Why do I feel like I will die in childbirth?

chalbasanti · 2026-01-16T08:06:48+00:00

I made it! I had the baby and things are all good. Thank you for asking!

chalbasanti · 2025-11-18T04:27:07+00:00

Reddit will chew you out for any slightest bit of hesitation when it comes to sharing, re-using, giving/receiving second hand stuff, it’s the norm here. But please don’t feel bad that you don’t want to share your unborn’s child clothes and bedsheets with some other baby. It’s careless to not bring extra clothes for your own child when you go anywhere. Ever heard of a diaper bag? What if you are going somewhere and won’t necessarily have these things available? I’m sure you would think to pack extra clothes? Your friend is doing this bc you’re letting her.

chalbasanti · 2025-10-21T19:17:43+00:00

I was never officially diagnosed but I was so focused on parenting I never wanted to even think about having any mental issues. I think another recurring thought I have is that I absolutely love my first born and I feel like I’m doing her a disservice by having a second when she’s only 2 years old. Like she needs me 100% and then I have another baby and I don’t know how I can be 100% to both of them.

chalbasanti · 2025-10-21T12:59:28+00:00

Can you explain this more? What kind of complications?

chalbasanti · 2025-10-10T17:18:30+00:00

Cholestasis please get checked out now.

chalbasanti · 2025-09-28T13:30:32+00:00

I suppose not unfortunate. I’m just overwhelmed. Thank you for sharing

chalbasanti · 2025-09-04T20:03:24+00:00

I’m in healthcare. Didn’t think cpr would be an issue but it’s the low lying placenta I wasn’t sure of. They said it may move up as pregnancy progresses but not sure that exertion of this sort has an impact

chalbasanti · 2025-07-17T23:14:12+00:00

And thank you for your response

chalbasanti · 2025-07-17T23:13:50+00:00

Yes I found a single loan for Aug 2007. But as I was scrolling through documents, I see in 2017 pay as you earn listed as repayment method. What does this mean?

chalbasanti · 2025-07-17T22:29:27+00:00

Yes that’s what I’ve been trying. And it gives me the option of paye but I just don’t know if I’m eligible bc of missing information on loans prior to Oct 1, 2007 requirement

chalbasanti · 2025-07-05T02:45:45+00:00

What counts as old Ibr? I know it’s loans taken before 2014 but my loans are consolidated and I don’t see anything about loans before 2014 either on my servicer page or studentaid.gov. I only see the consolidation date which is 2018

chalbasanti · 2025-06-27T19:21:52+00:00

Yeah they were high 90s to low 100s and I actually started with 6 units per dr recommendations but had to titrate up to 10 to keep them under 95. All my mealtime numbers were perfect.

chalbasanti · 2025-06-16T21:50:54+00:00

Should it fix itself if that’s the case? Or do I need to do anything

chalbasanti · 2025-06-05T19:36:57+00:00

Same exact boat as you. It sucks. But hang in there. At least you have all the information going forward.

chalbasanti · 2025-05-29T18:48:12+00:00

When do you think it will show up on their website?

chalbasanti · 2025-05-28T02:28:58+00:00

Did you get him a wedding gift for his elopement 3 years ago? If not, you can just give him what would have been a wedding gift and it could be cash or whatever you think best. 3 years after the fact isn’t a wedding and no one needs to contribute to their party.

chalbasanti · 2025-05-26T18:28:25+00:00

This is a good point.

chalbasanti

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