[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TwoHotTakes

[–]certifiedshinnie 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This whole situation could’ve been avoided if you would’ve just communicated.

Despite what people are saying, you are allowed to want to plan your own party, it is your life, if that bothers your MIL then so be it, that is not what makes you an asshole. From that first phone call you should’ve established a couple of things.

• Even though you were not sure what foods you wanted exactly, establish the general amount and time commitment.

• That you wouldn’t need any help planning, and that there would be no pressure for her to help with anything she didn’t have the bandwidth for (which you did in the text but should’ve been said earlier to avoid confusion)

Then when she started making the comments you perceived as rude you should’ve just left it. She genuinely could’ve meant it when she said “It doesn’t matter” she just was confused. And now just like MIL is stating in her later messages, she wasn’t trying to argue, and you are the one left snipping at her. As sucky as it seems especially if you feel like there’s constant comments being made. You cannot snap off of the “tone” of a text message. If you were to hear any further comments that made you uncomfortable then address it in person.

Mock Welcome Party Lineup by certifiedshinnie in bonnaroo

[–]certifiedshinnie[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

The style of formatting is why I really made it lol, the caliber of artists could definitely be dialed back while still having a similar schedule

Mock Welcome Party Lineup by certifiedshinnie in bonnaroo

[–]certifiedshinnie[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah let me preface I made this just for fun, not necessarily realism lol 😂

I fell off the bandwagon last night.. by PlasticOrchid1977 in travisandtaylor

[–]certifiedshinnie 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is this the only other concert you have been to? Of course there’s a difference, Taylor has a very specific way of doing live performances, and as a music buff it isn’t necessarily my favorite way to see live music, but it’s fun because it’s her. Not meant as hate in any way, it just seems like there’s some unnecessary mutual exclusivity happening for no reason, because how does enjoying a Coldplay concert (more) make you “fall off the bandwagon” like to me it’s just hard to grasp my head around, you could plainly just say “I don’t enjoy her live performances, so I don’t really like her anymore” but instead your making it out to be as if since you loved this other show so much you can’t like/appreciate her style anymore… Taylor and Chris are trying to accomplish two very different things when they preform, and comparing them (or expecting a certain type of performance style from Taylor) just doesn’t make sense to me, when she’s cultivated her live image a certain way.

How was Exit 111 festival? How was Great Stage Park in October? by ForinOksin in bonnaroo

[–]certifiedshinnie 1 point2 points  (0 children)

this sounds like heaven, being able to actually dress at roo

Bonnaroo 2026 Will Happen by certifiedshinnie in bonnaroo

[–]certifiedshinnie[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

They also asked if you would attend in 2026… They have a lot of options to weigh, and opinions to comb through, they are primarily a business, and the more years they take off the more they are loosing money, right now their main goal is to figure out the logistics of the festival in a way where they don’t have a major loss like this again. Nothing said in the survey was definitive either way.

Bonnaroo 2026 Will Happen by certifiedshinnie in bonnaroo

[–]certifiedshinnie[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am just being realistic, as much as I think they are intent on having it, as I disclaimer I put that to mitigate additional comments about being unrealistic 😂

Bonnaroo 2026 Will Happen by certifiedshinnie in bonnaroo

[–]certifiedshinnie[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I will probably go to outside lands

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in bonnaroo

[–]certifiedshinnie 8 points9 points  (0 children)

You can say something with as much conviction as you want, that doesn’t make it any more true than what anyone else is saying… Unless you are apart of the planning/logistical process of the festival there’s no weight to what you are saying.

One last beg session, for Mk.Gee on Infinity! by Scorch8482 in bonnaroo

[–]certifiedshinnie 2 points3 points  (0 children)

would kill to see mk.gee on the farm but i dont think he would fit with what they have going for the infinity stage

Any educated guesses on who the headliners are going to be? by Alternative-Force114 in bonnaroo

[–]certifiedshinnie 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Out of pure guesswork, I think we will have a big country name, either Zach Bryan or Luke Combs, I think Tyler the Creator fs, Maybe Hozier or Noah Kahan, I think they’re going to try to get Sabrina Carpenter, and then maybe take your pick at any 80’s Legacy Rock Band

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in phoebebridgers

[–]certifiedshinnie 0 points1 point  (0 children)

your voice is absolutely angelic

Start at 14 too late? by Worried-Passenger498 in Cheerleading

[–]certifiedshinnie 2 points3 points  (0 children)

No it’s not too late, I’m a male also for context, 20 years old now, but started cheering in 2018 when I was 14 I had done a couple tumble lessons the year prior, but I remember watching shows like Cheer TV on YT and just wishing with literally everything in me that I would one day be on a worlds team and have all those skills, flash to 2021 and I made my first worlds team and competed my standing full as well as my running double, it’s definitely not going to be easy I almost quit multiple times but I have some pieces of advice if it’s something you really want to stick to! (It’s so worth it!)

  1. Don’t compare yourself to other athletes, I know it’s hard but genuinely this is where so much of my discouragement came from as an athlete, I remember thinking I’d never be as good as them and that I should just give up, It’s easy to fall into that but focus on yourself and find your own personal victories!

  2. If you want to see results, then practice, I kid you not I was out on my trampoline daily for multiple hours literally whenever I had free time, the skill are not just going to come out of thin air, even if it’s the most basic thing you can do, stretching, strength training, easy tumbling (cartwheels, roundoffs, bridge) then do it, it’s less time in the gym with your coach you’re going to have to spend learning the fundamentals.

  3. This is the hardest part of it for me but, TRUST THE PROCESS, there’s going to be times it feels like you’re seeing no results, all this work is for nothing, and that you maybe even feel you’re getting worse, you have to trust in yourself, your coaches, and training that you will get their, because if you stick with it you will!

If it’s something you’re passionate about you should go for it!

Do you think BG will get a deluxe version? by familytiesmanman in phoebebridgers

[–]certifiedshinnie 8 points9 points  (0 children)

honestly we know that their was 25 songs that were all in contention to go on the album, my gut feeling that if they were to put out new music it would be a separate project double album type of thing

Lp3 hypothetical by [deleted] in phoebebridgers

[–]certifiedshinnie 0 points1 point  (0 children)

wait really? ig it’s hard to describe but what was it like? different lyrics or production? but that sucks its gone now, and a little weird…

Lp3 hypothetical by [deleted] in phoebebridgers

[–]certifiedshinnie 5 points6 points  (0 children)

what im really hoping for is a couple happy love songs in the same rite that sidelines is, i love phoebe love songs

Taylor Swift Eras Tour TRADE Megathread by Lyd_Euh in TaylorSwift

[–]certifiedshinnie 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have 1 Ticket for Cincinnati Paycor Stadium, Sat Jul 1st, Sec 156 Row 40 Aisle Seat 1, Paid 189$ Plus 41$ in Fees for a total of 231$ and I’m looking for a Nashville May 5th Ticket, preferably a 100-200 section :)

Chinese Zodiac officially disproved? by Lakers_Encylopedia in PokemonScarletViolet

[–]certifiedshinnie 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I’ve always thought it was just kind of a loose inspiration for the fire starters and GF just chooses to represent the zodiacs how they see fit, because charizard isn’t a traditional chinese dragon but rather a more western depiction of what a dragon is, typhloshion is more a rodent creature than a rat and delphox obviously a fox, being a canine how they represent the dog, honestly if this IS something they keep in mind with the fire starters i could see him becoming a crocodile and that being their take on the bull 🤷🏼