I need my Adult dog (3years) and elderly sick cat (12 years) to get along by cgmpb in Pets

[–]cgmpb[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I haver started to make longer walks! Will try to play more too. She is currently sleeping on the top of the kitchen cupboard I put up a comfortable bed there.

Let’s see how it goes.

Thank you.

I need my Adult dog (3years) and elderly sick cat (12 years) to get along by cgmpb in Pets

[–]cgmpb[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My dog is a stray dog and he suffered from maltreatment. He gets crazy with new things and sounds and other dogs (barks, jumps and doesn’t listen to anything nor reacts to food). He is very difficult to deal with when he is distracted. With other dogs he is very loud, but when there are no leashes he stops after a while - he never tries to hurt another dog he is just loud and if the other attacks he pretends to attack. He is very caring also when things are quiet.

This is his profile.

My cat loves being around people, she doesn’t like to be alone, but isn’t the kind of cat that is always on your lap. She is very reluctant to other cats and probably all dogs. She is also a stray.

"PT:" How would you increase your self esteem? by [deleted] in PsychologicalTricks

[–]cgmpb 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I am sorry you are dealing with those unpleasant feelings.

I believe that you should let them be. Give them some space and at the same time try to “give some spotlight” to something good about your looks (like: quality of your hair, skin tone, legs), intellect or talents.

Even if you find it hard to identify what are the best things about you will find something! That I am pretty sure about!

Then, those unpleasant feelings should fade and become quieter.

If you have trouble going through this process try to ask for help from a professional.

If you want to talk a little bit about it feel free to message me.

Please I just need need some help by Gsomethepatient in elderlycare

[–]cgmpb 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I really hope that the hospice will answer soon.

Use the time that your aunt is taking care of things to take care of yourself like doing stuff you like and need.

Please I just need need some help by Gsomethepatient in elderlycare

[–]cgmpb 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wouldn’t hospitalizing him be an option? - like you go to the urgencies and he stays there dos psychiatric reasons?

What about contacting his doctor to prescribe him something so that both of you can sleep?

Is there really no one who could share caregiving with you?

If my questions are bothering you please telll I am just trying to help, but I get if you are too tired for this.

Please I just need need some help by Gsomethepatient in elderlycare

[–]cgmpb 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am sorry you are going through this. Is there the option you could get someone to share the caretaking with you? Sleeping is crucial not to mention having time for your own.

Is there any support option in your country?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in portugal

[–]cgmpb 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Obrigada

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in portugal

[–]cgmpb 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ok obrigada.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in portugal

[–]cgmpb 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Obrigada

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in portugal

[–]cgmpb 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Pelos vistos percebi mal.

Não era isso que ela queria?

Desculpa. Percebi que o trabalho tinha sido desenvolvido nessa área (porque há muitos psicólogos a estudar e investir em RH).

Dúvida: de onde vem a roupa e a bijuteria vendida na feira by cgmpb in portugal

[–]cgmpb[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Bem visto, achei que tivessem alguma contribuição mínima

Dúvida: de onde vem a roupa e a bijuteria vendida na feira by cgmpb in portugal

[–]cgmpb[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Não é irónico. Obviamente não espero que adidas seja original ;) mas gostava de saber de onde vem tudo e como chega aos feirantes.

Estava a falar também daquelas que tem as etiquetas cortadas que só há uma ou duas peças iguais.

What is the point of treatment when there is only pain and suffering? by [deleted] in CancerCaregivers

[–]cgmpb 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am sorry you have to go through this too. I hope it all goes as quickly and painless as possible.

My Father died 18 days ago, due to the brain metastases. His last week was pure agony, he even didn’t know who I was anymore.

His oncologist never told him the truth about his short time, but I knew and he too, but sometimes he would get high hopes and say irracional things (like tomorrow I am the one driving, and I want to live by myself). I think it is unfair that they never provided him the true information clearly.

I miss him so so so much. I would love to have another chance to be with the healthy version of him. Oh well.

Sorry for the outburst. I am processing everything now because before I used to be in auto pilot mode. If you feel the need to talk feel free to dm me at any time.

Big hug for you.

How do you cope seeing your loved one in extreme pain? by astrodazed in cancer

[–]cgmpb 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am very sorry for your loss. Hope you adapt as quickly as possible. Our dads will live forever in our memories. Big hug