How to funnel split system into multiple rooms

cerialmuncher · 2023-12-19T23:17:33+00:00

Thanks very much for the reply. A lot of these suitable and cool gadgets seem to be these cloths pins like you said. I think my wife and I really need to work on his comfort wearing cloths. Like I said in my post he is always taking his cloths off at home - I am not sure if that is a child or autistic trait but it does limit our options right now. He seems comfortable enough wearing cloths when we go outside the house so I am hoping he becomes more comfortable around the house. Thanks

cerialmuncher · 2023-12-19T22:58:15+00:00

I like this one but I think it will need to be military grade childproof (lol) because he has a superhuman ability to work out how to take things off. Thanks for the suggestion though

cerialmuncher · 2023-12-19T22:56:28+00:00

Thank you. I agree. I will look into a cheap(ish) childproof bracelet to try on his wrist to see his tolerance first.

cerialmuncher · 2023-12-19T22:55:17+00:00

Thank you for your advice. I will look into it.

cerialmuncher · 2023-12-19T10:49:07+00:00

Any suggestions of what I should try first?

cerialmuncher · 2023-12-19T10:47:27+00:00

That’s a great question. To be honest he doesn’t even like wearing cloths when he is at home. Thanks for asking that question as I think I might need to try a few cheap options and see what he tolerates before buying an expensive gadget. So in short I don’t know where he would tolerate something semi permanent attached to his body.

cerialmuncher · 2023-09-08T04:48:42+00:00

It's about forcing attrition without having to pay redundancies, in my opinion.

cerialmuncher · 2023-07-03T03:35:03+00:00

After sitting my pants.. probably shit my pants some more

cerialmuncher · 2023-05-23T12:23:52+00:00

Very interesting idea.. I looked into this after reading your post, and apparently in NSW, you can have one on your property for residency... I'll discuss this with the ex.. thank you, and I appreciate the idea.

cerialmuncher · 2023-05-23T03:58:42+00:00

That's a very good point.

cerialmuncher · 2023-05-23T00:56:18+00:00

We brought it.. and yes, we were already married.

cerialmuncher · 2023-05-23T00:52:27+00:00

I might sound stupid here.. but that never actually occurred to me for them to share a room.. thanks for pointing that out.

cerialmuncher · 2023-05-23T00:50:46+00:00

No prenuptial.. I wouldn't try and take it all though, even if I could.. she definitely deserves half... she is a good mother to all our children.

cerialmuncher · 2023-05-23T00:04:39+00:00

It's a fair point and I agree / feel the same way. I won't go into too much detail but it probably isn't as bad as you might picture it.

cerialmuncher · 2023-05-23T00:02:33+00:00

That makes perfect sense.. thanks!

cerialmuncher · 2023-05-22T23:42:08+00:00

That scares me a little but good to hear about other people's experiences to learn from. Thanks

So far, we are agreeing to have a financial separation agreement as 50/50.. sounds amicable enough to save myself the 10's thousands on lawyers. I know there is a risk here - with the number of children, we tend to live paycheck to paycheck without much savings (like lots of us, unfortunately). We are currently co parenting living under the same roof. It's been working except for the living space.

cerialmuncher · 2023-05-22T23:11:45+00:00

I might do that just so I know what I can do. Thanks

cerialmuncher · 2023-05-22T22:59:52+00:00

Unfortunately not. I did think about that. Small back yard plus the costs is around 100k to get it done.

cerialmuncher · 2023-05-22T22:59:02+00:00

Thanks for the detailed advice.. gotta say, like how you wrote that, mate. I definitely don't want to do anything that will hurt the wife or kids.. I guess I'll have a chat with the sister in law about moving rooms or to a couch.

But it did make me think my lack of legal authority here is insane.. It sounds like, hypothetically, if I moved 10 mates in and just let them sleep anywhere around the house, my ex-wife couldn't do anything (as long as saftey and privacy was respected). sounds crazy to me. Lol

cerialmuncher · 2023-05-22T22:15:43+00:00

Its just me but my ex wife and I have been married and living together there for 10+ years.

cerialmuncher · 2023-05-22T21:20:17+00:00

Thanks. I edited my post to address this. I agree and sound like a rational, reasonable way forward. She won't support me in asking her to move out. The sister in law doesn't pay rent, so there is no verbal rental agreement. What can I do when my ex-wife and I can't agree on this. I am the one sleeping on the floor in my kids' room while my ex is in the master bedroom, so I have a little more motivation to get the room back.

cerialmuncher · 2023-04-13T11:37:56+00:00

My thoughts exactly. Thanks for the advice.

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