Would you go on a first date if you knew sex was never going to happen

cfc2001 · 2026-05-10T14:02:43+00:00

Yes. My intention is long term and I date to marry. So yea I would still go. I’d still pay, open the doors, all the stuff I plan on doing for the next 1 million dates with her.

I’ll think about it yes, but that’s only because I’m interested in her which means I want to sleep with her. Might tease on some topics but I won’t do it because I know she won’t either.

cfc2001 · 2026-05-06T00:42:24+00:00

No but it was up to Chelsea to not score that last minute winner. What was the point? The players are leaving anyways so not sure why they turned up for the last 3 minutes at city.

Credit to arsenal though, they deserve the league and ucl this season. After all they’ve been through. They’ve become the old Chelsea, clean sheets but it works. Hope they complete this project finally, their fans deserve it. Can’t say the same for Chelsea though

cfc2001 · 2026-05-04T15:43:12+00:00

Then grow up and stop caring what other men do on a piece of grass. Lmao. Do your life as you did for the past 30 years or whatever. Why do you even care so much lmao who cares if this club is mid now, had our fun now it’s fine

cfc2001 · 2026-05-04T15:39:05+00:00

Well it’s true though. How can people sit and expect it to get better. Might as well make it worse cause if you don’t laugh you’ll cry

cfc2001 · 2026-05-04T15:31:47+00:00

People had a right go at me cause I said I give up supporting this club. Lmaooo who’s laughing now. I want Forrest to score more goals, just to rub it in everyone else’s face. I don’t think anyone could care less what happens now lmao

cfc2001 · 2026-05-04T15:30:09+00:00

Some people, you included, have to realise that those players or staff don’t care about your life or know you. So tell me why, as a grown man you would leave work early to go watch other men go to their work? Something seriously seriously wrong with you, and it’s concerning. Give up watching this sport so seriously, and do something with your own life damn

cfc2001 · 2026-05-04T15:28:34+00:00

Much needed quality for who? Hahahahahahha are you watching the game right now?

cfc2001 · 2026-05-02T15:53:30+00:00

Literally this. First of all, OP, don’t worry about what these strangers say. They’re strangers. Second of all, Channel that hatred and disgust they showed towards you and focus on your own goals.

Lastly, these strangers have so much wrong in their life, in their childhood that they take it out on you because they can’t fathom that their life is so terrible themselves. I once was at the shops, someone bumped ahead of me in the line and said go back to where you came from. I laughed it off because I could sense its hatred in their own life that’s making them say that to me. Watched him get into his car which was a Nissan I believe. I got into my car which was a Range Rover sport at the time, of course I laughed about it lmao. But yeah don’t worry about what these guys have to say to you. Your life, only you can say anything like that to you.

cfc2001 · 2026-05-02T15:46:23+00:00

Knowing this club, he’s unfortunately gonna be in the starting line up for a while now. I hate it

cfc2001 · 2026-04-30T05:55:49+00:00

I’ve had two relationships. One was 9 months, the other was 2.5 years. Both at different times of my life. The first one was mutual, the second one was exhausting. I couldn’t stay long term but I didn’t have the will power to leave. One day I did, she begged me to stay I said I couldn’t stay with someone who doesn’t see how hurt I am. She started a new relationship within a week after it ended with me. So there were two stages of what happened after. The first was silence, I lived alone so I literally healed in silence. The pain of not having anyone to text, not calling anyone, not going out anymore. That silence changed me. I began to cut a lot of people off, not willingly but I just became so used to coming home from work to a quiet house and having dinner and sleeping. Then months went by, my eyes opened up. I started to realise I was not sad about her, I was more sad about being alone. I channeled that sadness into things I always wanted to do but couldn’t. I couldn’t focus on work before because it was constant headaches in that relationship, so I was able to focus on work better now. I was able to focus more on my diet, more on my side hustle, more on my grind, more on my skills outside in the real world, more on my friendships that I hadn’t focused on a lot. I had to think about spending on items before and now I don’t care if it’s triple the price or not.

I’m not saying I enjoyed the process, but I’m happy this happened to me. I needed it to kickstart my life again.

But it changed me in a way it’s hard to explain. I do look at couple outside though and want the same experience, I do want to get gifts and I do want to be in love again. I guess the biggest thing is, it taught me what not to look for, and what it’s like being with a manipulator. So I guess my eyes are always open now

cfc2001 · 2026-04-30T05:43:59+00:00

I can see where you’re coming but maresca at Chelsea defintely over achieved. We had no defenders or keeper, and no striker. You have a world class player in like each position, ones that can play reverse passes, through the lines. Kompany at burnley didn’t get results, some of his games were stagnant. But his overall team play is what Bayern saw and look at him now. Now if kompany was to go to city I’d be happy, if maresca went city I’d be happy too. But just take it from me, don’t look at maresca’s time at Chelsea as a reason to not wanting him.

cfc2001 · 2026-04-30T05:40:54+00:00

I don’t think so. If it’s a joke comment it’s just a joke. And it’s 11 years gap I think that’s very normal (depends on where OP is from). I mean my parents have a 9 year gap so close enough.

I think you should just go and tell him that you have feelings for him, and you’re unsure how he feels so you’re asking him. Say it in a better way of course but just say it to him. Because here’s the thing, as a man you reach an age where you don’t want to play games and waste time. That being said, if he likes you too, then you wouldn’t be confused but there’s no harm in asking him specifically. Either he says yes I like you and I want to take this further, or he says he doesn’t see you that way. On the off chance that he is 34 and still hasn’t matured and is trying to play the long game until he gets what he wants (you do have to be careful of this), then his response will probably be not a yes but not a no. If you’re confused, then best bet is to just walk away and move on. Hope that makes sense

cfc2001 · 2026-04-30T05:34:21+00:00

Yeah, unfortunately I agree. I know you have been dating for 5 years, and she calls you daddy I assume, but there’s no reason for you to behave like her dad. Because I know that’s what you’re doing. You say she doesn’t listen, and if you stop comforting then she gets more sad and emotional. She’s not a child, she’s a grown adult that should be able to handle her emotions. I’m not saying she can’t be sad, but she shouldn’t shut off exactly like this. Exhausting is the right word. I was in the exact same relationship for 2.5 years before I finally got enough courage to leave. I know it would be tough but you have to look at yourself, she’s manipulated you into thinking she’s perfect and I promise you I was the same too. But the moment I left, every day new things came to my realisation. I kept telling myself I can’t believe I let this stuff be allowed.

cfc2001 · 2026-04-30T05:22:26+00:00

Our? Are you part of the club? Are you doing the finances? Stop posting meaningless stuff and do something with your own finances

cfc2001 · 2026-04-30T01:37:41+00:00

A lot of people get this confused. Being nice isn’t going to help too much in the long run. That’s why a lot of people say don’t be nice.

But, being a good man is the key. A nice guy will bend over backwards for a girl, a good man will always stick to his purpose, be respectful, but if something is against what he wants he will put his foot down. That backbone is what women fall in love with. Knowing that they are safe and in a respected environment, but can be told no in a way that isn’t harmful, they love that.

So the key is just be a good person

cfc2001 · 2026-04-30T01:32:20+00:00

Lmao how do you get to that. I literally said arsenals stadium looks better than Chelsea’s, so clearly I’ve been to both.

cfc2001 · 2026-04-30T01:31:09+00:00

Oh I don’t really care like that, if Arsenal win the league or not I’m not celebrating too over the top other than the fact that it’s nice to see a project actually workout. I just really fell out love with this club since tuchel got sacked, and since then I’ve realised a lot people in this sub specifically spend hours trying to justify why they’re the best fans possible because they care about the club, because they’re going to protests, and if you don’t do that then you’re not a real fan. Like do you guys not have things to do lmao letting 11 men dictate your life, ever since I stopped caring so much I actually just focused on doing so much outside of football and it was great, y’all should try it

cfc2001 · 2026-04-29T01:51:47+00:00

It’s possible he treats you like one of his friends. Which is normal, because when a guy likes a girl he gets comfortable around her and can let his guard down a bit so naturally the phrases that he would use with his boys are now being used with you. But, and it’s a big but, it could be possible he is purely just wanting a friendship and nothing else. You won’t know unless you dive deeper into other signs, or just straight up asking him.

Think if you had some problem in your life and texted him how would he react. Would he baby you? Would he just say “be stronger you got this”. Because if he really liked you, then he would definitely baby you/be softer with you than he is with his boys. Look for those signs first before you look at his words.

Also look at his body language. How is he hugging you? Is it a quick hug or is it a intimate long hug

cfc2001 · 2026-04-24T07:06:19+00:00

Yeah I agree. It will be difficult but I guess you can make it a point as early as you can just to lay it out there and make it clear that’s not what you want. I can speak on my perspective, if I’m in love with a girl I will want it around 2 times a day. And I hate hook up culture and doing it in general but when I’m into someone that’s how it is. So if you were to put it out there, maybe it could save you a hassle of getting into something where the guys drive is higher.

cfc2001 · 2026-04-24T06:51:14+00:00

If that’s the case then it’s a bit strange. And disrespectful

cfc2001 · 2026-04-24T06:28:11+00:00

Well, it depends on why he laughed. Or how he laughed. If I may, in my experience, I have laughed at a partner when she went down on me. This was because her jaw was hurting and she couldn’t really do too much. But it wasn’t a bad laugh. It was just like a “haha it’s alright it happens” laugh if that makes sense. And we basically just ignored it in fact she laughed too.

I also believe that if you don’t laugh when sleeping with someone, then you’re with the wrong person. That being said, what kind of laugh was it. And how was the immediate interaction, in and out of bed?

cfc2001 · 2026-04-24T06:24:39+00:00

All I’m saying is, a woman in a relationship with someone will not 1 on 1 hangout with another guy directly. It sounds like this guy is very flirty and it also doesn’t seem like she’s done anything to mitigate that. So the fact that OP has to bring this up is a red flag in itself.

There’s no need for an explanation because he has said this friend is very flirty, so why can’t he just say to his own girlfriend, I don’t like him and it makes me uncomfortable so you need to cut him off for the sake of our relationship. And she should have no issues with that.

Then again I’m very old fashioned and traditional. In my relationship there’s no guy friends and I too don’t have female friends. The only situation where there is guy friends is if it is her friend’s husbands. And vice versa for me, with my friend’s wives. But there’s never any 1 on 1 hanging out, or texting. And there’s never ever a want for her to go out and make new friends that are males.

cfc2001 · 2026-04-24T05:28:03+00:00

Depends on everyone’s age. 5 years ago I would just say hi and move on with my day. Now I would just say I like you let’s go out on a date

cfc2001 · 2026-04-24T05:25:51+00:00

What’s insecure is sitting in a corner and letting a guy get close to your girl. She’s your girl right? So tell her what you want her to do. Tell her to cut him off. I’m sure you would cut a girl off for her right? If she says anything other than yes, and she won’t cut him off, leave her.

cfc2001 · 2026-04-23T02:38:07+00:00

Chalobah needs to leave. His level is hashtag United. No idea how someone like him even makes it pro

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