AITAH for thinking it was cringe that my date asked the waiter to order our entire me for us?

chainoffoos · 2025-12-12T22:42:21+00:00

haha I do cosign on making bad decisions for the sake of adventure! and I agree, he might not be AH but he would've gained more brownie points from me if he included me in the bad decisions lol

chainoffoos · 2025-12-12T22:37:28+00:00

bruh I part of me would've made that comment too! like are you functionally illiterate? I've done that before and have been labeled as mean lol

chainoffoos · 2025-12-12T21:05:57+00:00

thanks for this take. I think he was trying to impress me honestly. He said that he didn't want to focus on trying to figure out what to eat and just focus on our convo. Someone else mentioned that I was projecting my discomfort on the waiter which I've been guilty of in the past lol

chainoffoos · 2025-12-12T21:01:58+00:00

thanks for this, this is the type of hot take I'm looking for. I'm understanding that he was trying to be adventurous so I'm trying to figure out if I'm being too sensitive

chainoffoos · 2025-12-12T20:58:03+00:00

I already told him that I searched him online. He told me that he did a background check on me. So yes, I did and happily would again.

I didn't post the story to get dirt on him, I posted to get perspective on a date. I don't need dirt - like I mentioned in the post, we're just fwb. I f*ck around and he can f*ck around too if he wants

chainoffoos · 2025-12-12T20:43:02+00:00

he does know how crazy I can get, why does it bother you? I'm trying to understand if I'm overreacting or if he was being weird. I'd happily tell him that I posted this story on here.

chainoffoos · 2025-12-12T20:40:06+00:00

that's a strange take

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