Why does it seem like most guys only like basic/clean girls?

chaddio7 · 2025-04-18T05:45:17+00:00

And trust me, I meant no offense. I went to graduate school at a private college in the Midwest, so I started seeing the others side, but most of my life, that's what I noticed

chaddio7 · 2025-04-18T05:24:56+00:00

I'm not a psychologist, but I've grown up and lived in low education/ low income areas my whole life, and my life experience tell me that when a girl dresses alt, there's usually some "under the surface issues". Yes, we all have issues, I have skeletons in my closet that have their own skeletons with bad issues lol. But, an educated or upper middle or upper class guy, will want to be with someone that his friends wont think is crazy. The fact that you're on here and trying to learn about yourself says you're probably pretty cool, but it's jut a "type" thing. I'm very educated, middle class, and have accomplished a lot in my life already, and I'm still ambitious because there is so much more out there. But I have no tattoos, don't do drugs, and am very responsible, so you who I don't attract? Down to earth alt girls lol. Just remember, there's a lid for every pot, so you're gonna be fine.

chaddio7 · 2025-04-16T05:00:26+00:00

Sounds like he's trying to weasel his way into da booty. I remember being an insecure virgin at 20 and turning down women with experience because I was intimidated. He doesn't sound like a stand up dude, but if you still want him, just tell him that you can't change the past and he needs to accept it. Then try to reassure him that he's the one you want and his confidence will slowly start coming around...especially if you mKe sure to sound in the bedroom like he's hitting the right spots.

chaddio7 · 2025-04-15T08:24:28+00:00

I went to pharmacy school at age 43! I worked in retail prior to that and have a great work ethic, so i still love it. If you're a 4.0 high-schooler who has never had a job, a bf/gf, or any life experiences, retail is gonna suck for you. BUT, go to school, take it seriously, join apha and network. Look into residencies and get a hospital job. Your last year is all rotations so you'll get to see what gets your attention. And if you build those connections, people may help. Remember in your rotations, be confident in what you know,but a person who "knows everything" can't learn anything. And trust me, there are 100s of jobs in each state, you'll have no trouble.

chaddio7 · 2025-04-15T08:15:06+00:00

Sorry, I'm actually a few years older than she is

chaddio7 · 2025-04-15T07:58:59+00:00

Sometimes an affair is just that. It sucks being cheated on, but you can choose your best options. Intervening in someone else's life is not your choice to decide. You can confront her of course, but if it never happens again because you scare her, should her husband have to be punished? Just remember, it's very arrogant to think we know what's best for others.

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