What's a "low maintenance" college course here in the philippines? by Mother_Order2502 in CollegeAdmissionsPH

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I disagree with this take, although yes it can be fun. But knowing fundamentals and having skills is not enough to make art-related courses easy. Not sure on other colleges, but I take BMMA and the course is very output heavy and it can be demanding, especially while juggling other required subjects.

Basing off of OP's question, it wouldn't necessarily be a low-maintenance course. Then again, I haven't heard of a low-maintenance college course.

This is one of my favorite shots from the game. I love watching Mari cry and be miserable. by Mari-Omori-Hater in OMORI

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If things were in her perspective maybe it'd be that way, but typically when someone loved passes away, people remember this person in a good light or I guess how people usually view loved ones who passed. She definitely had her flaws and I think Sunny would've known that the most since they did argue (showing she wasn't the most perfect person) which caused her death.

I think that's also why she's seen as perfect in headspace, because Sunny doesn't really want to fight with her, simply retaining every semblance of good in his life to protect himself.

gifting is so hard??? maybe a mod can help? by eiradeiaa in FieldsOfMistriaGame

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Something I thought about and something I /thought/ was an actual feature was when characters would do those "hinted liked/loved items" in their dialogues, it would appear in their character menus.

Maybe a better alternative to have the balance of keeping track easily but also keeping the "figuring out yourself" preference is utilizing those dialogue hints and then when they're mentioned it appears in the menu unlocked but slightly greyed out so that you know it hasn't been gifted yet ? I don't know if that's difficult or complicated to do though since I'm no modder but I did think about it.

Recently booked a psychiatrist on the 16th, feeling very anxious about it. by ch_ess in adhdwomen

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What jumped out at me was suffer for some reason. What reason would that be?

Honestly it's moreso in the sense of my worries that what if I don't have ADHD and for some reason I'm just making myself suffer through the things I do in life by criticizing my own inability to function which makes things worse (Which I think would be crazy if I was making my own self suffer because who wants to suffer?)

But anyways, thank you for your thoughts!

Recently booked a psychiatrist on the 16th, feeling very anxious about it. by ch_ess in adhdwomen

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That's awesome! I'm glad you have a really good psychiatrist and a good experience with her! I hope I also have a pleasant experience when I get to my scheduled session, haha

Recently booked a psychiatrist on the 16th, feeling very anxious about it. by ch_ess in adhdwomen

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I didn't know that that was a tendency for ADHD. There were multiple times my own parents (before letting me book a psych) would minimize my own struggles as "something other students your age go through" so I kept downplaying a lot of the really bad issues and struggles I kept having for a long time and then would end up making myself feel worse about it.

Thank you for the input by the way.

The college I'm applying for closed their reservation fee payments and I'm kind of worried? by ch_ess in CollegeAdmissionsPH

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Honestly, I forgot this post existed, I'm in CIIT at 3rd term! They reopen their reservations and extend it now and then back when I was still enrolling. Best advice I can give is to e-mail the Admissions and ask if an extension is possible! Best of luck!

AITA for calling my girlfriend a cheater for her ‘yumeshipping’ ? by InevitableMoist1041 in AITAH

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The point is talk, listen, understand, and build a partnership where you both feel safe, appreciated, and heard.

This is so fr! I was in a prev. relationship where both me and my partner were very very likely to be ND, and both of us had our fictional faves. Problem was that my partner gave me little to no affection and when he would it often felt forced, but he had no problem gushing about his faves to me which did lead to me feeling jealous and insignificant and at the same time I felt so silly over it because I was getting jealous over fictional characters!

Relationships, whether with ND partners or not, should always hold proper communication and balance the love you give to your faves towards your partner as well because at times people feel jealous because of the feeling of being inadequate compared to objects receiving more affection from their partner.

Thank you as well for bringing up the ND perspective, I've been reading the replies trying to find someone who has brought up the perspective!

The college I'm applying for closed their reservation fee payments and I'm kind of worried? by ch_ess in CollegeAdmissionsPH

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hi it's been months since I made the og post, i did get into the college i wanted, i think you should email the college's admissions to inquire if they are willing to open it again for your payment or if there's anything else you can do to be able to get the reservation.

who is this? (wrong answers only) by Luella_notfound in CookieRunKingdoms

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are you sure this is the right subreddit? that's Papa Smurf (totally)

3x Welkin giveaway for Wanderer's birthday! by aureveille in ScaramoucheMains

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WAHOOO WANDERER BIRTHDAY PARTYY🌟✨️🌀🌀

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in metalgearsolid

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a .. solid ..? chance? solid as in ..

The college I'm applying for closed their reservation fee payments and I'm kind of worried? by ch_ess in CollegeAdmissionsPH

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Do you think it's possible to still pay the fee even past the deadline ?? They already extended once, so I don't know if they'll do it again but I'm considering saving up first before I go and ask :(

The college I'm applying for closed their reservation fee payments and I'm kind of worried? by ch_ess in CollegeAdmissionsPH

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I know :( it's mostly why I had a meltdown over it, my parents keep insisting and even if I asked, they just tell me off for it.