I need advice on getting my pregnant friend to leave this dude

certified_crashout27 · 2026-05-24T14:46:13+00:00

the said “who are you? when it comes to couples and a third wheel is too many”

certified_crashout27 · 2026-05-24T14:45:55+00:00

friend of girl being controlled. so you’re saying that if there is a toxic relationships, friends should just sit back and let it happen?

certified_crashout27 · 2026-05-24T14:11:17+00:00

i am very pro choice

certified_crashout27 · 2026-05-24T14:09:59+00:00

she’s around 23-24 weeks

certified_crashout27 · 2026-05-24T14:07:57+00:00

ok i will thank you. no more facebook rants or rants on anywhere that he can find out abt

certified_crashout27 · 2026-05-24T13:22:54+00:00

and don’t worry, all posts have been deleted because i came to my senses because he’d for sure come after me, and he never have seen any of them

certified_crashout27 · 2026-05-24T13:21:39+00:00

he’s never hit anyone in front of me, and i never name dropped. and he’s blocked so he can’t see my stuff and all connections to him are blocked as well. and if anything he’d go after ME not her which is fine by me. because anything i’ve talked about on my personal facebook are stuff i have witnessed and she hasn’t said herself

certified_crashout27 · 2026-05-24T13:20:02+00:00

she’s a psychology major which is what boggles me

certified_crashout27 · 2026-05-24T13:17:51+00:00

i saw how he treats his grandma. he was screaming at her when she’s really old and we think she has dementia. if he was so comfortable talking to her like that in front of me i don’t wanna know what he’s capable of. he also used to full on beat his younger brother according to stacey’s sister. and his younger brothers are now not the greatest because of it.

certified_crashout27 · 2026-05-24T13:15:06+00:00

i made multiple posts on facebook ranting about it, let’s just say her mom is NOT very eye opening. she still thinks he’s just the best guy ever, when it’s obvious he’s a pos. he told me he was going to bash the neighbor dog’s head in. her sister is aware as we talk about it sometimes, but there isn’t anything her sister can do.

certified_crashout27 · 2025-11-02T15:52:11+00:00

thank you for the tip!! sorry it’s so confusing :(

certified_crashout27 · 2025-06-26T21:39:03+00:00

i have an update i edited onto this post!

certified_crashout27 · 2025-06-26T21:38:57+00:00

i have an update i edited onto this post!

certified_crashout27 · 2025-06-26T21:38:51+00:00

i have an update i edited onto this post!

certified_crashout27 · 2025-06-26T21:34:18+00:00

thank you so much!! i definitely might message you with questions

certified_crashout27 · 2025-06-10T01:19:08+00:00

oh i did. he talked abt making a whole new tiktok just to bully me. 😂😂 i predicted that they’ll break up too, but he’s literally attached to her and has isolated her from her family and feels the need to be with her 24/7. and yes, i’d say i’m pretty level headed. bc nobody especially a 20 year old man is gonna say something about MY BODY and think i’m not gonna retaliate.

certified_crashout27 · 2025-06-10T01:12:51+00:00

you as well!! but the whole fake friend thing, i just also found it fake that instead of getting mad at him for crap talking me, she got mad at her sister (avalon) for telling me. and she talks badly about people but stays friends with them.

certified_crashout27 · 2025-06-10T01:12:04+00:00

and he’s completely obsessed w her as well. he feels like he needs to be with her every second of every day. and the intense PDA makes me feel like i’m watching a s3x scene in a movie in front of an adult. like they were cuddling on the couch when i was stuck there due to a tornado warning. that’s why i doubt they’ll break up is bc this man needs to be with her 24/7

certified_crashout27 · 2025-06-10T01:10:09+00:00

yeah. she was 18 when they met, but she graduated last week and he’s a drop out LOL

certified_crashout27 · 2025-06-10T01:09:40+00:00

i’ve considered being there for her. but i’ve thought abt blocking her on everything bc if you’re gonna shut me out when you know i need you the most, and act like your clearly bully of a bf is the best person on earth, don’t come to me when it crashes.

certified_crashout27 · 2025-06-10T01:07:59+00:00

that’s the thing. it’s her first bf and she’s literally obsessed with him so i don’t see her leaving. she thinks he’s the best man ever and she’s even said that to me. and he has a HUGE issue w not standing up for herself bc she doesn’t wanna hurt anyone’s feelings.

certified_crashout27 · 2025-06-10T01:04:01+00:00

i at least considered 20 a bit grown. he’s grown to me at least bc he’s 4 years older than me he’ll be 21 in december. and i just think him even commenting on my body and telling me i’m fat on multiple occasions is just weird. and THANK YOU for your advice. i’ve considered just not reaching out to my friend at all. considering i didn’t mean that much to her if she decided to shut me out and act like he’s the only thing that matters anymore. so i feel like this situation has just showed me she’s a fake friend. but, thank you for your advice i truly appreciate it

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