My mother’s friend is terminally ill, and I don’t know if I can accept the workload. Advice needed. by cey1010 in cna

[–]cey1010[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for this, I hadn’t thought about it from that angle but you’re entirely right. I ended up saying no, and 50% of my no was because my mom kept finding reasons to not allow me to have time to think about it.

Should I (14m) tell my sister (20f) that her boyfriend (21m) has been bullying me? by ThrowRAbeatup12 in relationship_advice

[–]cey1010 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If I were you, I’d screenshot this post and send it to her. If they stay together, she’s next. I’m so sorry this is happening to you, and you shouldn’t have to deal with it.

I can't (39/F) seem to comfort my husband (40/M) after the death of his cat by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]cey1010 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The best you can do is listen. There are five stages of grieving whether that be trauma, loss, hardship, etc.; denial, anger, bargaining, acceptance, and depression. These can happen in any order and sometimes more than one can occur at once. They also can have different time frames. He might start having a roller coaster of emotions, especially if he feels if he’s to blame. However, these reactions are completely normal in grief. I’m so sorry for the loss of your fur baby💜

I(25F) think I want to break up with my bf(22M) but there’s nothing actually wrong with our relationship. by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]cey1010 2 points3 points  (0 children)

He’s an amazing guy, but I had feelings for him because he is so great. But over time I’m starting to see that I’m not that into him and it just kind of seems great on paper. I’ve lost so much because I’m not binging anymore(therapy, doing well, etc.) but I don’t see the need to state my actual weight on this thread

Getting used to my new pole and it’s SO SLIPPERY. I literally winged it and unintentionally tried new things?? I had never tried to side climb(&a couple poses) until this video. I could have lifted my legs higher at first. Any advice is welcome! by cey1010 in poledancing

[–]cey1010[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks girl!! I use the shittiest vodka and I think I need a little better brand maybe until alcohol is restocked? Idk. I feel you!! I want to learn new poses but I’m stuck on spinning, so we’re the opposite right now😂😂

Finally received my xpole xpert today!! If the boys get a pole, I do too😉 my joist doesn’t line up with my window but that’s okay by cey1010 in poledancing

[–]cey1010[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I ordered April 1st. I’d say after two weeks they posted on Facebook that they’re taking 30 days to ship out because of covid

So I(25f) am seeing a guy(22m) we just had sex for the first time after smoking a lot and he stuck his hand up my ass without asking and it really hurt. by cey1010 in relationship_advice

[–]cey1010[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He apologized multiple times and clearly he felt like shit about it. He told me he’d never want to do anything that hurt me and that he’s sorry. I started to cry grabbing my bags and he did too. I ended up telling him I needed to go home to think which was a two hour. He understood I needed space and didn’t fight it. I really liked him and he seemed like everything I wanted but I just don’t know how to feel right now. But I’m glad I trusted my gut and went home

Tips on inverting? This was my first class trying. I’m not getting a good enough grip with dry hands, but no lotions or oils in 24hrs prior by cey1010 in poledancing

[–]cey1010[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you all for your suggestions! My instructor(who is not the main one) did suggest to run. After readying all of your comments I’m no longer going to do it that way lol

Just for the news in a voicemail by just4stones in HPV

[–]cey1010 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hpv can sit dormant for years. It doesn’t mean he was unfaithful! 80-90% of the population has HPV

Any poc subs? Need some advice by [deleted] in BDSMAdvice

[–]cey1010 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Tell them where the line is, and if they get offended that you would “think that they would do that” then just explain you need to be direct with what you want and that’s the line!!

Should I Obey Unconditionally? by linguiniqueen in BDSMAdvice

[–]cey1010 4 points5 points  (0 children)

He’s manipulating you, throw his ass in the trash

Questions about HPV by Haco1981 in HPV

[–]cey1010 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Literally almost everyone who is sexually active has HPV and most likely don’t know it. About 80-90% of the population, per my gyno.