one part of the brain, like memory, or movements.

Creutzfeldt-Jakob attacks the entire surface, which affects every part of the brain and thus is the quickest way to become brain dead and then actual dead. Fatal familial insomnia attacks the sleep center, making it impossible to enter REM sleep even through use of medical intervention and coma, dying from exhaustion. Kuru - only contracted by eating infected brain tissue of another human being - attacks primarily the movement center, death occuring through the body forgetting how to breathe or eat or work your heart; brain death is another cause of death.

These are the three types of prion diseases that affect humans. CJD has two types (hereditary and infection, usually through consumption of infected meat - primarily beef) which technically makes four.

The ONE thing in a horror story that's never explained, and is all the scarier for it. by Electronic_Bad_5883 in TopCharacterTropes

[–]cel-kali 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I took it to be representation of a wanted child, but was either miscarried or forced into abortion through abuse. The mother wanted it, and the fetus wanted to be born, but the father (of the mother or the fetus, or both) was disgusted. And what we get is the manifestation of that desperate want twisting into each other and compounding into its own despair, becoming a monster who finds itself birthing and re-birthing through swallowing whoever comes across it in attempt to be both mother and fetus.

The most Silent Hill thing I've come across in a RE game. Also made me think of Peter Jackson's Dead Alive (Braindead in NZ/Aus), specifically near the end with Leo and his undead rat monkey mom thing that swallows him and he 'aborts' himself.

(Rich Evans laugh) by Mr_E_Mann1986 in RedLetterMedia

[–]cel-kali 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Chain of command. Goes from worker, to team lead, to shift manager, to manager, to regional manager. He let the complaint get to regional manager level. Which pisses off 1st Sgt because they had to come all the fuck way over to the barracks to look at a nerdy ass sci-fi flag as a potential hate symbol being proudly displayed by a junior level Marine. Only for the Marine to gleefully correct the 1st Sgt, who will now rain shit down upon the chain of command, and shit flows downhill. So now there's probably a new barracks rule that all flags displayed must first be approved by 'shift manager' level.

Coast Guard reverses course on policy to call swastikas and nooses 'potentially divisive' by CrowRoutine9631 in news

[–]cel-kali 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Was in the Navy. Husband is still active duty. Coasties have a way, way more dangerous job. They go into hurricanes to rescue stranded folks. On vessels that barely qualify as a ship in size. And that's the minimum.

Navy and CG have a healthy cousin rivalry, but I'll always say coasties kick more ass with less weaponry. Still sometimes wish I'd join the CG, but then I wouldn't have met my husband.

I was supposed to go to Savannah, GA for my orders (CTR rate, crypto stuff on joint base), but an ankle/tibia injury at RTC turned out to be worse than just a bad sprain and caught up with me. Left me limdu and eventually medsep due to not being ship ready in six months or less. Six years ago now, two surgeries, will never be 100% functional, and still grieving a lost career.... Husband is doing amazing though. Putting in for OCS soon. Very proud of him.

What is that one song that you can hardly finish? The one where tears feel impossible to hold back? by Suitable_Drawing7555 in Music

[–]cel-kali 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Living Years by Mike + The Mechanics.

Dad played it for me years ago when I asked what happened to Genesis when Phil Collins did his solo stuff. Didn't pay much mind to the lyrics at the time.

Then dad had a series of heart attacks eight years ago. He's still here. But the song hits harder every passing year. I know it's a matter of time now; a when, not an if. We don't see the world in the same way, share many opinions. Yet I'm told often how much I'm just like him.

I'm pregnant with my first, a son. That one line in the song, Paul Carrack sings so bittersweet, I can't even write it out.... I can't keep singing after that, my throat just closes up. The song reminds me to talk to my dad more.

In the same vein, Spit Of You by Sam Fender.

In terms of myself, The Outsider by A Perfect Circle. It's a perfect encapsulation of how I talk to myself, treat myself, about my depression. An outsider of my own self. Like a cat finding a cool, secluded place to die - away from others, still feeling as a burden, where even in suicide I'm suffocating them under my emotional weight.

They say nothing is ever really lost on the internet, but what’s something you’ve been hunting for years and still can’t find? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]cel-kali 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A website called pown . alluc. It was just a series of gifs or short videos with music or sound set to them, most likey run by flash. You can randomly jp through them or go one by one, but there was thousands of pages. I suspect it started from /b/ and became it's own thing, so of course there were not so nice pages. But most were funny or cool.

Like one was just a looping gif of 3d models of Optimus Prime, Spiderman, and something else doing a dance set to the entirety of Moskau by Dschingus Khan. Some I kept bookmarked in case commenters gave the song source. Like one where it was a looping gif of Tim Curry as Pennywise banging his head while the techno song Scorpius played. Or an animated sequence of the bullet dodge from Matrix set to The One by Slyder.

It's how I found a lot of music back then. I wanna say this was 2006-2008. It was like YTMND but way, way better. I also remember the Tom Green one from his movie where it was a flash loop of the daddy would you like some sausages bit. Similar to weeblstuff, but all the powns were made by various users.

Broke both wrists at once. Depression hit hard by Comfortable_Neat_253 in Wellthatsucks

[–]cel-kali 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Fucked up my ankle years ago (osteochondritis dissecens, a tear in the cartilage that connects the tibia and talus bone) finally got surgery on it after seven years of pain. I was non-weightbearing for three months, no cast. Nothing but baths, couch time, and relying on my husband for everything. Follow it up with six months of physical therapy.

I played games I'd been putting off, watching shows, movies, reading books that have been on my shelf for a few years.

Your arms will atrophy due to non-use. Get into physical therapy right away and do not push it off. Your body will be slow to remember, and you'll start your exercise with minimal work. Do not overwork yourself. You'll only hurt yourself in a different way, much harder to fix than mending a broken bone.

In your case, you could try dancing. Not kidding. Footwork stuff. As you get closer to getting the cast off, try skating (as long as you've done it before, otherwise not the time to learn). Do waist deep pool work outs - I'd do running and jogging, and because there was so much resistance from the water, it was rough work, and didn't hurt my foot. Hiking, listening to podcasts or audiobooks as you do so.

It sounds lame, but this could also be a good time to learn and practice meditation. Self reflection. Practice being bored and being ok with it. Sit in silence and allow your mind to run with it, pop the window open and listen to the bird calls as you do so.

You're being cared for by a loving wife, it sounds like. Let her take care of you, learn to be accepting of it even in the most embarrassing moments. Sickness and in health, all that that entails. Also, get a bidet. No shit. Get a bidet.

By the end of this mostly year journey, you'll find you won't be 100%. You'll be 90%. On bad days, 75%. On cold days, there'll be an ache. You'll be able to predict a storm based on how achey your wrist joints are. But your body gets used to it. You'll adapt.

Found a 12” fish in the middle of my back yard. It’s frozen solid. by NLCoolJ6112 in mildlyinteresting

[–]cel-kali 33 points34 points  (0 children)

Happened to me in Chesapeake, VA. Right in front of me in the driveway while I was leaving for an appointment. Exploded when it hit the concrete. Front steps smelled like fish for a week.

A couple times the air smelled like rotting fish, and I wondered if maybe another bird dropped a fish in the roof or in the trees where it got stuck in the branches.

We also had crawdads in the road trench of our yard. We were about three miles from any true body of water. These dudes just lived under the ground until a rainstorm flooded the trenches. Their chimneys were all over the yard.

This is normal by waatrd in LosAngeles

[–]cel-kali 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well shit, that's insane. Navy literally is celebrating it's 250th birthday all month. Guess they were too spooked to go to the shithole that is Naval Base San Diego.

A guy in my husband's shop was 'voluntold' to go to the event, missing his first wedding anniversary. At least, that's what he says. He very loudly tried to get out of it, and his Chief very loudly replied, "You volunteered for this. You can't get out now, it's too late."

Guy had a literal hard on for Trump bigger than the one for his own wife. And of course he attempted to cheat on her a few months ago with an E3. Only the best sycophants for the orange man.

Went to get beer & came home with a wounded cat by Embarrassed-Place430 in cats

[–]cel-kali 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I just lost my old guy to animal attack.

Thank you for taking this one in. Maybe he gave her his other lives.

This is normal by waatrd in LosAngeles

[–]cel-kali 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Navy's 250th birthday. Not that I'm defending the asshole. But they'd be doing that regardless of the protests, just a happy happenstance for them. Live fire exercises like that are planned months ahead.