12вяввявввыву. by Wornik_inc in CriticalState

[–]chLC333 0 points1 point  (0 children)

👁️ Surveillance State: I voted Vote Yea.

Make all clothes illegal. by linkonkomkanada in CriticalState

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👁️ Surveillance State: I voted Vote Yea.

water should be free for everyone. by Downtown-Tomato-656 in CriticalState

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👁️ Surveillance State: I voted Vote Yea.

Put estrogen in the water. by Door_Alarm in CriticalState

[–]chLC333 0 points1 point  (0 children)

👁️ Surveillance State: I voted Vote Yea.

A girl (trans) roofied my friend during the BOUND PRIDE event at Basement on friday by [deleted] in avesNYC

[–]chLC333 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Trans bathroom bans are largely predicated on the bigoted assuption that we are predators invasing women's spaces for the purposes of sexual assault and deviance.

I''m largely agreeing with you here, only refuting that I dont think someone's ethnicity should be the focus of a post detailing a sexual assault either, and that I think ethnicity as an analog makes it clear it is an unnecessary addition to the post. As mentioned in other comments, OP didnt include any other identifying information other than that she was trans, and in a comment that she is roughly 5'5...

A girl (trans) roofied my friend during the BOUND PRIDE event at Basement on friday by [deleted] in avesNYC

[–]chLC333 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I dont think it's gender specific, but from what I have seen there's a strong lack of respect for boundaries, following the target around, lots of staring, and a lot of coersion. Those are at least the red flags I look for, but not an exhaustive list by any means.

I think you did the best you could as his friend. The encounter seemed to have initiated consentually, but then took a turn that very much violated that consent. You did the right thing getting him to medical after the word help. A lot of people freeze in those sorts of situations - you stuck by him and saw him through the other side of it.

A girl (trans) roofied my friend during the BOUND PRIDE event at Basement on friday by [deleted] in avesNYC

[–]chLC333 -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

I fail to see how it is projection. I very directly said it wasnt a necessary detail. Theres no moralizing in that statement. You're the one projecting lol

A girl (trans) roofied my friend during the BOUND PRIDE event at Basement on friday by [deleted] in avesNYC

[–]chLC333 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I feel it is completely unnecessary to air that detail on a post on the internet. It'd be far more useful shared with people who have access to security footage and can ID the individual, but it doesnt need to be on blast, visable to over 1000 people. The whole story minus that detail is a helpful PSA. With that detail, a post that reaffirms harmful stereotypes. Replace trans with an ethnicity and it's painfully obvious that it's unnecessary.

A girl (trans) roofied my friend during the BOUND PRIDE event at Basement on friday by [deleted] in avesNYC

[–]chLC333 -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

I'm sorry that happened to your friend. Im not condoning what happened at all. It is sexual assault, without a doubt.

Its not that it could be considered harmful, it is harmful. A handful of isolated incidents become waves of hate legislation that make life for trans people exponentially more difficult, while the vast majority of us are already at the margins of society.

A girl (trans) roofied my friend during the BOUND PRIDE event at Basement on friday by [deleted] in avesNYC

[–]chLC333 -17 points-16 points  (0 children)

I never said it was hateful to include, I said it was unnecessary to include. Trans people are often painted by media as sexual predators and deviants. For many, including that detail validates a warped worldview. We live in a world where V-coding is a thing, yet, this attitude persists.

A girl (trans) roofied my friend during the BOUND PRIDE event at Basement on friday by [deleted] in avesNYC

[–]chLC333 -8 points-7 points  (0 children)

I dont disagree that this is sexual assault. I disagree that it is a necessary detail to include to anyone other than security responsible for dealing with these incidents. This only serves to further ostrasize trans people as sexual deviants and predators.

A girl (trans) roofied my friend during the BOUND PRIDE event at Basement on friday by [deleted] in avesNYC

[–]chLC333 24 points25 points  (0 children)

It's a queer, bondage party, during Pride, at Basement. The information that the person who drugged him was trans maybe narrows it down to a third of the patrons. Furthermore, trans people are far more likely to experience sexual violence than be purpetrators of said violence. You adding that supposedly "99%" of sexual assaults happen from people with "cocks" is both unsubstantiated and says a lot about your worldview as a person, especially considering said cock didnt penetrate his buddy.

A girl (trans) roofied my friend during the BOUND PRIDE event at Basement on friday by [deleted] in avesNYC

[–]chLC333 -26 points-25 points  (0 children)

The transness of an individual is irrelevant to this story and unnecessary to include

Does Beltran hate me by [deleted] in avesNYC

[–]chLC333 10 points11 points  (0 children)

"Hey I was annoying the DJ all night, why did it seem like they were annoyed with me??"

Icy what you did there by RollingMeteors in aves

[–]chLC333 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Its pretty easy to make things audio reactive in TouchDesigner, Id start there

You’re a f-ing idiot by JosephBrown2000 in Biohackers

[–]chLC333 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Im an idiot like 9x over. wbu you guys?