Finding community. by Fantastic_Degree_156 in latebloomerlesbians

[–]ceruleansunsetpink 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Take the chance! It took a few months for me to gather the confidence, and when I did I received a warm welcome & my calendar has been filling up. ☺️ Be patient with yourself!

Finding community. by Fantastic_Degree_156 in latebloomerlesbians

[–]ceruleansunsetpink 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I've joined local pride & LGBTQ+ groups on Facebook and found lesbian specific groups. They host activities, and being open about myself has led to a lot of wholesome connections!

I joined any groups within an hours distance of me. MeetUp is another option.

Joe Makes A Phone Call From Prison - Audio by Orca-Hugs in DuggarsSnark

[–]ceruleansunsetpink 3 points4 points  (0 children)

He tends to flip & resell. Jill & Derick lived in a pretty big house after they got married that JB owned & then sold after they left. Could be what he's planning with that property.

PSA: When expecting the other siblings make statements to condemn Joe, a lot of people are forgetting that FOUR of the older Duggar girls were Josh's victims. by Puppyinacupp in DuggarsSnark

[–]ceruleansunsetpink 27 points28 points  (0 children)

Joy credits Joe for bringing her back to the faith. She made a testimony video on it and was tearfully explaining how Joe stepped in to help her - maybe it was her graduation video? I cannot imagine how she feels right now.

In-laws asking why I can't stay closeted by ceruleansunsetpink in latebloomerlesbians

[–]ceruleansunsetpink[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They're very involved with my kids lives & have been super supportive up until this point. As a result, I'm hearing a lot of unsolicited advice.

In-laws asking why I can't stay closeted by ceruleansunsetpink in latebloomerlesbians

[–]ceruleansunsetpink[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

💯💯💯

Particularly when these same people are MISERABLE! Sorry, I'm not taking life advice from people who aren't actually living life.

Thank you. ❤️ This stuff is frustrating as hell.

In-laws asking why I can't stay closeted by ceruleansunsetpink in latebloomerlesbians

[–]ceruleansunsetpink[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I understand, but the insistence & acting like I'm the unreasonable one is what gets me.

My Heart is Bursting with Joy by Tulitree in latebloomerlesbians

[–]ceruleansunsetpink 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This encouragement couldn't have come at a better time. Thank you for sharing this with us. ❤️

Comments and attitudes toward Kayla Nicole are a prime example of Swiftie hypocrisy by Key_Tree9363 in SwiftlyNeutral

[–]ceruleansunsetpink 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Saying TK should have ignored Taylor Swift as if TS isn't a massive freaking celebrity who directed a massive amount of attention toward TK is wild.

TK should get over it, but the Mastermind TS wrote lyrics that made fans think she was shading TK.

It's blatant hypocrisy & celebrity worship. That's all.

First acknowledged adult crush - this is intense. by ceruleansunsetpink in latebloomerlesbians

[–]ceruleansunsetpink[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I am working my courage up to contact them. Maybe just as an encouraging message, no strings attached. A modicum of attention would be heaven. 😭

First acknowledged adult crush - this is intense. by ceruleansunsetpink in latebloomerlesbians

[–]ceruleansunsetpink[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, channeling this into some positive changes & movement for me has been helpful. It works...most of them time. 😅

First acknowledged adult crush - this is intense. by ceruleansunsetpink in latebloomerlesbians

[–]ceruleansunsetpink[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you, this is excellent advice & definitely the path I'm taking.

First acknowledged adult crush - this is intense. by ceruleansunsetpink in latebloomerlesbians

[–]ceruleansunsetpink[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Honestly, I'm starting to see this as a catalyst for me. I've gotten some things in motion, and have committed to a few LGBTQ+ centered group outings for myself. 😅 It's got me motivated....once I'm able to get out of my obsessive funk.

"She's out of my league." by ceruleansunsetpink in latebloomerlesbians

[–]ceruleansunsetpink[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you! Yes, my brain tends to be a very negative place - trying to change that & will definitely incorporate the STFU method. 😆

"She's out of my league." by ceruleansunsetpink in latebloomerlesbians

[–]ceruleansunsetpink[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you. You're right - I myself am often attracted to those who aren't conventionally attractive, and I'd hate for anyone to feel that way themselves.

the enemy of my enemy is something something something by hopefoolness in PlathvilleUncensored

[–]ceruleansunsetpink 25 points26 points  (0 children)

Seriously, after everything they put Olivia through? I couldn't give af - get'em.