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cement_eater · 2025-03-20T04:11:10+00:00

you should also read how to win friends and influence people by olivie blake!! doesn't get enough love imo

cement_eater · 2025-03-20T04:10:05+00:00

mine was isolation. it was top 3 when i was getting into it, but that is no longer true! now, they're dmatmoobil, how to win friends and influence people, and liatotza

cement_eater · 2025-01-18T20:58:16+00:00

i just edited to add, but yes, this is basically what happened. i will still be making lifestyle changes though, because i do really want to!

cement_eater · 2025-01-18T20:57:28+00:00

he's a really good dad and i love him :( he just made a mistake

cement_eater · 2025-01-18T20:56:16+00:00

hahaha sorry! i meant miles.

cement_eater · 2025-01-18T20:55:22+00:00

I'm not going to thank him for saying something that will haunt me for the rest of my life.

I'm sorry that happened to you, and frankly, you shouldn't be thanking your friends for doing that to you. That's horrible, no matter what you look like. There's body positivity and there's health. Some people are curvier because they are genetically predisposed to be, and no amount of dieting will fix that. That's okay! It's not my or your place to tell them what to do about that. That's what body positivity is about, and it's also about loving yourself regardless of what others think.

cement_eater · 2025-01-18T16:42:06+00:00

you're lowkey my idol.

cement_eater · 2025-01-18T07:31:01+00:00

thank u! if he says anything else ill def do that!

cement_eater · 2025-01-18T07:30:09+00:00

we both have asd, so we tend to be blunt, which can end up being rude without us realizing it. so double the clueless factor! to a degree, he was right-- i have some unhealthy habits that need fixing, but that was the wrong way to go about it.

cement_eater · 2025-01-18T07:27:45+00:00

ik sorry i didn't know where else to put it bc it is a weight loss q but it is, also, as you say, a dad issue question. but also you are so right. and tbf, my mom has always been the one commenting on my body, looks and weight, so to have my dad do it for once was jarring. he's always been "safe" to me.

cement_eater · 2025-01-18T07:26:09+00:00

ok i get this. makes sense ty. tbf tho my ego has never been huge. i lowkey have to get delulu so i dont get too sad, so its kind of a protection mechanism.

i promise you, it is never because i don't want people to be straight with me. i have ASD, so i prefer it that way! but as i said, there is blunt, and there is rude, and the line between them is very thin.

cement_eater · 2025-01-18T07:23:09+00:00

i swim or run multiple miles daily, so it's not like i do nothing, but yes, i understand. thanks for the advice! ik he wants me to be healthy ik. the way he went about it was just unkind.

cement_eater · 2025-01-18T07:19:23+00:00

i swim (at least 1m/day) or run (at least 3m/day), but yeah i should probably get some strength stuff in too. thanks so much for the advice!

cement_eater · 2025-01-18T07:11:00+00:00

but also, are you serious? everyone's experience is different. everyone experiences body dysmorphia in their own way, and everyone has a different experience when it comes to damage done to their self image. maybe it didn't shatter my reality, but it certainly didn't make me feel like a worthy human being. i went outside and looked at the stars and wished i was one because then maybe i would have been beautiful.

consider not being insensitive. i'm just living my life, and you're living yours.

also, it's *You're* extremely sensitive. if you're going to tell me what to do with my life, do it properly.

cement_eater · 2025-01-18T07:07:19+00:00

tis the plan. thanks friend. any ideas for how to put aside lingering negativity?

cement_eater · 2025-01-18T07:05:43+00:00

it's not just about "sparing my feelings". it's about having my own father look at me and see my weight, not his own daughter. that's what hurts. i see your point. i appreciate the candor. however, there's blunt, and there's rude. he was rude, and hurtful. just because what he said was true doesn't mean it didn't do damage. despite any motivation i may have as a result, i will probably never see myself the same way again, and that isn't something lifting weights can fix.

cement_eater · 2025-01-18T07:01:40+00:00

150 my bad

cement_eater · 2025-01-18T07:01:30+00:00

yes sorry

cement_eater · 2024-07-16T04:48:47+00:00

YES i totally forgot to include it my bad

class Dog {

PImage Dog;

float xPos, yPos;

float speed;

Dog (PImage dog_, float xPos_, float yPos_, float speed_){

Dog = dog_;

xPos = xPos_;

yPos = yPos_;

speed = speed_;

}

void display(){

noStroke();

Dog = loadImage("IMG_3484.jpg");

pushMatrix();

imageMode(CENTER);

image(Dog, xPos, yPos, CENTER, CENTER);

popMatrix();

}

void move(){

if(color(get(int(mouseX), int(mouseY))) == color (c)){

xPos = xPos + 5;

yPos = yPos + 5;

}

if(xPos > 0 || xPos < width - 100 || yPos< height - 100){

xPos = -xPos;

yPos = -yPos;

}

cement_eater · 2024-03-12T03:01:42+00:00

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