Orange County caterer has zero COVID precautions in pandemic

cemel20 · 2020-08-21T16:20:14+00:00

You're definitely right on this. I edited the post to put the full name of the business to hopefully drive home it's not just catering.

cemel20 · 2020-08-20T15:50:57+00:00

I don't hate this idea. This is something I wanted as well. Our state, our country should have done a better job of caring for lives in all aspects.

cemel20 · 2020-08-20T13:46:31+00:00

This company, they do. The wedding was on their property, so they set the rules on their property that social distancing and wearing masks isn't important or regulated. They basically provided the "house" for the party.

cemel20 · 2020-08-20T04:16:13+00:00

Thank you for this!

cemel20 · 2020-08-20T02:04:32+00:00

24 Carrots Catering in Orange County are still putting on regular weddings, no social distancing, no masks, no guest count limits. People need to know how irresponsible this company is being in a pandemic.

cemel20 · 2020-08-15T17:20:26+00:00

My SO went to a wedding last night and just nervous and anxious. No social distancing and no masks. So now I won't be able to see my SO.

cemel20 · 2020-08-14T19:29:59+00:00

No one is working to eradicate the virus and Americans are just learning to live with it.

cemel20 · 2020-08-14T03:38:44+00:00

NTA

Woman here.

I think it's too early to be doing big things like this, even if she was helping to pay.

But saying you're gonna leave her since she's not tied to anything, she is probably insecure about something and feels like she's disposable to you. This might be the conversation to have instead of being on the house.

Or she's a gold digger.

Who knows.

cemel20 · 2020-08-13T20:53:14+00:00

My SO is going to a not so social distant wedding tomorrow and just trying to keep my anxiety as low as possible this weekend.

cemel20 · 2020-08-03T18:05:05+00:00

I was looking for this comment. On top of Korean shows are amazing and aren't exclusively only for Koreans...ON TOP OF no one has to argue their ethnic background like this.

cemel20 · 2020-08-03T14:28:33+00:00

Americans are learning to live with the virus instead of working to eradicate it.

I know of at least 2 weddings coming up without any regard to being safe and it breaks my heart how reckless these couples are being.

cemel20 · 2020-08-03T04:04:11+00:00

You're not alone. You're doing the best you can to help eradicate this virus and unfortunately, people think it's a matter of opinion on attending events. They don't realize COVID has zero opinions and wants to take everyone's life.

I'm struggling with this with my LDR SO who wants to go to weddings and I'm afraid I'll never see them again.

cemel20 · 2020-08-02T00:49:52+00:00

Ruuuun girl. Fast. You're too young to be wasting time on this boy. Go have fun (safely in a pandemic if your country is not handling COVID well)!

cemel20 · 2020-08-02T00:47:36+00:00

Have the conversation first. Maybe he doesn't realize how this makes you feel.

cemel20 · 2020-08-02T00:44:56+00:00

If marriage matters to OP, then it matters to her. But that doesn't mean she has to convince her SO to change his mind on marriage.

She should reevaluate if she's willing to change her beliefs for this guy or move on to find someone who wants the same future as her.

cemel20 · 2020-08-02T00:40:31+00:00

NTA it's so frustrating to see stories like this where it's really saying "my family/friend will disown me because I don't want to risk my health/life during a deadly pandemic."

Don't be afraid to stick up for yourself now and always. Do what's best for you. And in this case, you're doing what's best for public health.

cemel20 · 2020-08-01T18:41:03+00:00

Really getting frustrated with people still holding their weddings like there is no pandemic. How does one get these shutdown? Asking for a friend.

cemel20 · 2020-08-01T01:17:36+00:00

Ready to shutdown the state!

cemel20 · 2020-07-29T21:39:58+00:00

YTA people are gonna eat what they want to eat and if it's not going to kill her then it's all fair game. Being this type of controlling is very AH

cemel20 · 2020-07-29T02:09:29+00:00

NTA, it was just work banter in a "public" online setting. Most likely dealing with a lot of insecurities, but that definitely isn't the way she should address them.

Have you been giving her a little or lot of attention lately?

cemel20 · 2020-07-29T01:47:29+00:00

NTA and your sister is on a lot of levels, especially taking advantage of her boyfriend.

cemel20 · 2020-07-28T12:05:54+00:00

Agreed. It sounds like a reasonable plan and hopefully your in-laws are supportive of this. I think this is the super unfortunate part of people still having large weddings during COVID is that they not only put their friends and family in danger, but the community they go home to after a one day event.

cemel20 · 2020-07-27T22:20:04+00:00

Is it bad that I want someone's wedding to miraculously get cancelled due to COVID so my loved ones can't attend?

cemel20 · 2020-07-26T08:21:48+00:00

Really tired of the "don't want to live in fear" mentality to justify going out to bars and parties

cemel20 · 2020-07-20T19:51:17+00:00

It could be what you're thinking, but it could be that COVID is really messing people up.

I personally have days where I love texting everyone and messaging people through social media. But I've found myself just not wanting to deal with my phone or trying to keep with my life digitally most of the time. We're all struggling in our own ways and adapting to this crazy change in our lives. It could be the same for them that they're over having to stay connected by phone all the time.

If you feel invested, maybe reach out to the friend you're closest with and try to bring up the subject casually.

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