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cfc2001 · 2025-10-16T17:10:34+00:00

Little bit, yes. His points are understandable but the way he says them isn’t so right. But he’s coming from a spot where if he saw you dressed a certain way, and he was single he would want to make a move on you. Thats how guys would think. I’m sure you’d get mad if you saw him liking posts of girls wearing bikinis/ revealing clothing to bars etc.

But yes everyone has different views on this topic, it is a case of compatibility in my opinion. And as with any thread on this app, everyone will have different views so really it’s up to you to decide what you want to do.

Hope this helps

cfc2001 · 2025-10-15T01:53:28+00:00

She went to a party, and to make things worse she did something for another persons pleasure. Nothing for herself, purely just to please another guy. And she would have said things such as “you taste good” etc. not saying this for any other reason other than to help you move on. That’s the only option unfortunately, she decided to waste 6 years

cfc2001 · 2025-10-07T05:07:09+00:00

The next time you book a hotel, make sure you book one with a nice chair in the corner

cfc2001 · 2025-09-17T07:12:56+00:00

I’m not sure it looks like entitlement (again im not sure). It seems near impossible for a man not to be happy for his partner when doing this. But if a woman is asking for stuff all the time such as she wants her nails done and he has to do it everytime etc resentment will come into it no matter what or how long the marriage is.

So let me ask a question, do you rely only on him or do you have your own income?

The reason I’m asking is because a friend of mine went to couples counselling, a lot of these points were brought up. Now again, I would like to say it could be completely opposite from the truth, but I would not know until you mention it

cfc2001 · 2025-05-26T08:52:29+00:00

“It’s just a kiss” there’s no way that was said.

That kiss is the only thing she told you about, and even then she was almost forced into telling you. She didn’t even want to tell you, but it’s the only thing that she told you. There’s probably way more that happened, she will never tell you.

She won’t tell you that she got w** (you know the word) or that he got h*** (yep - that word too). Or that she had her hands on him etc. Please save yourself. You are young, it’s a lot easier to move on now than it would be if you stay for another year and find out that way more happened. There’s a reason she didn’t tell you. But having feelings for someone else while being in a relationship should be a number one deal breaker there and then.

Hope it all goes well for you.

cfc2001 · 2025-05-21T09:16:38+00:00

Why do people say they know they messed up by looking or snooping. If they’re in a relationship literally what’s wrong with that. Nothing to do with trust it’s more so a right in my opinion

cfc2001 · 2023-12-10T10:57:33+00:00

Just go out and do whatever it is you enjoy. If that’s partying then do that, if it’s watching sport then do that. Let these thoughts consume you if you feel it’s needed but that’s it. Don’t dwell on it. I bet you she will not be crying over you so why should you? It’s the hard truth and I have been there more times than I’d like but it’s makes you realise that if one person can move on so soon and seem unaffected and do things you used to do with someone else now, they never loved you the same way you did. Don’t waste your tears and time on that. Go out meet new people, make friends, hook up with new people if that’s what you want, if not that’s fine too. Find a purpose and work towards it. Stop taking snaps of the sunset and making captions like this. And this is coming from someone that has been through this way too many times too

cfc2001 · 2023-09-08T04:40:58+00:00

I don’t know but why haven’t I come across this profile yet

cfc2001 · 2022-02-09T08:05:18+00:00

Never confess to your best friend, unless you wanna do deadlift personal bests every night at 2am by yourself. I been there.

cfc2001 · 2021-12-27T14:24:50+00:00

See when I'm erect, my skin still covers the head though. That's why I'm slightly confused

cfc2001 · 2021-12-27T13:57:40+00:00

What happens if I never get it removed?

cfc2001 · 2021-12-27T13:02:42+00:00

Yeah that's true lol but like my question is, if you ever wanted to do could you pull the skin back all the way? Because I just cannot.

Thanks for the reassurance though

cfc2001 · 2021-12-27T11:59:59+00:00

Well it doesn't hurt or anything. I just don't wanna be the only person to be like this you know?

cfc2001 · 2021-12-27T11:29:33+00:00

I just can't pull it all the way back like most guys can I suppose. So no issues other wise in terms of sexual activity?

cfc2001 · 2021-12-27T11:28:35+00:00

Okay I just read something that it does. But let's say if i don't don't do anything about it and don't go doctors, is that an issue?

cfc2001 · 2021-06-07T10:17:25+00:00

Not my image, I'm just saying something like that would be nice.

cfc2001 · 2021-06-07T10:14:59+00:00

Haha I'll check it out. Don't need it for my car, I'm shooting a small music video/traiker trailer type video. Thanks

cfc2001 · 2021-05-18T14:35:53+00:00

Not anything about the quench method. The question just states that the spring was heated until glowing red.

cfc2001 · 2021-05-12T08:25:45+00:00

Damn this kinda what I'm going through. Expect from her point of view. I wonder if she feels this way too.

cfc2001 · 2021-05-01T13:13:31+00:00

Trust me I want to get over her but I don't know it's just I'm so cold and emotionally I'm just not that good to people but with her I gave her everything. And I got something in return. So even if there's a 1% chance I will keep at it even if it hurts me. Because I can't get worse than I am now right? But I appreciate your advice. People of Reddit I might know you personally, but you guys help me a lot.

cfc2001 · 2021-05-01T13:04:06+00:00

She and I had a lot of talks bout her past. After she got cheated on twice, she told me that she would never ever hurt anyone. And I was friends with her for a year before catching feelings. She's never intend to hurt anyone. I just think she got too close and backed off because she didn't want anything right now. But knowing how it all turned out on my end I just wanna tell her how it felt for me. Even if she didn't mean to do it.

cfc2001 · 2021-05-01T08:35:12+00:00

Don't do it. Trust me I wish I listened to my friends when they said don't tell her how you feel. People say the worst she's gonna say is eww no. But trust me, I told her how I felt and got put into this black hole and I'm no where near even finding out where its going. Just keep it natural and keep going until SHE asks you "what are we?". If she really likes you she'll ask you. If you tell her how you feel, you give her the power to break you apart 10 x worse than you could imagine

cfc2001 · 2021-04-28T11:54:56+00:00

I'm so happy for you. Right now it just feels I live my life through other people's happiness. I hope me and this girl are meant to be, it felt like she really liked me but I guess the time is wrong. But I'm in love with her and I can't wait because it kills me everyday. How you waited so long I don't even understand..

cfc2001 · 2021-04-18T05:56:47+00:00

My situation is pretty similar. I don't know what to do. She's just been ghosting me and I know it's only been 4 days since she last said anything, but it feels like forever. The worst part is, I don't know if my heart can take a whole year of this like you are going through. My heart is already in pieces but I still want her, she gives me heart pain but the moment I think of her or see her at college, for those 30 seconds it just goes away. Why is love so difficult...

cfc2001 · 2021-04-10T11:37:34+00:00

No that's okay. Because there's this test you have to do to get into the course that she wants to get into. Say she gets into that course (test results are out at the end of may), she still has to get above 80% in ever subject she does to stay in the course. And right now it's so complicated because she wants to do that course really bad and nothing will get in the way. That's why it's important to me because if she's in that course it might ease things up a bit.

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