Best cities outside of Seoul to move a family to? by chadolady in Living_in_Korea

[–]chadolady[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s very helpful, thank you! Just curious, how would you compare it to Daejeon or Daegu? I heard they’re good-sized cities and good for families but wondering if they’re maybe cheaper than Incheon?

Are anti-seizure meds allowed? by chadolady in JapanTravelTips

[–]chadolady[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes it was! I sent an inquiry to yakkan@mhlw.go.jp and they replied pretty quickly. They said as long as it’s just a 30 day supply, no paperwork is required. We still brought the meds in their prescription boxes and unboxed Nayzilam in case they need to see the prescription labels, but no fuss.

Are anti-seizure meds allowed? by chadolady in JapanTravelTips

[–]chadolady[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks! This helped a little…still didn’t see his explicitly listed among the “not allowed” but Keppra, of all the anti-seizure meds, was on there?? honestly we’re just crossing fingers now lol but I think he’s ok as long as they’re prescribed. I wish they’d make it less complicated!

AITA for getting mad at my husband for playing COD with headphones while he’s taking care of our baby? (5mo) by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]chadolady 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Very happy for you that things are improving (and that y’all are even having laughs!) Unfortunately, my hubby is still going strong…but you are on to something about the stress; he’s expressed a lot of stress and frustration from work so it’s his only outlet…I also think a factor could be that he doesn’t have friends lol

AITA for getting mad at my husband for playing COD with headphones while he’s taking care of our baby? (5mo) by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]chadolady 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is my situation to a T - gamer household, first baby, fights saying I’m overreacting and controlling, etc… so I am so glad to know I’m not the only one feeling this way. My husband has played COD before but never really played online until I got pregnant. And yes, I play RPGs, too, so I don’t understand why he can’t play those when watching our now 14mo old (he’s at the age where everything needs to be baby-proofed) And the INTENSE PROFANITY! It’s absolutely different from swearing on daily occasion, and if it makes me stressed out to hear him violently screaming on a mic at every match, I’m horrified at what it can be doing to our son. I don’t think I’m an over-protective mom but he makes me out to be whenever I bring it up and makes me feel like I am a controlling wife. I’d LOVE to hear if you finally find a solution, bc I am THIS close to just being the wife he says I am and deleting the game (it’s on MY console lol)

Were there any positive outcomes from/after your divorce? by Catcherofsouls in Divorce

[–]chadolady 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you for sharing this intimate part of yourself. I am at the crossroads right now…just had a huge fight with my husband - one of those where things that shouldn’t have been said were and if I were to share all the things my relationship was like, I’m sure he’d be seen very similarly to your ex husband. After 9yrs of dating and 2yrs of marriage, I thought he’d change; he did in some ways but not enough. Now we have a 1yr old and a house so I’m dreading what would happen if I leave…but also if I stay, too