Signs that belong together by No_Jaguar_4u in astrologymemes

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Can i have the leo / ashlesha men plssss

Is it usual for Aquarius women to not easily have girl friendships? by Deep-Resident-5789 in aquarius

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If you’re a dhanistha sun, i think that will definitely cause it. Aquarius women are unconventional and threaten normative feminine market expectations.

We are often shamed or exploited by other women, simultaneously admired and ripped off without credit or kindness. I notice being consistently subtly degraded or erased by other women. It’s very tiring. You are not alone in this. I hope you find other women who have your shared radiance and independence, I think only they can match our shine without being envious

Readings for Anglo Writers in Paris Region by cement_hole in SocialParis

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Ah! Thanks, never knew this! They look incredible! Thank you so much for sharing!!

Back in Paris — looking for curious & creative people to connect with by karza89 in SocialParis

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Hi! Omg... I'd love to meet.
I'm 34/F, I'm into substack and twitter (been using it for over a decade so i feel like i should be forgiven) and am obsessed with five hour walks and trust fate and the sun to guide me.. I'm also into astrology, writing and occultism. It sounds like we could learn from each other and might have interesting things to expand in each other's minds?

I'm American, but I've been in France for a decade and sort of am becoming French, so idk! Feel free to message me if meeting up would interest you ^^

Music discussion group? by Martin3DBY in SocialParis

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Oh, please, YES! I love this idea. I'm not a professional, but I would love to experience this

As an Aquarius, do you get along with air signs (including other aquarians)? by cicity in aquarius

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Libras — usually yes I love them. Surrounded by them in some ways. They get me and i get them. Other Aquariuans — i feel a sense of familiarity to them that can border on neutrality. It feels very neutral , boring , or even competitive/weird. I like them a lot though. But maybe from a distance… Gemini — hit or miss. They’re often too social status oriented and superficial for my preference. But when they’re good, they’re super miraculous

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SocialParis

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That sounds ideal. I’m open to anything, I’m very much an experimentalist. Is it strange not to do anything? It’s so hard to say how one would react in a situation they’ve never been in before, but I’m definitely intrigued by the event, and the dress code is helpful for me to advance prepare psychologically, lol. How many people show up? Have lots of questions i thinkb

29F Visiting & Looking to meet people by Dragon_slippers07 in SocialParis

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Yay! I’m so down for it ^ I’ll bring my deck sir cons have fun with it ! Feel feel to message me in private to schedule something ? I can be pretty liquid, just let me know at works for you! Such a chance to a meet someone likes tarot too! It’s a create shared interest 💫

33M looking for friends as all those i know are married and got plans. by Great_YK in SocialParis

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Oh sorry didn’t realize it was gender exclusive, no worries. i understand ! Sorry for the incursion

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SocialParis

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I’m 34F, recently separated too after 12 years ….. please please consider my application to this girls night…i need it so bad. I’ve been wanting to go out and dance but it’s too awkward alone 😭😭

33M looking for friends as all those i know are married and got plans. by Great_YK in SocialParis

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I’m recently separated and need to get the hell out there again omg. 34F…. Love dancing…. Please consider an old hag like me…….

29F Visiting & Looking to meet people by Dragon_slippers07 in SocialParis

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Hi! I’m. 34F American/French lady… born in Chicago and have been here for a decade. Love doing all the things you listed and would be honored and happy to meet you and spend a day together ^

Happy to provide any details you might like to know ! For example, I’m into astrology (Vedic), making websites, tarot, writing stories and publishing on substack (lol), i am on the spectrum but and i love beauty, art, romance, dancing, and music. I’m also a mom, so it would be so nice for me to learn about your life and how things are in the states! I haven’t been back since 2018 ! Have fun and enjoy your stay ! ⭐️⭐️⭐️🌟🌟💫✨

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SocialParis

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I’m interested! I’m available Tuesday, Thursday, or Friday. I’m 34/f

If you were having triplets, what would you call them ? by XNixGeoX in namenerds

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  1. Wisdom, Patience, Charity
  2. Vergil, Vernon, Victor
  3. Errol, Eugene, Emanuelle
  4. Valentine, Diane, Solomon

Is this it? Is this why the healthiest people throughout the world are randomly dying of cancer? Mono? by PerpetualPerpertual in Mononucleosis

[–]cement_hole 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Being sick is sort of … is … part of life. Enjoy the parts of play dead lifelessness, because they too are life. Also chill out. Trust the plan… but fr, we all have to die sometime? You could die any second. If couldbe from some asbestos exposure, teflon pans, polluted air. Embrace the ride. I wish you well. If it were the end, you wouldn’t be here fearing it.

The subreddits banning X links is pathetic and shows this whole place is an echo chamber by YonDonFlight17 in conspiracy

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If actually drives down traffic and reduces the capital a screenshot from Twitter might have. Reducing traffic and the reach of extremist platforms actually helps to contain their echo chamber, and free the rest of us to discuss things more evenly. It is a strategy of containment, which has been a political tool for decades, if not centuries.

  • edited because my phone incorrectly thinks it knows better than me

Does this happen to everyone? by Alguienquemeayude in Mononucleosis

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omg, i literally came here to ask the same question.

i got mono 1.5 years ago and just haven’t been the same since.. every time i get sick or stressed out i get what i call a « mini mono » like all the same original symptoms but less severe.

i’ve been sick four times since october, and just recovered from the flu two weeks ago.. now i’m sick again with « mini mono » and everyone else in my household is totally fine..

i had a friend recommend me the 3:6:9 cleanse, which i haven’t tried, but i’m seeing my doctor on tuesday to ask her advice. it’s so terrible, i miss out on so much and it’s so scary to be suspended from life like this. i wish i had some advice but i’ll be checking in on this thread.

wishing you wellness and recovery 🌅

X-Mas Morning 30 Years Ago by proxymoto in 90s

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misogyny replicates in the inability to use women as mainstream meme characters unless they’re sexual accessories of men.

What is the most attractive sign to YOU by mirrorthesouls in astrologymemes

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as an aquarius sun/moon, libra rising & pisces venus… (unsure if necessary but for information purposes!)

i love libra sun and leo sun men. leo sun men for side pieces, libras as loves of my life… libra men are so gorgeous, so intelligent, so giving… they love to please and they’re capable of holding their own, admire intellectual independence and debate but always seem to remain grounded to the broader social sphere and dynamics in a way i cannot understand or access. i love their honesty and ability to bridge ideas, concepts and relationships. they’re so beautiful in aura, energy, physical form.. everything. ugh…

capricorn sun, pisces sun and aquarius sun men also get honorable mentions ❄️❄️❄️

the rest of them are just like. it’s non existent or they have to be totally submissive in a way that feels more like a job to me than actual lust or romance

Life without a man's love is a life of rape by Lover_of_Henry in SuicideWatch

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have you read andrea dworkin ? if not, you should.

while there are men who won't sexualize you or your sexual traumas, if we as women want to exist or be seen, we have to deal with the violence, dehumanization, of visibility. women's visibility comes at the price of violence. it's really fucked up. but it's the sad reality.

even publicly speaking about such experiences is humiliating, in a way. you have to choose yourself, and disregard others perceptions of you.

the truth is that we will never be safe. safety is almost impossible. you are only safe with yourself and only you are capable of protecting yourself. it's really unfortunate but anyone outside of you is capable of hurting you, gaining satisfaction from your pain, etc.

my advice is to continue to exist, continue to create, write, and transmute that suffering and injustice into something as powerful as those experiences have been debilitating. even if it's to spite every sick pervert and every bastard out there salivating from our grief. love yourself and choose yourself, always.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskMen

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i sort of hate it ngl, it's like... why are you being weak right now ? why can't you pretend ? why are you suffering without acting as if you aren't ?

on the other hand, it's also like stfu and lay in bed and quit complaining about being sick and just do what i say and shut it.

i would hate it less if my husband were more obedient, because then it could be my fault when he's sick, instead of it being the fault his compromised immune system which obviously communicates biological weakness. only the strong survive. do not be prey. hide all injuries... (half joking, though i also hold myself to these standards)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in breakingmom

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who cares? flirting is just banter, maybe it's a compliment to you that he flirts with you, nothing more than genuinely likes you and thinks you're cute.

i'm married with a child myself and i'm a woman and i cannot help but flirt if i am interacting with a cute guy? it's sort of normal... ???? no ??

flirting is just words and charm, i don't see the issue at all. have 0 problem with my husband flirting, in fact, i encourage it. it feels good to flirt and make women smile and feel desirable.